As the saying goes, when your parents are there, life still has its origin; when your parents go, life is only left to return. People often say that when parents are there, the home is there, and when parents are gone, the home is gone. From this we can see that filial piety should be done as early as possible, and parents, as the master and backbone of a family, have a very important role. So, when my parents are gone, where are you going when you return to your hometown? Is it a sibling's home?
Home mostly refers to a person’s birthplace and hometown, and it is also a place that will make everyone dream of. The yearning and longing for my hometown is not only a traditional culture, but also a common human nature. Especially for those who settled outside after going out, especially those whose parents are still alive and live in their hometown, or who are getting older and older, and often miss their hometown. For various reasons, people always miss their hometown. Therefore, if parents still live in their hometown, then going back to their hometown to visit and respect their parents is not only natural, but also natural.
However, if the parents die one after another and the original "home" in their minds no longer exists, then when they return to their hometown, the situation may become more complicated. Of course, if you preserve the old house left by your parents, or your own house in your hometown is still in good condition. So, when I returned to my hometown, there was still a clear location, otherwise I really didn’t know where to stay. Some people will definitely say that it is naturally going to the home of brothers and sisters. Is this really the case? I'm afraid it's really not necessarily.
No matter what kind of social era background, families with many children will have one, especially in the past era. However, although some families have many children, they get along very harmoniously and harmoniously, and they are all well-educated and promising, which makes others envious. Children who come out of a family like this will still come together very closely even if their parents are gone. If one of the brothers and sisters comes back from another place to come back to their hometown and have something to do, all the other brothers and sisters will arrange the reception.
Some families have only two or three children, but they are always un united and often have a lot of trouble. After leaving their original family, they even vow not to interact with each other for the rest of their lives. In this case, once parents die, brothers and sisters will become strangers who are not related to blood, which is of course a very regrettable thing. Therefore, if you have something to do, it is unlikely that you will go to your siblings’ home when you go back to your hometown. You may rather go there or go to your siblings’ homes, or you will not want to go to your siblings’ homes.
In fact, the family affection of my mother's brothers and sisters should have been the closest and most beautiful emotion in this world. Since our parents have passed away, the common home in our minds no longer exists, brothers and sisters should understand and take care of each other more. If one of them comes back from another place to come, he should actively arrange everything before and after, fully reflecting the strong family affection of "he is a brother and sister in this life, and a brother and sister in the next life", so that the whole family can truly feel the feeling and warmth of "home".
Of course, the relationship between brothers and sisters is bad, even rigid and negative, and the reasons are many. For example, the methods of parenting education, parents' bias and prejudice, uneven distribution of family money, property and interests, different personalities of each brother and sister, etc. But no matter what, since you have the fate to become brothers and sisters in this life, you should love each other, like a family, the friendship between flesh and blood, and the love between brothers and sisters, you can understand and tolerate each other no matter what. So, if the parents are gone and someone returns to his hometown and doesn’t even enter the house of his own brothers and sisters, it is really a sad and sadness.
Poor parents in the world.I believe that all parents in the world hope that their children can be united, friendly, help each other, and be as close as one person, but they absolutely do not want their children to be close or even interact with each other. To this end, after the death of my parents, the bond and bridge between brothers and sisters will definitely play a very important and critical role in connecting with brothers and sisters, enhancing each other's feelings, and re-enhancing family affection. Let your parents’ spirits in heaven be comforted, and let your brothers and sisters feel like they are home again, because family affection is always incredibly precious. What do you think?
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