It’s an era now, and there are still family rules, and there are still five family rules. The evil mother-in-law proposed five rules for her daughter-in-law during her wedding night. Her husband: For your own good, I: Divorce.

What era is it now? There are still family rules, and there are still 5 family rules. Many women can't do such things. If you encounter this in the article, would you choose to divorce? On the night of marriage, I was treated unfairly by others. So, should we live our lives in the future? Then the woman chose to divorce.

I hope this matter can make everyone pay attention. Nowadays, everyone is equal in peacetime, so there is no need to set up unequal family rules. Doing this will only ruin all your hopes. Don’t happen like this tragedy again. What’s going on? Why is this happening? Let's take a look together. The evil mother-in-law proposed five rules for her daughter-in-law during her wedding night. Her husband: For your own good, I: Divorce.

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28-year-old Ms. Chen:

Many people say that I shouldn’t get divorced. I got married on the second day of my marriage. Even if it happened, at least I don’t respect the law, and I only got the marriage for one day. Divorce means second marriage, and it will be difficult to find a partner in the future.

For yourself and for the sake of the child in your stomach, you should not divorce. I want to say I have no choice, do you think I want to get a divorce? There is no choice at all. Let me talk about this matter, everyone will help me judge. If it were you, what would you do? I am from Maoming, Guangdong, and I married to Huazhou .

Huazhou is a relatively remote place. It takes more than three hours to get to Huazhou Station to get to your home, and then you have to take more than one hour of motorcycles. Overall, it is quite remote. When I got there, I didn't mind that it was poorer. Because I am marrying love, not money. I didn't have a drink when I got married.

didn't give much bride money. Their bride money is hundreds of thousands, at least 100,000, but I only have bride money of 30,000 yuan when I got married. On the contrary, my parents brought me 100,000 yuan. Of course not all are cash, some are gold and silver jewelry. I also heard from my mother that there were some things that my grandma left to me. It can be regarded as the last love left to me.

I originally thought that marrying love would be happy in this life, but I never expected that I regret getting married that night. To be precise, I regret marrying him. I chose to marry love, but how did he treat me? On the night of the wedding, my mother-in-law came over and told me, since you and my son are married, we will be a family in the future.

Let me talk about the five rules of our family. You must abide by it in the future. If you don’t abide by it, don’t blame me for being ruthless. If you are relieved, I came here like this before. Also, your husband also agrees with this matter. A family cannot live without rules. If there are no rules, how can you live without rules?

You will follow these 5 rules in the future. Then everyone can be at peace. Do you see that I and your father-in-law are doing so well? Isn’t it because there are rules? So what you have to abide by in the future is the rules. I looked at my husband with grievance. I hope my husband can say a few words for me. No matter what the rules are, they will limit my freedom.

My husband told me, it would be better if I have nothing to do, and my mother came here like this. Before this, my grandma and the others came here like this. I had nothing to say, I wanted to refute it, but they did not give me a chance to refute it. Then my mother-in-law told the five rules for everyone.

The first rule of the family is to follow the husband when they get married, but not the husband follows the son, and the mother-in-law without children.

means that you have to listen to your husband after getting married. If the husband is not at home, then follow his son. If my son is not at home, then you have to listen to my mother-in-law, that is, listen to me. Isn't this for this family? One of us three must be at home.

If you listen to us, we won’t be angry. We won’t be angry anymore. Hello, I, Hello, everyone. If you don’t listen to us, we will definitely be angry. If we are angry, we will definitely quarrel with you and even make some punishments. You don’t want to be like that either. Don’t talk about you anymore. Even I don’t want to be like this myself, so I can only restrain you. As long as you listen to us in everything, everything will be easy to say.

is for our home and for your own good, so you must listen to me, just one sentence, just listen to ours, you can ask for whatever we want you to do. But I can guarantee you that we won’t go too far and we will never let you do something that hurts you too much. You can rest assured about these. For our family, for you and for everyone, you must do this and must abide by this rule.

The second rule is that you can get up at 5:30 every day to cook breakfast for everyone.

Everyone needs breakfast. It's impossible to get me up and cook breakfast, right? In the future, let the daughter-in-law get up to make breakfast. I've come here like this before. The most important meal of the day is breakfast. It is better to make a meal. And after breakfast, I have to go out to dance ballroom dance . Your government has to go to work, so you have to get up at 5:30 to cook breakfast. We will know we will get up after you prepare breakfast.

Don’t think this is difficult. Just get used to it slowly. Go to bed early and get up early and get up early. You can just go to bed at around 9 o’clock in the evening. You can get up at around 9 o’clock in the evening and get up at around 5 o’clock on the second day. I used to do this, and I have been doing this for decades, and now I can finally get rid of it. I will leave it to you. In the future, when you have a daughter-in-law, you will tell your daughter-in-law that it will be enough to let your daughter-in-law do it. Now it is your turn to do it, and what I should do has been done.

