-01-See a discussion: Can one person like several people at the same time? Some people say: Of course, because the weakness of human nature is that they like freshness. Some people say: Maybe, but there is only one person I truly love.

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See a discussion: Can one person like several people at the same time?

Some people say: Of course, because the weakness of human nature is that they like freshness.

Some people say: Maybe it will, but there is only one person I truly love.

Someone else said: I just want a few lovers, one who is beautiful and takes it out to cool, the other who is gentle and can take care of the house, and the other who can secretly meet and enjoy the fun of a lover...

can be seen that some people, in their hearts, will trust love extremely.

And some people will have many doubts about true love from the bottom of their hearts.

is just because many people think "true love", they are just talking and playing. Looking around, many former lovers finally turned against each other, and the once admirable "true love" finally became a laughing stock of others.

"human heart" and "human nature", when we ignore these two words, it will easily make people lose their true heart and love.

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Whether in love or in marriage, there are always some people who have cheated on "steps on several boats".

I saw a comment: People can enjoy various delicacies and like various flavors, why can’t they love several people at the same time?

Most people who say such words are not accurate in their definition of love.

He is just expressing his "like" and not loving the other person deeply. Because true love should be exclusive and dedicated.

has a classic metaphor: love and love are different.

Like a person, just like you pick flowers, you can pick many flowers without any pain. But if you fall in love with a flower, then this flower will be like a rose on the planet of the Little Prince, irreplaceable, and you will not help but want to protect her.

Therefore, most of those who can "step on several boats" have never really fallen in love with anyone. They treat love like "picking flowers" and have never seriously appreciated the flower, but it is just a kind of possessiveness.

Especially, in our lives, those who have extramarital affairs.

When a married person, his attitude towards feelings is, "People can like many people." Although I love the people around me very much, I can also be moved by others. When he has this idea and meets someone who has the same idea as him, there will be a feeling of "consistency between them".

so many, when these two people are together, they will not have the moral constraints at all, they will not know how to restrain their behavior, and will not care about the feelings of the person next to them.

In other words, once this married man and woman is together, they will easily get caught in "extramarital affair".

Of course, they themselves do not love each other very much, but they are just people all the way, either lacking love or living selfishly.

True love should be "light visible", not "selfish"

see a story.

A girl works in a factory, gets up early and goes to bed late every day, and keeps busy. The workers found that every time they get off work late, there will be a thin and a little sloppy man who comes to pick her up.

They are also called husband and wife to the outside world.

Until one day, the woman's parents and sister chased each other to the factory and tear each other apart, everyone figured out the whole story: it turned out that when the girl showed her sister the child, she had a good time with her brother-in-law and eloped here.

That sloppy man is her brother-in-law.

The salary of a girl is not high, but even so, the man did not look for a job, but let the woman raise him like this.

The girl was pulled by her family and said to her sister: We truly love each other, he loves you, but he loves me even more.

makes people laugh when they see it. Women's stupidity is here.

can also be seen. When two selfish people meet each other, they will show the worst part of extramarital emotions: we like each other ourselves, and no one of you can care about it.

However, this girl didn't think much about it: how good can a man be able to abandon his wife who has given birth to children for him and walk with you? What's more, the people you hurt are all your relatives.

Many men and women who have extramarital affairs always claim to be "we are true love", but true love should be seen by light, rather than hiding in the "darkness".

When you are far away from your hometown and turn your backs to your family and friends, and you cannot get blessings, this love is destined to be a tragedy.

In the world of love, it should not be selfish and indifferent. This combination of self-proclaimed love is mostly because both of them are very disloyal in life.

Both people who are "lack of love" will easily have extramarital relationships

seen, a conversation.

Girl said: I am so outstanding, it is normal for many people to like it. The current society is too restrictive.

And when someone asks her: If the person you particularly love is also having an ambiguous relationship with others, or even cheating, and stepping on a few boats, do you agree?

The girl hesitated and did not answer.

In fact, from this conversation, we can see that the girl may be confident in herself, but she is somewhat "lack of love".

Because, many people, once they desire in their hearts, many people love themselves, so most of them have not made them feel satisfied in their current living environment. The same is true for putting

in marriage.

Many people who have extramarital relationships come to search for love outside the world under the guise of being dissatisfied with people inside.

So, you will find that whether in movies and TV dramas or in real cases in real life, an extramarital affair will always start by complaining about the bad current marriage and the person next to you.

I watched a movie where a man married the daughter of his boss's family. He did not love his wife and always ignored her when he was with his wife.

By chance, he fell in love with his subordinate's wife at first sight.

So, he used his position to transfer his subordinates to a distance. The two of them fell in love with each other for a while, but in the end, they still couldn't keep the fire in their arms and both were exposed.

At this time, the man immediately returned to his family and threw the blame on the woman, claiming to the public: She seduced me.

woman was not willing to be outdone and said to the outside world: He forced me.

can be seen that this kind of love is that two people who lack love and are selfish, fall into chaos.

If their behavior is not discovered, they will probably continue, but once it is exposed, they will blame each other and want to take themselves out.

So, this kind of extramarital feeling is that it seems that two people are in love, but both are free from the constraints of morality. It seems that they "meet the right person", but in fact, it is just a peace without a bottom line.

Love, you should be, except for being able to accept the person you love, you cannot accept other people.

If you feel that you cannot get the satisfaction of love in marriage, you might as well try to build your feelings with your lover in marriage and then build your emotions again.

If you work hard for a long time and still feel tired and cannot find the happiness of marriage at all, then you must first resolve this marriage and then continue with the next relationship.

This is the respect for marriage and loyalty to love.

-03-

In life, we always hear such words:

"That so who, he bought a house for his wife and took his mistress to travel. It's really good to both ends."

"Both women love his money, and none of them love him, what's the happiness?"

Yes, it can be seen that people in their hearts understand that true love is never measured by money.

The truth of love is that we will like many people, but we just want to be with one person until we grow old. Even if we have three meals a day, we can all be eaten with rice and side dishes. Even if life is hard, we can walk together side by side.

Because, both of them recognize each other and both regard each other as the only one in their life.

When you are with him, you will feel very comfortable and unrestrained. When he is with you, you will feel very at ease and warm.

When you encounter a trough, you can support each other and rely on each other; when you encounter difficulties, you can communicate with each other and protect each other.

Only at this time can you say that you are in love.

People must be clear in this life: in this world, no extramarital relationship is worthy of praise, true love.

Author, calm fox

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May you find the deep affection in my words in the dull years! Thanks for your attention!