I am 36 years old this year and I have an office relationship with my husband. My husband is very outgoing and passionate. He is a "social grass" type in the company and talks a lot. Once he chats with him, 90% of it is said, which is definitely a chatterbox. I like quietness. In addition to my job, I usually like to write short stories, but I can only get inspiration in a very quiet environment. I chose to be with my husband at that time because although he was chattering, he would automatically ban the verbal whim when he knew I needed to be quiet in front of me.
Of course, except during the World Cup, he is a real fan and has never missed a World Cup event. As long as he talks to him about the World Cup, he can tell you for three days and three nights, which is really ridiculous. I also found out after getting married and living with him that it was really noisy to watch the World Cup with my friends. I was very excited and I tossed and beat the table and shouted. I couldn't accept it at first, it was too noisy. Although I didn't watch it together, the house at home was not big and the sound insulation was not good. I could hear the noise clearly and couldn't sleep well.
I still have to go to work the next day and didn’t sleep well, so I really want to collapse. For a while, I often argued with my husband about whether he loves me or the World Cup, but the end of it was arguing, and even the two of them couldn't help but "fight". Although he apologized to me afterwards and promised not to disturb me, he was still very excited when it came to the match point. Later, I gradually gained some experience. In this World Cup, I made sufficient preparations in advance. I only used 3 tricks and to make him obedient and I also had a good night's sleep. Given that my husband is a real fan, I definitely can't let him miss this football feast, but I won't let him watch the football in vain, so I made three decisions with him in advance:
first, can watch the football all night at night, but I have to help with housework, mop the floor and cook and wash vegetables, and I have to learn to make a new dish every day. In order to watch the football, my husband agreed without saying a word. "Simple, wrap it in me!"
Second, Once my husband sees the team he likes scores, he will definitely jump up from the sofa to cheer. I believe most of his compatriots are in this state. But I watched the TV series next to him, and then kept reminding him that the baby was sleeping. Poor he had to suppress his emotions, cheered quietly from his throat, and swallowed a sip of beer, which made him feel relieved. Haha, for the sake of the baby, be sure to be calm!
, third, I bought an anti-noise earbud. It has a strong sound insulation effect. If you wear it, you can't hear anything. It's also very comfortable to wear it. I put it on when I sleep and sleep very peacefully.
I said that when I sleep, I can be excited, but don’t be too excited, just don’t affect people’s rest. I also told him that there is no need to be so stressful when watching the World Cup. Watching the World Cup replay with your children during the day can promote the formation of their children's worldview. When watching the World Cup, explaining the teams, stars, cultures, etc. of each country to the children can also further broaden their horizons. In this way, if your father’s hobbies are used in practice, he will also feel particularly accomplished.
Finally, I also made a special statement to him that this time I would try to accompany him to watch a game of the team he loves, experience watching the football myself, see if I can understand his love to watch the football from the bottom of my heart, and take the opportunity to have a party. Unexpectedly, when I heard me say this, before the game started, my husband actually prepared beer and fried chicken and small potato chips early, saying that it was so passionate to have me with him! Seeing that he was so excited, I excitedly carried the small stool, and then I couldn't stop, and I was even more fascinated than him. I really didn’t expect that watching football can make you so excited! Compared to my husband or something, is it much more interesting to watch football? There are so many handsome guys. They ran on the court, and the hormones were running all over the game, which was really cool.
Later I found out that there should not be a relationship between opposition and competition between women and the World Cup. Only by supporting his hobbies can he love you more, and any relationship is the same. In fact, everyone has their own hobbies. For example, many female friends like to watch TV shows after work and watch live broadcasts, and their husbands did not interfere.Then, as your wife, you will be relieved to let him, a fan, enjoy his appetite and understand each other. Of course, this must be done without affecting normal work and life. If you want to stay up late to watch the football game, it will not only hurt your family but also your health, it will really be more of a loss.
Conclusion:
Fans’ enthusiasm for the World Cup is unimaginable for non-fans. What's the point of staying up late? In order to achieve the best viewing effect, many fans simply don't even stay at home and bring in a group of like-minded comrades to open a hotel to watch the game. Long live understanding! My husband and I also watch it together, but the volume will be kept to the point that it will not affect others. What's wrong with your man's hobbies? Pamper, if you understand and support him, he will be better for you after the World Cup!
What do you think when facing the fans and husbands staying up late to watch the World Cup? What countermeasures will be made?
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