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1,
Do you know what are the characteristics of a woman whose husband doesn’t love and his son doesn’t love?
Nagging, complaining, swearing, accusing, attacking, and insulting...
Most women who gather the above characteristics have a "cry" face. At a glance, you can tell that she is living a very unhappy life.
My mother-in-law is this kind of person. Living with her is very painful.
Last month, my mother-in-law celebrated her birthday, but none of the members of the family remembered her birthday. By the time I remembered it, many days had passed.
From this incident, we can see that my mother-in-law is not valued by her family.
woman (picture has nothing to do with text)
2,
Everyone knows when is the busiest moment of the year?
is during the Chinese New Year. Not only do you have to buy New Year’s goods, but you also have to clean your home.
says only two things, but the things are numerous and complicated to do. This task, in my in-laws' home, fell on my mother-in-law alone.
The word "full" expresses countless sadness.
Things are done well, that is what you should do; if things are not done well, why can't you even do these small things well?
The father-in-law, known as the boss of the hand, got the courage to accuse the mother-in-law of doing everything. It is so sad and lamentable!
Maybe, in the eyes of the previous generation, this is what women should do.
woman (picture has nothing to do with text)
3,
My husband, who grew up in a "macho" family, is exactly the same as his father.
But the difference is that the mother-in-law has different requirements for her son. She hopes that he will listen to her mother and act according to her wishes.
Reason is full, reality is skinny, how could a big man with wings standing on his thirties obediently listen to his mother?
So there is often a picture at home: my mother-in-law doesn't let my husband do this or that, and he just closes his ears and ignores his mother-in-law and continues to do what he wants to do.
or my mother-in-law asked my husband to help me do something, but he always said that he would not be in a hurry. Most of the time, my mother-in-law finished it by herself, and he was still lying on the bed without moving.
In my opinion, my husband, who is a son, does not feel sorry for his mother at all.
woman (picture has nothing to do with text)
4,
So, what should I do if my husband doesn’t love his son and doesn’t love his mother-in-law?
I told her the best solution is: "Love yourself".
The first thing to love yourself is to get out of negative emotions, close your complaining mouth, look up at the beautiful world beyond acre, and walk out.
Things within one acre of three parts of the land, otherwise you don’t do it, and don’t complain if you do it.
At the same time, you must also learn to praise and affirm the other party’s strengths, learn to see the other party’s changes and give recognition.
If you can't learn so much in a while, then at least you have to learn and shut up your mouth.
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woman (picture has nothing to do with the text)
Author introduction:
Ou Xiaoxi, I hope that through my words, you will experience the "human feelings" in the world.
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