says that it is impossible for a pure friendship between men and women, but how many women pay attention to it? Just like this woman in the article, it is because you didn’t pay attention. This is the ending now. Who can blame for this ending now? If you want to blame, blame yourself. I hope that through this case, all women can pay attention. For themselves and for their families, you must stay away from male besties, if you are not far away from male besties.
Then what is waiting for you will definitely be a tragedy, just like this woman in the article, it will be finished by then. What's going on? Why is this happening? Let’s take a look at this matter together. A 26-year-old woman cried: After going home with her male best friend for dinner, I never met my husband again, and I was wrong.
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26-year-old Ms. Wu:
I was wrong. I really don’t know how to meet my husband. I was afraid to face all this, but my father told me, if you don’t go back, what are you doing here? I have been here for many days. Your husband has called you a lot and called me a lot. I don’t know how to tell your husband. It’s best if you tell your husband about this.
Who can blame for this ending? If you want to blame, blame yourself. We have said that you have cut off your relationship with that man many times, but you can't do it. You deceived me, deceived your mother, deceived your husband, and destroyed everything about you. If you heard us at the beginning, it's not the father now. The more you say this, the more I cry, the more I cry, and then my mother's daughter is already in great pain. Don't talk about your own daughter anymore. This is not the case with your own daughter, if your daughter was sensible at the beginning.
is not the ending now. If my daughter doesn’t want to do this, why should we blame her daughter? Then my father said, "A kind mother will lose her son. If you didn't pamper your daughter or if you didn't care, would this end now be the same?" You give your daughter too many opportunities. If you want her to be so arrogant, otherwise you wouldn't ruin everything.
Hearing my father say this, my mother is angry. When my mother is angry, isn’t you still the only one to do? It’s not that you didn’t beat your daughter. If you didn’t control us, it wouldn’t be the ending now. If you want to blame yourself, it’s better for your daughter to go back and tell your husband that it’s your problem. All the responsibilities are pushed to you. That’s why you were more strict at the beginning. If you beat your daughter, you must stay away from this man, and now it’s not the ending now.
Hearing my mother say this, my father was so amused and crying, and then I told them, "Don't argue, I know it's my fault, I can't blame anyone, if you want to blame me, I'm giving my male best friend a chance, it's my fault." It was indeed my fault. If I hadn't changed his worst words, I would hate this thing the most now, and nothing I said is useless. This is also the fundamental reason why I said this.
I think through my case, I can make all women pay attention, for themselves and for their families, stay away from their male best friends, otherwise, waiting for you will definitely be a tragedy. Just like I can't go back now, I don't know how to face my husband, I don't even dare to see my husband, and I haven't met my husband.
A week ago, my male best friend asked me to go home with him for dinner, but I refused and said to my male best friend, forget it, I am not available, I don’t want to go to your house for dinner, and my husband will be back tonight. If I go to your house for dinner tonight. If my husband finds out, the consequences are irresistible. Let’s not go, let’s not go. Do you have anything to do? If you have something, you can tell me on the phone, and then I will go to your place when I have time. Now, don’t go to my place, and I won’t go to your place for dinner.
Hearing me say this, my male best friend is unhappy, and my male best friend told me unhappy that people all over the world have abandoned me.My girlfriend ran away with someone else. I feel very uncomfortable now. I just want you to come to my house to comfort me. Isn’t that okay?
And you also know that you are the only one of my good friends. I don’t want you to abandon me. Everyone abandons me. Don’t be individual. She is my best male best friend and she cries while talking. In the end, I feel soft-hearted. He is my best friend. I really can’t abandon him. I really can’t bear to let him be alone. Then I told my male best friend, that’s OK, I’ll go to your house for dinner tonight, but I told you in advance that I will go back after dinner. After all, my husband is going back tonight. If he knows that I still have contact with you and still go to your house for dinner, the consequences will be unimaginable.
My male best friend told me that it's OK. I know that your husband will come back tonight, so after dinner, you should hurry back, I'll prepare some food for you, wait for a while, and then I'll go to my male best friend for dinner. I used to go to his house for dinner, and there were many things. When something happened, I didn't think much about it. I just wanted to comfort her and came back after dinner. But when something happened during dinner, he tried hard to get me to drink. What was going on? Is it because the male best friend was too sad?
I was embarrassed to ask. He kept pouring wine for me, and he kept drinking. The more he was like this, the more he felt something was wrong. The more he was like this, the less he didn't know what to say. I soon became dizzy. I thought my male best friend would send me back, but I never expected that he would not send me back. After I drank, he carried me into the room. At that time, I was a little conscious.
