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Today I opened my circle of friends and saw such a text dynamic. The text content is: Girl, I hope you forget all this today, and I hope you will be reincarnated into a wealthy family in the next life.
The first feeling after reading it was contempt and disdain. You know what happened to this family without asking.
is a relative who is from 1989 and has three children. The eldest is a girl, he is in the sixth grade, and the second is a girl. He is currently four years old. He has given birth to another boy this year, and the whole family is happy.
This is a family with problems, often in chaos, parents never communicate well, and their attitude towards children is even more so. The boss looks honest, but in fact he is rebellious. He was brought to the other party's parents for insulting his classmates, and his mother had a big fight with him, and then beat and scolded his daughter for being unsuccessful.
The way they deal with problems is always extreme.
She said that she was not like this before. The reason why she became like this was because she was oppressed by life. Living is suffering.
By looking at this update, you can know that this is the guilt towards your daughter after the chaos.
I think this is very funny. If realizes your own problems, can you correct your methods and attitudes? should not intensify the conflicts. treats life gently, treats children, and treats others ? It’s always like after the injury occurs, it’s better to complain in your circle of friends without any illness. It’s better to say these useless words.
There is no need to have more children, give birth to children within your ability
Over the years, I have heard about this family many times from my mother. She has changed a lot over the years, from the careful care when raising a daughter to the irritability now, if there is one more child, the more irritability you will be. In fact, I have always wanted to say: is just the living conditions, is it okay to have a child ? Why do we have to have so many children? In the end, we will put complaints and emotions on the child. If we can’t raise a child well, what exactly is the goal? Will it make yourself worse and worse?
Every time I see a mother who pushes herself to an anxious, insecure and irritable state because of having one more child, she can’t feel sympathy. They blame everything on bad life in the end . In fact, it’s their own choice.
people should be their own leaders, this is true at all times, and they should be rational at any stage, especially when raising children. children are hope, and children may also be "pits". The key is how to raise .
cannot raise well, the more you give birth, the worse it is. Don’t expect your children to turn the tables on their own. is either gods or ordinary people. What parents have said, done, and attitude towards life is their capital. .
If the conditions are limited, try your best to raise a child well. If you can raise a child well, you will be able to gain a great sense of happiness and satisfaction.
Make a living by raising a few children, and with raising a child well, how would you choose
The most common attitude of parents in their generation is: raising one is also raising two is also raising two. It is better to have two at once, and three are better, and they will be bigger together. Children are really tired when they are young, but when the children grow up, their parents are so happy.
: There are still many parents with this view now.
When material poverty is poor, parents are young, even when we were young, there is no problem with this view. Everyone is the same. Except for some children from individual families who have completely different lives, ordinary people are poor, and the same is true for the overall environment.
But now it is completely different. When a child was a child, had to look at family education and family background , literally, educational resources, places where the child has been, people who come into contact with, and open their horizons.
There is a method of raising ten thousand and ten thousand, and a method of raising ten thousand is a method of raising ten thousand, but the gap during this period cannot be ignored.
In this era, children's educational resources are related to the expenses allocated to their children by their parents, children's schooling experience is also related to the expenses allocated to their children by their parents, and there are even recruitment standards for some special industries, which is related to this.
In turn, raising one child is much easier for parents to obtain happiness and satisfaction than raising several children in a rough way.
Of course, if the family has a lot of money and the income is in units of millions, there is no problem with raising a few. This is not within the scope of our consideration. Our target family is an ordinary family, and in big cities it is at most a middle-class family.
Why have you given birth? You must first figure out why women have to give birth? has several reasons that must be undesirable : for the sake of the male family's succession (if you marry into a wealthy family, you can consider it); for the sake of giving birth to a boy; for the sake of being born, you think this is the value of a woman.
. The baby must be done after careful planning between the two parties. Even if the child arrives unexpectedly, two people need to communicate effectively. . Women must be sure of their own life before allowing their children to come to this world. is responsible for themselves and for their children.
After we clarify these concepts and have these concepts, we believe that children can live in a healthy and happy family. This has nothing to do with material conditions, but mainly the spiritual environment.
Finally, the same thing, do what you can, how to raise children, and how much expenditure to allocate to children is a question that must be considered when planning to have a few children. This is the basics of raising a child well.
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