For a cheating man, the woman outside is always better than his wife.
How many mistresses rely on to defeat the original wife? It’s not that the mistress is very good, but there are many means.
is just because she is a woman outside, and the cheating man’s view of her is not objective.
has a filter that belongs to the outside woman alone. It makes the cheating man ignore all her shortcomings, which is that he thinks she is better than the original wife.
If the mistress is on the rise, she is no longer a woman outside, and a man who cheats on her will still think that the woman outside is better.
At this time, the mistress was that she finally squeezed away her original wife, but she found that she was cheated on her.
For example, this is the case of an extramarital affair handled by Jiaxin before.
came to ask for help from a mistress who had just become a leader. She was with the cheating man for a year, and
defeated the cheating man's ten-year marriage and successfully got promoted.
This mistress is younger than her original wife, and the rest is not as good as the original wife, regardless of whether it is personal or family conditions.
At the beginning, the mistress didn't think she could squeeze out her original wife, but the cheating man was very persistent.
has always said that she is true love for the mistress, belittles the original wife and raises the mistress, so the mistress feels that she is better than the original wife, and the cheating man loves her.
The original wife didn't want to divorce at first. She had been having trouble for about half a year. The more the original wife made a fuss, the more the cheating man liked the mistress.
Because the mistress coaxed the cheating man with sweet words, she deliberately tried to please the cheating man.
The original wife was quarreling with the cheating man like crazy, beating and scolding the cheating man, and forcing the cheating man to break up. Compared with
, cheating men feel happier to live with mistresses. The original wife behind
was also tired, and was completely disappointed with the cheating man, so she chose to divorce.
Less than three months after the divorce, the cheating man married the mistress, who thought he had won.
As a result, the cheating man began to become very indifferent to the mistress and disliked the mistress in all kinds of ways.
At this time, I started to say that mistresses are not as good as the original wife, and I regretted divorced and married mistresses.
If a man cheats on him is just indifferent or dislikes the mistress, the mistress may not be so excited.
But when he compared the mistress with the original wife, the mistress could not stand it anymore.
The mistress counterattacked the man who cheated on her and said she was not good, why did the man still abandon his wife and children and marry the mistress?
The two of them refused to give in to each other, and their relationship became worse and worse. The man cheated on him later and cheated again. The new Xiaosi was actually not outstanding.
But the cheating man is just like before, just thinks Xiao Si is better than his current wife.
The mistress in the upper position could not accept this stimulation even more and began to make a fuss with the cheating man like her previous wife.
And Xiaosi, just like the mistress before, please please the cheating man and ask about his health and warm up his feelings.
The mistress looked at the familiar scene and suddenly panicked. Isn’t this a way to get to power?
She was afraid of being replaced by a new third party and didn't know what to do, so she came to Jiaxin for help. More than 90% of third parties will face a new marriage crisis after taking office.
On the one hand, it is because if a man is cheating, he will not pay the price if he is not punished.
Then there will definitely be a next time, even if the original wife changes, she will not be able to stop the man from cheating again.
So the mistress seems to be the mistress wins, but in fact he also indulged in cheating men.
allows him to successfully complete an extramarital affair with no cost or even only benefits.
A man who cheats once will want to have a second time, but the mistress who is in charge cannot stop him.
Otherwise, it is because mistresses can get on the top, not because of the so-called true love, nor is it the mistress’s method.
is the subjective thinking of a cheating man, that is, he thinks that a woman who has an extramarital affair is better than a wife who has been with him for many years.
What are the good things about women outside of marriage? Fortunately, I don’t have to consider the trivial matters of life, such as food, oil, salt, sauce, and vinegar, and I only talk about love.
Fortunately, they will deliberately please the cheating men, take the initiative to favor their preferences, and coax the cheating men.
After getting married, many women need to take care of too many things. Who can coax men all day long?
is like this cheating case. When you are a mistress, you can coax a cheating man. After
becomes a wife, the mistress will not continue to coax. If a new mistress appears, the man who cheats will think that the new mistress is better.
This mistress asked Jiaxin how to solve the new mistress.
Jiaxin’s advice to her is to divorce and not be a mistress in the future, as she cannot separate her new mistress.
On the one hand, it is a problem of cheating on a man. He just thinks that women outside of marriage are better than those inside of marriage.
The mistress who is superior becomes the daughter of marriage, and she loses the new mistress directly.
On the other hand, the mistress herself is not upright, and she is not as good as her previous original wife.
How can she separate the mistress? No matter what she says or does, she cheats on a man, you were also a mistress before, and you can make the mistress speechless.
In addition, the new mistress knows the real situation and naturally won’t leave easily.
The cheating man protects the woman outside. The upper mistress has no position and the new mistress will not leave.
How can she separate? I can only say that she is self-responsible. The way of heaven is good for reincarnation, and who will the heaven spare?
Finally, Jiaxin wanted to say that many mistresses actually don’t understand that they can win the favor of cheating men, or even get ahead.
It is not because cheating men love them more, or because they are excellent and capable.
simply wins in the identity of an extramarital woman. The cheating man loves the woman in extramarital affair, not the mistress.
If you change to another woman, the cheating man will still treat him like this. It has nothing to do with the person, but this identity has the advantage.
At the same time, Jiaxin also reminded the original wife to see this clearly, what is the psychology of cheating on a man?
can only find the right way to separate the mistress if you control the psychology of a cheating man.
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I am Jiaxin, a marriage maintenance teacher who focuses on the separation of third parties.