What is the difference between having a daughter and having a son? Someone joked that he was only happy for two days to have a son, and the day he was born and married, and the rest were unhappy every day. I was unhappy only for two days after I had a daughter. On the day of my birth and on the day of my marriage, I was happy every day.
The elderly who usually see in the park go out for a walk, play cards, play in the mountains and rivers, and dance square dances every day, all have daughters at home.
And those who are old and have to ride a car to carry bricks on the construction site, set up stalls to sell fruits on the street, or take their grandchildren, all have sons at home. This is the difference between having a son and having a daughter.
Despite this reality, there are still people who want to have a son and would rather be happy for only two days. Because the sadness brought to them by their daughter on the day of marriage made them feel more uncomfortable than the troubles their sons brought to them.
November 16, Hunan. A woman looked through the video of the day before the wedding and she burst into tears in an instant. In the video, as her daughter was about to get married, her father was so sad that he cried like a child. Netizens said that this is the most heartbreaking moment when raising a daughter.
According to the woman, she was from Henan and married to Hunan. When they got married, their family drove more than 1,400 kilometers to Hunan to send themselves off to get married.
On the first day of the wedding, the woman and her family lived in a hotel. My father loves her very much, but his expression is always very serious. Seeing his daughter getting married, his mood didn't seem to fluctuate much. But when my mother prepares her dowry, her father always asks her to prepare more dowry, for fear that her family will not be confident enough to give her daughter.
On the evening, the woman and her family had supper and came to the room. At this time, my father was a little drunk, and even when he walked, he was shaking, asking his son-in-law to support him.
When the woman came to the room, the woman was preparing for the wedding the next day. Although her father was drunk, he had not yet slept. He sat on the bed and watched his daughter busy. I thought that my daughter would get married tomorrow, and from now on, she would be a guest when she came back. My father's heart began to feel a little sour and his eyes were a little wet.
The daughter was sad when she saw her father, so she walked to her father and comforted her. Unexpectedly, the father hugged his daughter and the two hugged each other. Dad burst into tears: "Oh, I took my heart away!"
The mother, who was on the side, watched the father and daughter hugged each other and cried, but in the end she couldn't help but wiped her tears.
The son-in-law sat aside and watched, a little at a loss, and even a little embarrassed, not knowing how to comfort his father-in-law. After all, he had raised the flowers that his father-in-law had for more than 20 years, and took them away with the flowers in the washbasin.
Later, according to the woman, her father was actually reluctant to let her marry far away, but she felt that it was not easy to meet true love in her life, so she decided to marry far away. For the happiness of his daughter, my father finally agreed.
My father has loved me since he was a child, but my father always has serious expressions and never shed tears when he saw him. Unexpectedly, when he got married, his father actually cried like a child. I really feel sorry for my parents when I choose to marry far away for love. I hope you live a happy life and don’t let down your parents’ expectations.
Regarding this, netizens left messages to joke about
Some netizens joked that the way of heaven is good for reincarnation, and who will the heaven spare? More than 20 years ago, didn’t you pinch other people’s hearts away? It's your turn and I'm crying. Let you also understand your father-in-law's mood at that time.
Some netizens said that the daughter who has worked hard to raise has been successful in her studies and can earn money to support her family, but she has made contributions to other people's families. How can you not be sad?
There are even netizens who say that if you have a daughter at home, you must be mentally prepared as soon as your daughter is born, and this day will come sooner or later. I believe this father is mentally prepared, but when this day really comes, he still feels unacceptable.
Author's opinion
Judging from the father's crying expression, he cried very sadly, and he really couldn't bear to part with his daughter. Because parting always makes people sad. When the birdman grows up, one day he will leave his nest and soar in the sky that belongs to him.
However, it is normal for a woman to marry when she is old.Dad should be happy. If his daughter is in her thirties and is still unwilling to get married, then Dad will be really sad.
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