text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Chapter1
Because the way of thinking between men and women is different, men and women will have different opinions and attitudes in many things.
Take the disconnection as an example. Women may think that disconnection is just the cold war between the two sides in and . In a short time, the two will reconcile.
But men don’t think so. Men’s thinking is very direct. Once a woman breaks off from him, he will unilaterally think that the two have broken up.
This is true for my friend A Juan and her ex-boyfriend. After a fierce quarrel, she blocked the other party’s WeChat.
A Juan did this not to break up, but simply wanted to get angry with her boyfriend and let him coax him.
But she waited for more than half a month, and her boyfriend had never contacted her once. She couldn't help but take the initiative to find the other person, but she saw that her boyfriend had a new love.
The moment she saw her, her boyfriend was very surprised. When faced with her questioning, the other party replied: "Didn't we break up?"
At that moment, she realized that for a man, breaking up a relationship means breaking up; it turned out that after breaking up a relationship, the man could quickly devote himself to the next relationship.
A Juan regretted it. She said that she shouldn’t break the connection willfully, but what’s the use of regret?
Chapter2
Many women like to punish men with disconnection, thinking that this will allow men to lower their posture to coax themselves, but the facts prove that disconnection only brings the breakdown of feelings.
A man’s relationship has always come and go quickly. After a period of time, he will fall in love with others.
Time is so cruel. When you are still in place, the other party has already started a new life.
But, how long does it take to disconnect from the connection before a man falls in love with others?
Xiaojing has interviewed many people, and most women firmly believe that men will not fall in love with others so quickly, but men’s answers are surprising.
After listening to the man’s answer, you will find that many people have guessed wrongly.
short as one or two months
During the interview, many men told me that as long as there is a good choice, they can start a new relationship in just one or two months.
For relationships, men are not as addicted as women. Once two people are disconnected, they will start a new life again.
In the eyes of men, feelings are just a part of life. Of course there is good, and it is not unbearable not to bear it.
If he had long since had the idea of breaking up, he would have let it go faster. Maybe the day after the disconnection, he began to look for a new relationship.
If there are good choices around him, he will soon devote himself to new feelings and completely draw a line with the past feelings.
Very few men will immerse themselves in the past feelings and cannot come out. Even if he still thinks about it in his heart, he will not wait forever.
Men are realistic. For men, since the last relationship has ended, they should start a new relationship again.
This is the feeling in this world. It seems indestructible, but in fact it is vulnerable. As long as the two people are disconnected, everything will disappear in no time.
only lasts one or two years
For men who are still in love, letting go is an easy thing. You can start a new life in one or two months.
For men with deep affection, it is not easy to let go, but it is not completely impossible to let go.
After breaking off contact with your beloved woman, the man will be depressed for a while and will not start a new relationship too quickly.
But he will not let himself be depressed all the time, he will find ways to get out of the haze and bring his life back on track.
is different from women's long-term depression. Men have strong self-regulation ability. Even if they love deeply, they can completely let go of the past within one or two years.
Once you let go of the past, it will be a matter of time sooner or later, but it will not last more than two years at the latest.
In the eyes of men, two years has been a long time. He can allow himself to wait for two years, but he does not allow himself to be bound by the past.
A man has been working hard towards the life he wants, so how could he stop because of a relationship?
So women should know that no matter how deeply a man loves him, he will be able to fall in love with others again after one or two years.
Chapter3
If you are a woman, you may not be able to let go for a long time. Even if you meet an excellent person, you won’t fall in love too quickly.
But men are different. For men, love is not everything. He will not let love affect his original life.
When a woman breaks off from him, he will think it is a signal of breaking up and then quickly accept this fact.
After accepting this fact, he will quickly adjust his mindset, then start a new life and welcome a new relationship.
Most men are like this, women should not think that they will wait for you for the rest of their lives. Waiting is torment, no one wants to wait forever.
If you don’t want to face such a situation, then you’d better not break off contact with the man easily and manage your relationship well, so that happiness will always exist.
If you have broken off contact with a man, then stop illusions. It is the consequences you have caused by yourself. No matter how bitter you are, you have to swallow it yourself.
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