saw a hot search online, which made me blinded.
first sees it once, and there is such an operation.
In theory, boys' behavior is "single by strength", but he can still have a girlfriend.
not only has a girlfriend, but also calmly asks her girlfriend to pay half the fare.
things are like this.
A man drove from Fujian to Nanchang , and his girlfriend's hometown is in Nanchang, and it was just the way home.
drive back the way, and the travel fee is about 800.
So the boy proposed the AA system, asking his girlfriend to pay half the travel fee.
is incredible and unheard of.
My girlfriend definitely wasn't happy when she heard this.
So the girl started arguing with the boy and planned to walk by himself in the service area with her luggage.
Although the boy later admitted his mistake, netizens are still puzzled by this.
"I really don't understand, how can I still have a girlfriend in this kind of operation?"
Let me say that, how do you view the AA system in love or marriage?
This reminds me of another marriage case.
A man and a woman have been married for 2 years and have always adhered to the AA system.
includes the wife having children after getting married, having confinement, no job or income, and the expenses during this period are also AA system.
At the beginning, the two of them formulated a family ledger, summarized the expenses every month, and then settled the accounts.
Later, the girl became numb.
She collected all the evidence, decisively filed for divorce, and fought for custody of the child, demanded that her ex-husband pay the child's support every month, and also fought for the house to the child. What harm will the
AA system cause to affect your relationship?
1. It will cause the relationship between two people to be "ununity"
What is the most important in intimate relationship?
is unity, unity, thinking about each other, and working together to manage a good relationship and family.
and AA system means that both people have some reservations in their hearts.
For example:
After two people get married, they also choose the AA system, including having children.
Money for giving birth, milk powder for children, diapers, and various living expenses at home.
From children's education expenses to small amounts of dollars to AA system. What's the point of such a marriage?
sounds suffocating.
Even if you choose the AA system in love, it will quickly decline in the relationship between two people.
AA system is not suitable for the environment we live in.
Some people say: Some young people abroad insist on the AA system.
Can that be the same?
AA system will inevitably make the distance between the two hearts farther and farther. Even if one party encounters trouble, the other party will not help easily, but will first consider your own gains and losses.
2. It will make two people more and more "selfish"
AA-based relationship will not have a way out, it is certain.
For example:
A girl gets pregnant and has a baby, and then works as a full-time housewife at home.
If she has no income, her husband would ask her to pay half of the money for giving birth.
Will girls be disappointed at this time? Will you be desperate?
In the following marriage life, girls will only become increasingly disappointed in their attitude towards their husbands.
To the end, the relationship between the two will definitely collapse.The result of
AA is:
encountered a problem of interests, and both of them would only consider themselves and ignore the other person's feelings.
In the face of interests, they will decisively give up love, marriage, or even family.
From another perspective, the AA system will reduce each other's sense of responsibility and participation in the family.
The normal AA system often only occurs before the couple determines their relationship.
For example:
Boys and girls have a good impression of each other.
Boys invite girls to go out for dates, watch movies, and go shopping.
Boys invite girls to dinner and watch movies, and the girls will naturally invite boys to drink milk tea, go to the zoo and so on. AA system like
is a benign interaction.
Because feelings are mutually dedicated.
Boys give to girls, and girls will not accept it for granted, but will give boys timely feedback.
If each other doesn’t like each other and doesn’t care, the other party will not give you the AA opportunity at all, but will refuse to accept everything you give.
must distinguish the impact of the AA system under different states of emotions.
Today’s topic:
How do you view the AA system between couples (couples)?
Can you accept the AA system after marriage?
(Article pictures are from the Internet)
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