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The more incompetent people are in life, the bigger the temper, and the less money they are, the more willing to pretend to be rich. This situation is not uncommon, and it is caused by vanity.
People always don’t want to be seen through at first sight, so when they interact with others, they deliberately bring masks and try their best to hide the truest side.
Usually what we see is what the other person wants us to see. If you want to understand a person’s true appearance, in addition to carefully observing the other person’s micro-expression, you also need to have some psychology and ability to recognize people.
What everyone says and does is hidden behind the heart-warming behavioral motivation. However, some people deliberately design it on the surface consciousness, while others are subconsciously conditioned reflexes.
Only you know the most whether a person is rich or not. What others can understand is the superficial situation and the real situation depends on how the person involved "pretends".
From a psychological perspective, those who are more and more likely to pretend are mostly due to the following four psychology.
Sensitive and suspicious, good face
Sensitive people are more likely to receive changes in other people's emotions. Sometimes, even if other people's emotions are just normal changes, they will be over-interpreted by sensitive people.
They often have skepticism about other people's behavior and performance, and this suspicion often develops in a negative direction. This leads to many unnecessary incidents.
Emotionally sensitive people have the characteristics of being good at speculating on other people's intentions. They will instinctively think about other people's every move from the other person's perspective. In order to show an image that is closer to perfection in the eyes of others, I will constantly deliberately adjust my words and deeds in advance.
The psychological state of the poor is fragile, and this fragility is even more serious in emotionally sensitive people.
Because he is particularly proud of his face, he strives to maintain his image and face. When you are poor, not only do you not say that you are poor, but you also have to exaggerately "show off your wealth".
This is why the poorer people love to show off. After all, everything is to save face and their fragile hearts.
Vanity and fatty
There are many people in life who love to pretend, and it is precisely because of this that there is a saying: "Life is like a play, it all depends on acting."
In the environment where everyone is "acting", if there is such a person who doesn't participate in the acting, it will seem out of place no matter how you look at it.
No one wants to be labeled as "unsociable", so everyone performs desperately, but some people's performances are close to the norm in reality, while some people's performances are really exaggerated, so exaggerated that people can't see them.
People often use "smacking the swollen face and pretending to be fat" to describe a person with exaggerated acting skills. This is a typical behavior of not having Diamond and having to take on porcelain work.
Psychological vanity will be unrecognizable. Those who use all their financial and material resources to save face in order to "become noble" in front of others, and can only suffer behind them.
The more vain people are, the more they like to pretend, and this kind of pretending is not costly, and he will harm himself.
Super inferiority complex loves to show off
People with inferiority complex desire to gain external recognition because they do not have self-confidence, so they cannot provide internal encouragement. Almost all emotions of this type of person are given by the outside world. To put it bluntly, it is greatly affected by the environment.
If people around you praise you, you will be proactive, and if people around you derogate you, you will give up directly.
has no self-awareness and personal thoughts, so it cannot recognize reality and is unwilling to work hard for its own goals. If you are praised by others, you will show off everywhere. Sometimes you will even deceive yourself in order to show off, and make up honors to show off when others are not praised.
For example, those who take photos with other people’s luxury cars, take photos with high-end dinners, etc.
Some behaviors can be seen through with a discerning eye at a glance. All the real situations are like lice on a bald man's head, which is obvious.
Those who live in illusory dreams, no matter how beautiful the dream is, they will eventually be unable to escape the pressure of reality.
People with inferiority complexity and superficiality like to show off will try their best to create the illusion of being rich.
Be good at finding respect for people
There are always some people in the crowd who are particularly "sighted". That is the kind of teacher who is always willing to guide others' lives as experienced people.
Some guidance is good intentions, but some guidance is completely nonsense.
People who express themselves for the sake of performance can only be said to be very strong inside. I blindly think that I eat more salt than others, and that I cross more bridges than others walk.
People who are good at being teachers do not hesitate to cheat on their own achievements in order to gain the respect of everyone. In addition to installing personal skills, they also use financial capabilities.
After all, it is sometimes not convenient to show personal abilities. In order to convince others, a simple and direct way is to show the economic conditions created by this ability.
The reason why a good teacher pretends to be rich when he is poor, either for respect or for fraud.
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