The third rule is that you will have nothing to do with your parents in the future.

When you get married, you are from our family. Stop talking about you, I used to be like this. If you are with my son, then you are a part of our family, and your death is a ghost.

Don’t think about your parents’ affairs anymore, you have nothing to do with them. Since you have nothing to do with me, you can't help me if they want you to help in the future. If you don't help, then you have to tell us and help when we agree.

If we disagree, don’t help. Remember, you have to listen to us, and you have nothing to do with your parents anymore. Have your parents ever said to you that a married daughter is spilled out of water, and to your parents, you are spilled out of water. Your parents have nothing to do with you.

You have a relationship with us, you are a part of this family, so you must be responsible for this family. I do this for your own good. Many women will secretly help their parents' family. If you harm your own interests, why bother to help others? For you, your parents have nothing to do with you, so you don’t need to care about that much, just live with our family. This is also a reminder of your rules, which restricts you from doing this.

The fourth rule is that you must hand over all the money to keep for me to pay the salary in the future.

Even my son’s money is handed over to me for custody, let alone you. You are already part of this family, my son’s wife, my daughter-in-law. You will have to hand over all the money you have in the future to me and keep it in custody. It is not only responsible for me, but also for this family. Money is with me, and it is good to you. You young people spend money very quickly, but money is different from me. Money is very patient with me. Of course, if you want to spend money, you have to tell me in advance.

I will give you money to spend when I agree. If I disagree, you will not get the money. The purpose of my doing this is to control your spending situation. Money is hard-won. Although you make money, you have to leave it to me for custody. I am the head of the family.Even if you have any objections to this matter, you have to agree that I am the head of the family and whatever I say is what I say. I used to be like this, and I survived no matter how difficult it is. As long as you stick to the habit slowly, it will be great. If you have money, you will think about how to spend it. If you don’t have money, you won’t think about how to spend it. You are a part of this family, and you will always be for the good of this family. Although it is difficult at the beginning, you will get used to it slowly, and doing so can enhance the relationship between you and your wife.

The fifth rule is to leave everything at home to you in the future.

You are a woman, shouldn’t you do more? Since you are a woman, you should do the things at home. Don’t say that I treat you like this. Other men also treat their wives like this. The things at home are done by their wives. If it’s not my wife, who can do it? Do you still want me to do it?

I won’t do it. You are my wife, so the things at home should be left to you. No matter what you do, no matter what housework or anything, you have to do it, and don’t feel wronged. What I want to say is that women come here like this. In the past, my grandparents did the things that were done by my grandmother, and my parents were like this. My mother did them alone. Now, if you do them alone.

Of course, if you do it alone, I won’t ask you to do it alone in vain. At least I will be with you when I have time, and you are my wife. If you don’t help me, who will help me do it? Do you want other women to do it? If that were the case, why would I be with you? When I am with me, I have to give everything for me, I have to do all the housework and everything for me.

These are the five major rules in our family. You have to abide by it in the future. If you don’t abide by it, don’t blame me. Just beat me once if you violate it. In that case, I won’t hit you by myself, I will ask your husband to hit you. If you don’t want to be beaten, then you can abide by the rules. If you are the rules, we will never make things difficult for you.

I looked at my husband pitifully again, and I hope my husband can make the decision for me. My husband told me that you are so pitiful, it is useless to look at me because my mother came here like this. I can't make you an exception.

so you can only abide by these rules in the future, but if you abide by them, then it will be fine, so you just abide by the rules. That's it. I didn't expect my husband to ignore me. Is there any human rights? Forget it, I don't want to say anything more.

I stood up and told them that this is a rule, I will not abide by it, whoever wants to abide by it, will follow it. My mother-in-law was very angry when she heard me say this, and then she got angry and told me, do you want to rebel? I told my mother-in-law, get out. divorce. After saying this, I left without looking back. Even though I was pregnant, I still wanted to choose to divorce. What do you think about this matter? Shouldn’t you divorce?

Conclusion:

is really helpless in the face of this matter. If it were me, I would also choose to divorce and say something bad. Your husband doesn’t love you at all. If your husband loves you, he would not treat you like this. In your husband's heart, he has put forward 5 rules for you to make you surrender.

To put it bluntly, it is bullying you. You must refuse this. Once you agree to the pain in the future, it will never end. He can treat you like this, and he can treat your parents like this in the future. So there is no need for you to be with him for the sake of so-called true love, and there will be no happiness.

so there is nothing wrong with you choosing to divorce. If it were me, I would also choose to divorce. I hope this case can remind all women to be careful when choosing a partner. Never be with these bastards, otherwise you will regret 100% of the time, and you will not be with these men even if you abort your child.

also hopes that this case can remind all men. In what era now, should you still treat your wife like this? What you do this will definitely be a tragedy. Don’t blame your wife for divorceing you at that time. If you want to blame, blame yourself. You are too embarrassed. Do you understand?