Although my hand looks worse, what is going on? What are you going on? I quickly told my male best friend what is going on. What are you going on? But the male best friend didn't answer me. The more I was like this, the more I was afraid of something happening. But something happened in the end. What's the use of being afraid? If I hadn't given my boyfriend a chance, would this have happened?
This happened because I gave my male best friend a chance. This happened to my husband that night. My husband found out that I was not at home and called me many times. I didn't answer. When I woke up, it was almost 9 o'clock in the evening. When I turned on my phone, I saw more than a dozen unanswered calls. My husband has already returned. I was going home on WeChat and told me where are you?
I've already arrived home, please open the door for me, why don't you answer the phone, send me messages and call me. At that time, I fell asleep and didn't know that my husband called me. I wanted to reply to my husband, but I didn't know how to reply to my husband, I just cried. Soon my male best friend woke up, and the male best friend told me that I had drunk too much just now, and I don’t know what happened, and I don’t want to do this.
With a snap, I slapped my male best friend in the face. If my male best friend hadn't thought about it, would this happen? It must have been what he thought and planned for a long time before he did this. I told my male best friend that this would happen if you didn’t want it? It's not what you thought. The more you talk, the more angry he got, and slapped him again.
After the baby became his best friend, I told the male best friend that we would break it in the future. I will not care about your affairs anymore. I didn't expect that you are also such a person. Although you treat me very well, I have always regarded you as your best friend, but you did these things wrong. How do you want me to see my husband and people in the future? Just when I was about to go out, my male best friend told me that you can go, you can go, but there is one thing you need to know. There are many photos of us on my phone, including the cloud. If your husband knows these photos, you can think about the consequences yourself.
Originally I didn’t want to tell you this anymore, I didn’t want to force you, but you were too much. Don’t you know that I’ve been nice to you over the years? I have paid so much for you, aren’t these things I deserve? Think about it, if I didn’t like you or didn’t want to get you, would I give so much for you?
You know, everyone is understandable, everyone is adult, is it necessary to care so much? Anyway, if I don’t care about this, you should listen to me, otherwise don’t blame me. I have given you a chance. It’s just that you are not doing well. Once your husband knows, don’t blame me at that time. If you want to blame me, you blame yourself for not listening to me. If you listen to me, it won’t be the ending.
This is when I realized that I was in a dilemma. My male best friend asked me to stay overnight and told me, "You should quickly reply to Li Jiangfeng, saying that you have returned to your parents' home, otherwise I will tell your husband about this matter, not only will I tell you, but I will also give your husband the photos and videos to see what you do when you see it." My male best friend threatened me now. What else would I do to me if I agreed to this matter?
But once I agree, I think I will treat me like this in the future. He will still let me come out. If I don’t want to accompany him, he will definitely tell my husband about this. If that happens, how should I live my life in the future? The more I think about it, the more I get angry, the more I feel uncomfortable. If I hadn't given him a chance, it wouldn't have happened now. Because I love my husband so much, I didn't expect that I would ruin everything about me with my own hands.
My husband loves me so much and gives everything for me, because I love my husband so much, but I really do this, how should I face my husband? Don’t say it’s my husband. I don’t think there is a man in the world who can accept this heart. If you know that your wife did this and was threatened by a man, the consequences will be unimaginable, and you will not forgive your wife, right? My husband, I won't forgive me.
I felt even more uncomfortable when I thought of this. I originally had a happy family, but now it is gone. If I hadn't given my male best friend a chance, would it be the ending now? My male best friend told me, have you considered it? If you don't want your husband to know, listen to me tonight.
If you want to lose everything, then you go. I don’t care. To me, it’s just a matter of people’s livelihood. I finally got what I want over the years. Now I’ll blame you yourself if you want to blame. You are too naive and think that there is pure friendship between men and women, and there is no pure friendship between men and women.
I slapped my male best friend again and then I went back. No matter what the male best friend did, I would better go back. This matter can only be braked here. If I rush up again, I will definitely lose everything. It will definitely be a tragedy. Now it is already a tragedy. I will never be able to continue making mistakes. When I get home, I dare not face my husband. I went back to my parents’ home and told my parents about this. I didn’t know who to tell my parents, nor did I know what to do. It's so hard for me, I'll do everything that ruins me.
Conclusion:
Who can blame for this ending now? If you want to blame, blame yourself, you gave him the chance. If it weren't for not giving a chance, would this happen now? A man’s kindness to a woman must have a purpose, otherwise he would not be so hopeful to you through this case, so hope that all women can pay attention.
A man cannot be good to you for no reason. Being kind to you has a purpose. If you don’t pay attention, if you don’t stay away from this man or refuse to refuse his kindness, then the waiting for you will definitely be a tragedy. Just like this woman in the article, it’s too late by this time, for yourself and for your family, you must stay away from your male best friend.