In the face of love, many people are prone to impulsively creating love brain . As a result, when they are passionately invested in their relationship, they either find that the two are not suitable, or they find that the other party has their own unbearable shortcomings, or even find that the true love they are investing in is actually just a dream. In short, it is likely that there will be hidden dangers to varying degrees when they are determined too quickly.
After all, when the man and woman first met, each person tried their best to show their strengths to each other. They were often easily deceived by the " halo effect ". They took it for granted that the other party was a flawless person. In fact, this made the mistake of subjective perfectionism. There is no perfect person in the world. The maintenance of love in does not depend on appreciating the other party, but how much tolerance and sincerity the other party can treat themselves, but all this requires time to give an answer.
28-year-old Ms. Liu is a teacher. Although she looks young and beautiful and has a good figure, she has never found a suitable boyfriend due to her usual two-point and one-line lifestyle and her narrow social circle.
Later, through a friend's introduction, she met Mr. Li, who was the same age. During the process of getting along, Ms. Liu found that Mr. Li was not only handsome, but also had a decent job, but also very gentle and considerate in the details of life.
According to Ms. Liu's recollection, once she was about to move, and Mr. Li volunteered to come to help. Some heavy and large items were moved by Mr. Li, who took the initiative to move them, and the way she worked hard to help was really touched Ms. Liu.
In addition to this, sometimes the toilet at home does not have toilet pads or it feels a little cold when going to the toilet, Mr. Li will carefully help buy toilet pads and lay them on.
From the perspective of many details, Ms. Liu believes that Mr. Li is worth dating and entrusts his life. Therefore, the two of them established a romantic relationship after only about a month of knowing each other.
However, not long after being together, Ms. Liu found out that she was pregnant. The news of surprised and happy. She thought that she was going to be a mother. Ms. Liu wanted to get married with Mr. Li as soon as possible to welcome the arrival of a new life.
However, her boyfriend Mr. Li's attitude towards the child was extremely cold. said bluntly that he did not want this child. The relationship between the two has reached this point. At Ms. Liu's strong request, Mr. Li followed her to meet the woman's parents.
Ms. Liu's parents wanted to fully and carefully understand Mr. Li's situation, but Mr. Li looked at the whole process and did not respond positively to the concerns of the woman's parents. In addition, Mr. Li's indifference towards the unborn child aroused Ms. Liu's suspicion.
Ms. Liu went to investigate her boyfriend Mr. Li through her friend. found that her boyfriend was a married man with two children at home. The news of is like a bolt from the blue.
During the relationship between the two for more than 4 months, Ms. Liu said that she had met all of Mr. Li's colleagues, and none of them had told her the fact that her boyfriend was married and had children, which made it difficult for her to accept for a while.
Through further investigation, it was found that Mr. Li and his good buddies had a small group, where he often showed off his experiences of playing with women and taught relevant experiences and skills.
Even during Ms. Liu's relationship with Mr. Li, Mr. Li maintained a relationship with multiple women at the same time, and showed off his development with a certain woman to his buddies in the group.
At the same time, Mr. Li also exposed Ms. Liu's private indecent photos on the group and proudly declared: "I've got it done."
For the so-called women who have already started, Mr. Li abandoned them after losing the novelty, and at the same time took an offensive against other women who have not started, trying to get started in the short term.
According to Ms. Liu, Mr. Li sometimes plays with a woman for more than three months, and sometimes four or five women can have an abortion a year, so Ms. Liu has become one of them.
In this regard, Ms. Liu admitted that she was amazed by Mr. Li’s time management skills and was an excellent time management master. She wandered among many women with ease without being discovered. She really admired Mr. Li’s “scum”.
After the incident was exposed, after negotiations and negotiations, Mr. Li paid 130,000 yuan to Ms. Liu as compensation, but Ms. Liu did not accept this solution. She asked Mr. Li to compensate her for her youth loss fee of 300,000 yuan for half a year.
Regarding the solution proposed by Ms. Liu, Mr. Li said that he needed to consider further and could not give a definite reply for the time being.
In order to verify the situation, the reporter also called Mr. Li. Mr. Li clearly stated that he refused to accept the telephone interview and refused to make any response to the matter. He threatened that only Ms. Liu's lawyer could contact him, and then hung up the phone.
In desperation, Ms. Liu could only wait for the other party to consider the results first, and also consulted a lawyer to prepare for legal rights protection, and bluntly said that she must not let such a "scumbag" get away with it.
Mr. Li's time management skills are indeed shocking. I have to admire his clever methods and his hiddenness too deeply. 's shameless behavior of playing with women makes us indignant. It can be said that it has had a bad impact on normal marriage and love.
Since the beginning of dating, Mr. Li has impressed Ms. Liu through details. A man shows gentleness, consideration and care and warmth. This can really touch a woman's heart. It's just one thing worth thinking about: The two established a romantic relationship after only about a month of acquaintance, and Ms. Liu became pregnant shortly after falling in love, which really seems a bit hasty.
A relationship needs to be based on a comprehensive understanding of the other party. If you hurriedly think that the other party is worthy of entrusting just because of a few highlights of the other party, it would seem too cramped and no one is perfect. Everyone in has a little-known side. Only by increasing the cost of time can you understand and recognize the other party, so as to avoid taking a trap in love.
Men who play with feelings often just hope to cheat money and sex through a series of confusing means in the short term. Therefore, as a woman, if she wants to protect herself, she can only be able to see through some dark emotional scams by amplifying her understanding of time and increasing the cost of the other party’s acting.
Of course, we can ensure that we do our best to a relationship, but we cannot guarantee that the other party also has simple ideas. In order to protect our emotional interests, maintains a calm mind, reduces the heat brought by love, and fully and balanced understanding of the other party's character, so as to effectively avoid the pain of emotional deception.
How do you view Mr. Li’s despicable behavior as a time management master deceiving Ms. Liu? Everyone is welcome to leave a message to discuss, thank you!
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