Many women spend their entire lives just wanting to have a happy and fulfilling family, a husband who loves them and a lovely child. But sometimes, these wishes that seem so simple are often something that many women cannot have. A 58-year-old aunt became a "husband" life in the

Many women spend their entire lives just wanting to have a happy and fulfilling family, a husband who loves themselves and a lovely child. But sometimes, these wishes that seem so simple are often something that many women cannot have.

A 58-year-old aunt became the "husband" life in the eyes of others because of two unfortunate marriages. An old lady of the same age laughed at him, and an old man of the right age dared not approach her.

My daughter grew up and was about to get married. The aunt also felt lonely, so she ran to tell her fortune. Unexpectedly, she almost had a quarrel with her daughter.

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Everyone calls me Sister Huang, 58 years old, lives in Fujian.

The first marriage was my first love. We gave birth to a daughter. He was very nice to me and was not as macho as others. He spoke softly to me, and he was very concerned about his opinions and never got angry at me because of disagreement.

I have never loved my mother since I was a child. I really think it is the greatest gift from heaven to me to be able to meet such a good person.

Unfortunately, the good times didn't last long. When I was 36 years old, he went out for a wedding banquet. On the way back, he had a car accident and there was no one on the spot.

It’s so hard for a woman to raise a child. I survived for 5 years and married another man who was 5 years older than me. I don't have high requirements, just be nice to me and my daughter.

I am very lucky. The men I meet don’t like drinking or smoking, and I will help with housework and understand my hard work.

Just as I was still immersed in the atmosphere of happiness, my second husband died of illness. My parents-in-law drove me out of the house and said that I was a broom star and that her son was fine. He died after marrying me.

Two husbands died one after another, and my reputation in my hometown was completely ruined. Everyone said that I "destroy my husband's life" and said that anyone who married me would be unlucky.

I have had enough of the life of being pointed at by others every day when I go out, so I took my daughter to the county town and started a new life.

Since then, I have never considered my personal love life anymore. I am also afraid that I will implicate others. I devote all my thoughts to making money and educating my daughter.

Although I don’t have much ability, I am skilled and have a good cooking skills, so I sell breakfast during the day and stir-fried rice noodles at night.

Because the road section is good, and the things I made are good and cheap, the business started quickly. After more than ten years of busyness, I also accumulated a lot of money. At that time, the housing prices were not expensive, so I bought two houses in the county town. In order to pay off the mortgage, I worked harder and made money. In addition, my daughter has worked for several years, and our life has become better and better.

As the days get better, people's minds begin to become active.

I have the idea of remarrying because my daughter also talks about marriage.

I thought that after she got married, I was the only one who was lonely and widowed. How lonely that would be.

But I was afraid, so with the introduction of a friend, I went to find an old man to do some fortune telling.

After listening to my story, the old man showed me a way to find a disabled person to get married, so that there can be resolved.

I told an old sister about this. When she heard this, she quickly patted her thigh and said, "I know someone who looks quite honest, but she has no left hand, is widowed, and has a son named Lao Zhang."

A few days later, I met Lao Zhang under the arrangement of my old sisters.

I have a good impression of Lao Zhang, so I didn't hide it from him that I "hard my husband". Lao Zhang grinned and smiled, saying that when he was this age, he was not afraid, and he wouldn't believe it.

That's it. I started dating Lao Zhang and I went to do a fortune telling again. The old man said that Lao Zhang and I were very compatible, but we had to get married as soon as possible, otherwise it would not work after the time.

My relationship and I have only been 3 months since we recognize and confirm our relationship. I am so anxious to get married, and I am afraid that I will be too impulsive.

But I really want to get married, one reason is that I am afraid of missing the time, and two reason is that I like Lao Zhang very much. Maybe it was because I had been holding on for too long alone, and someone suddenly cared about it and felt that it was very different.

I told my daughter who was working in another place. She firmly opposed it without thinking. She said she would get married in a few months. What does it mean to be a mother before her?

She also said to me, I am so old, why are you getting married? And the other party is still a disabled person. Will marrying such a person increase the burden on her?

I was very angry with my daughter. She didn't say anything from my perspective. After so many years, I have been working hard alone. I raised her and provided her with college, but I haven't enjoyed my life well.

Finally I can rest as idle now and want to find someone to accompany me, but she said in a scattered manner, saying that she didn't consider my feelings at all.

That day, we had a fight on the phone and I was so angry that I hung up the phone directly.

I didn't expect my daughter to come back so soon. That day happened to happen to the day when Lao Zhang moved in. She threw out Lao Zhang's luggage angrily and said, "I want to move in before I get married. Don't be too obvious."

I asked Lao Zhang to move in. Since I'm all going to get married, I must live together to take care of each other.

But my daughter couldn't listen to my explanation at all, and she even blocked the door and made a big fuss.

The noise attracted many neighbors. Those who knew the situation advised their daughter, but the daughter insisted on her own and the more she scolded her, the more she became uglier. I was so angry that my eyes suddenly became dark, and then I didn't know anything.

When I woke up from the hospital, I saw Lao Zhang sitting by the bed. I asked his daughter, and he said he had gone to see a doctor.

While speaking, my daughter came in and said that the doctor asked me to do a liver ultrasound and other tests tomorrow.

I was puzzled. I just fainted after being anxious. Why do I need these tests?

My daughter said that my face was sallow and my face was swollen. The doctor said that there might be liver problems, so it would be better to check it out.

I felt nervous and suddenly felt a little scared. During this period, I had a bitter mouth and it was not good after taking medicine. The main reason is that my mother also died of liver cancer.

I was very scared and burst into tears. This slightly leisurely life has only been a few days, so why are you getting into this kind of thing again?

Before I could finish crying, Lao Zhang got up and said that his son called him and asked him to go back and see me tomorrow.

I stared at Lao Zhang going out, and even if I was stuck in my chest, I couldn't say it.

"See, who is, I don't know if I'm sick, but I run faster than anyone else. What do you think?" My daughter hugged her hands in front of her chest, looking at me with a look of regret.

result was really hit by my daughter. Lao Zhang never contacted me again after walking that day. I was also a false alarm, blood test, color ultrasound, and all indicators were within the normal range.

I guess Lao Zhang was afraid that I would get sick and wanted to take care of me, so he simply disappeared.

After this incident, I no longer desire to get married or not. After all, it is more realistic to consider when I get married at my age.

It is really harder than climbing the sky to find someone who has sincerity.

I hope everyone can understand through my story that many things are actually unhurried, and the so-called "fate" is an illusory topic. Who can change whose destiny?

Destiny is in your own hands. If you want to change your fate, you can only rely on yourself to do so. Even if you can't find a suitable person for the rest of your life, it doesn't matter.

Friends are about fate, and if you force them together, you won’t be happy. I have lived to this age, why don’t I enjoy my happiness and make trouble for me?