When it comes to personal connections, her importance is self-evident. To say, what is the most valuable in society today? The most valuable connections are by no means confusing the public or groundless. What is the society in which each of us lives? Society is the sum of the relationship formed by organisms and the environment. Human production, consumption, entertainment, politics, education, etc. all belong to the category of social activities, and the relationship between people has become richer with social activities.
People need to understand each other through communication, attract each other, and gradually establish a relationship of mutual communication. There is a Chinese saying: One fence and three stakes, a hero and three gangs, which means that a person's power is limited, but everyone is high in firewood. A person's ability is very weak, but it can be done better with everyone's help. This is the connection. Her quality determines your status and life in society. If a person can meet one or several true confidants in his life, that is the greatest luck and the greatest wealth in your life. There are many examples of
, such as the King of Sketches Zhao Benshan , who was poor when he was young. If he had not met Jiang Kun and recommended Zhao Benshan's program to CCTV, there would not have been a brilliant future for Teacher Zhao Benshan on the Spring Festival Gala program and became a household name. It can be said that Jiang Kun is Zhao Benshan's noble man, and even Teacher Benshan admits this.
and then there is Yu Qian . When he did not meet Guo Degang , he was just an ordinary crosstalk artist, not showing off his face, and his cooperation with Guo Degang has become the greatest blessing in the crosstalk world. Deyun Club re-promoted the crosstalk that had already sunset. Guo Degang and Yu Qian, the golden partner, are still perfect and deeply loved by the audience.
On the other hand, some artists in the entertainment industry once relied on their connections to be extremely popular. Once they lost, they would fall apart. Take Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy for example. Before getting married, Angelababy was just a small model who did not show off and had no fame in the mainland entertainment industry. After marriage, Huang Xiaoming used all his resources and connections to support Angelababy. She paid 80 million yuan for a film and television drama, Angelababy was able to say with confidence: I am worth this money. Without Huang Cult Leader behind the back, would she dare?
Now the two of them are separated. Angelababy, who has lost the halo of the leader, summarizes her current situation in one sentence, which is how arrogant she was at the beginning and how humble she is now! She has become a small supporting role and ranks 6th. Even many less famous actors can hold her, which is sad.
The most unsatisfactory this year is Tao Hong . The incident with her good sister Zhang Ting was revealed. Zhang Ting and his wife went out to hide. Zhang Ting and his wife were investigated for something wrong, and Tao Hong, as shareholders, was also involved. On November 4, 2022, a hearing on Zhang Ting and his wife, Tao Hong and other main persons involved in the case were suspected of online pyramid schemes. It is understood that there are 19 subjects involved in the case, and a total of 11.3 billion yuan is planned to be fined, and Tao Hong's personal fine may exceed one billion yuan.
Zhang Ting made a fortune through Tao Hong's connections. Tao Hong also earned hundreds of millions of dollars through Zhang Ting and his wife, and finally lost both personal money. It can be seen that connections cannot be used at will, and it will be a big problem if they are not done well.
In fact, the ancients had already explained their connections very thoroughly. Confucius said: "There are three friends who benefit, and the disadvantages are three friends. Friends are straightforward, kind and understanding, and friends are knowledgeable, and they are beneficial. Friends are resistant to others, and friends are kind and gentle, and friends are slandered, and they are slandered." To put it bluntly, it is important to follow the dragon to the sky and follow the rat to the ground.
Celebrities are still the same. We ordinary people pay more attention to connections, because good connections can pave a good road for you, allowing us to gain new ideas and opportunities in business expansion, career promotion, personal progress, and knowledge acquisition. Get more resources and a larger social circle to make yourself better.
So what is the most valuable in society nowadays? It is hard to move forward without her. What kind of social circle do you choose and what kind of results will you get? "If you bloom, butterflies will come", "If you are decadent, flowers will wither", are you saying I'm right?