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This is a question and answer, my answer is as follows.
I am a woman, I want to tell the truth, don’t be embarrassed, in fact, these two needs are equally important! Nothing is indispensable.
Although most women are x because of love, they are also food, sex, and it means that this is like eating and drinking water. If they lack it, they will feel hungry, which is not possible.
This is the same for both men and women.
If you keep your income from drought and flood in normal times, your life will be continuously satisfied and your body is in a state of neither hunger nor thirst, you will naturally not realize its importance.
But if it is like a famine disaster, if you don’t give you enough food or drink for many years, although your body cannot die, your mood will definitely not be good.
This is human nature, there is no need to hide it, look around and talk about him.
A marriage expert said that the deep-seated reason for most divorce cases now is discord in this regard, especially divorces filed by women.
But in a relationship between husband and wife, in order to maintain each other's decentness, the reasons for divorce are basically said to be inconsistent with their values.
couldn't help but be amazed that nearly 80% of divorce cases in the country were brought up by women. So, is this man really not good?
Of course, this matter cannot count the exact data.
is a joke!
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To be honest, from a woman's perspective, these things will cause psychological changes with their physiological age.
For example, when I was in my 20s, most girls were not keen on flashlight.
She prefers her boyfriend’s hugs and kisses, and she doesn’t want to communicate too much in her heart.
But boys have strong demands at this stage, and basically they need to be real and guns as soon as they meet, which is difficult to resist.
This often makes girls suspicious, do you love me? Or love a woman's body? There are cases in many emotional convex stories like
. To be honest, I have had a similar experience.
Otherwise, I would say that a pure girl is a girl in her 20s, she only has a longing for men and women, but no obsession.
They pay more attention to the feeling of love. They are prone to self-motivation and understand the boy's obsessed enthusiasm as it is because they love themselves too much.
But for boys, it has nothing to do with love. Maybe some young girls are also impulsive, it’s just that they are full of hormones!
Then the times change, and the years pass by. After the ignorant girlhood, women feel different again when they reach their thirties or forties.
Look at the so-called love rationally, it is actually a product of hormones, and middle-aged women seem to have a higher hormone level, so their demand will be stronger than that of girls.
So, the rumored 30 is like a wolf and 40 is like a tiger, but there is still some truth.
At this time, women generally pay more attention to quality and skills than shoddy work.
Because women's needs have been sublimated, the requirements for men are higher. Men are generally aesthetically exhausted and lack motivation, so they are prone to disharmony.
and other women enter menopause in their 50s, with hormone secretion confusing, high and low, or simply dysregulated.
The physiological needs will be greatly reduced, and the psychology may be more eager for the care and care of your lover.
and other remarks are also related to personal physical fitness. For example, some people can still have children in their 80s, while others are clear-headed and have few desires at the age of 50.
I will definitely be more keen on good health, and I will naturally have fewer needs for poor health.
For example, people who have been using medicine jars for years are definitely not on the same level as people who have been using fitness all year round, you know.
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00 physiological needs, let’s talk about psychological needs.
Although women also pay attention to sensory enjoyment, there are prerequisites.
means that only by having a love feeling can we talk about real enjoyment and truly nourish the body and mind.
For example, if you sincerely like to admire a man, then your body and mind will be melted when doing things that are soft and fragrant.
Women can recall when they first fell in love with their husbands. Is this the feeling?
Once the wife who had been in trouble for many years became a yellow-faced woman, her husband also changed from a handsome boy to a greasy uncle with beer belly.
The intimacy at this time is like holding the right hand with the left hand, and nothing feels. Even if there is
, there is only peace of mind.
So, women are very picky in their body and mind. If you warm up with a man who is more bored or indifferent, it is basically mechanical exercise and it is difficult to have a pleasant feeling.
So, sometimes I admire those women who love each other very much.
It was so strange when we first met, so we opened our hearts and took care of each other in depth. Our psychological quality is very strong!
may be the opening up of the times, and by the way, it has opened up the valve of moral constraints.
Anyway, these shocking actions are difficult for women before the 1980s to do.
Of course, it may be that I have seen very little in the world. It is obviously very ordinary, but I make a fuss.
No matter what, most women’s physical needs are based on satisfaction with psychological needs.
Just like the cousin I mentioned in the previous article, although the husband she later found was more masculine, because she did not appreciate him mentally and was not very satisfied with him psychologically, it was difficult to achieve the joy she wanted when she was intimate.
Even if there is joy, there will be only emptiness afterwards.
is not like a man who truly likes and loves to admire, and he is full of happiness whether before or after.
So I understand why some women can go through fire and water without hesitation once they really fall in love with a man.
Because of the desire to live and die, it is precious that you can't stop.
But the reality is also cruel. Generally, such passionate relationships do not exceed three years, so marriage is usually a small hurdle for three years, and seven years is a big hurdle.
This also shows that human nature is similar and desires are traceable.
Of course, both physical and psychological needs are not the whole of life. If there is, it will add icing on the cake, and if there is no, it will make do with it.
This is most realistic Chinese marriages, besides love, it is more responsibility!
Note: This is actually a question and answer. After writing it, I found that the number of words is enough to post an article! So I had a sudden idea and changed it to an article.
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