text丨Love words: 30:30
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
In today's society, the male-female ratio is relatively serious, which means that some boys may live alone to their old age.
However, this does not mean that there are fewer girls than boys. When choosing a mate, girls can deliberately make things difficult for boys.
You must understand that marriage is relatively equal. When you choose each other and start a marriage, whether it is a boy or a girl, you need to adjust your attitude.
It is precisely because of this that girls should consider it clearly when choosing a spouse. After all, marriage is a matter of a person’s life. If you choose it well, you will be happy in the second half of your life. If you choose the wrong one, you may be in pain for half of your life.
3 suggestions for girls to choose a spouse. The sooner you know, the better:
Before you determine that the other party is the best person you are entrusted, you should love yourself
When you reach the age of marriage, whether it is a boy or a girl, there will definitely be restlessness between each other. At this time, some boys use sweet words to try to conquer their lovers. Faced with the words of his lover, some girls don’t know what to do.
In fact, when encountering such a situation, the girl must understand in her heart that should love herself before confirming that the other party is the one she is entrusted to.
Just like when I was a child, my parents asked that they should not go home at night or go down below what time, and not to date strangers easily...
The reason why parents ask you this way is that they are afraid of any danger you have, and they are even more afraid that you will meet bad people, so they will hand over everything to the other party, and finally be abandoned.
In fact, it is normal for parents to have such concerns, especially if you have not experienced society and do not understand the sinister truths of people's hearts.
People often say: "You will understand that some people are worth cherishing with your life, while some people are only suitable for detours."
For the boy who has just come into contact with you, you may be the person he met in the first place. It is definitely not easy to make him cherish you.
Therefore, when girls meet boys, they must learn to love themselves. Only self-love can they get respect and more love.
Learn more about each other's family, don't marry a boy with a strong family,
We often say: "Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families." Some girls think that their relationship is very good when they are in love, and they think that life will continue to be like this after marriage.
But the reality is not like this. Before getting married, girls need to learn more about the other party’s family, especially those boys whose families are too strong.
It should be clear that if a boy grows up in a strong family, his personality may be a little cowardly when he becomes an adult. Such a boy is likely to become a "mama's boy".
Even if he is not a "mama boy", his strong parents will interfere in the decisions of many major events between you two, and even directly interfere in the relationship between you two.
Therefore, as long as you and your partner are pursuing marriage, the girl needs to have a good contact with the boy's family before getting married.
Not only that, it is also helpful to get in touch with the boy’s family in advance, but it is also helpful to better contact with the man’s parents after you get married.
So, give a suggestion for girls. When choosing a spouse, you should have more contact with the man's family. A family with a bad personality and difficult to integrate into. Don't rush to get married first. After your problems are solved, then consider these issues.
Pay attention to the other person's character, don't pay too much attention to the material enjoyment
Two people in love are together, not just a collision of hormones, but more importantly, mutual support. If you want to support each other, you must first consider the other person's character.
It is necessary to be clear. You should not only look at the appearance and material things when looking at people, but more importantly, you should consider your character.
In " Don't Talk to Strangers ", An Jia and are a highly educated doctor. He has a rich material life and a high level of education, but he is a domestic violence man.
He did not care whether Mei Xiangnan did anything or not, but based on his own guess, he punched and kicked Mei Xiangnan, and the damage caused to Mei Xiangnan could not be reversed in his life.
can be seen that when choosing a partner, girls should not pay too much attention to material life and consider the other person's character more. A boy with noble character can bring you a better spiritual life.
Moreover, in today's society, the economic ability is poor. As long as you two work hard after getting married, your life will naturally get better and better.
almost forgot that when facing what you like and people who like you, my personal advice is to choose what you like.
Dig into your mind to please someone who doesn’t love you. It’s better to choose someone who loves you and you will be so happy.
Those who are favored are always fearless. The person you love will rely on your deep and pure love for him, hurt you ruthlessly, and refuse you constantly.
But those who love you will love you affectionately, constantly protect you, and make you happy, so please accept the person who loves you.
Love words:
Falling in love is a big deal. I hope all girls will take it seriously, consult with friends and teachers to obtain the true scriptures of love.
suggests that girls should protect their bodies before making sure that the other party is the one they are entrusted to, and understand their family before falling in love. Don’t fall in love with a boy whose parents are too strong, and pay attention to the boy’s quality rather than financial strength.
To put it bluntly, there is a big difference between the way of marriage and the way of love. Don’t think from the beginning that life after marriage is happier and more fulfilling than love life. After all, there are many issues that need to be considered in marriage and love.
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