Loyalty is the bottom line and cornerstone of marriage.
Once men and women enter the palace of marriage, no matter how many colorful things you have before marriage, they should be put away. Because loyalty is the bottom line of marriage, once it touches the bottom line, it means that the marriage is about to end.
On November 15, a woman from Guangdong actually had a private meeting with a third party while her husband was not at home. Unexpectedly, the husband suddenly came back, holding flowers and gifts in his hand, who wanted to surprise his wife, but unexpectedly, he bumped into his wife and lover doing something unforgivable.
The husband was furious and wanted to tear them apart on the spot. The wife was so scared that she knelt on the ground tremblingly, begging her husband sincerely: "It's my fault that I steal people. I know I'm wrong. I'm sorry for you and the child. I'm sorry for you and the child. Let me go!"
The husband looked at his wife's pitiful look and said sadly: "You were cheated of 600,000 by someone. I didn't give up on you. I resolutely carried the debt on you and your children. But you did such a shameless thing! If you don't want to divorce me, you can divorce me. You must not betray me like this. Aren't you stabbing me in the chest? How can I forgive you!"
I have to say that the husband is a good husband, a good father, responsible, and not afraid of things when things happen. For the sake of family harmony, even if his wife makes mistakes outside, she is willing to provide her with the best care.
This all comes from the love of the husband. Because loving someone will tolerate her shortcomings, including the mistakes she made. But in the same way, loving someone is selfish. Even a man with a broad mind cannot tolerate his or her own women's infidelity in matters between men and women, and betrayal means the end.
Regarding this matter, a netizen left a message saying that the husband suddenly came home, which can be seen from the word "suddenly" that the husband has no trust in his wife. Between husband and wife, there is no basic trust, so what are you talking about debts or love? The reason why women do this is that they lack trust. The remarks of netizens like
are biased. You should know that when the husband came back from outside, he did not come back to check the rounds on purpose, but bought flowers and gifts, hoping to surprise his wife. If this man doesn't trust his wife, he will not still bear the debt after his wife is cheated of 600,000 yuan. It is because this husband trusts his wife too much that his wife is fearless and finally cheats on her.
Some netizens also said that since you can’t give your company, you can’t stop the woman from pursuing a better life. Netizens like
probably forgot that they are all adults and their marriage is chosen by themselves. Even if the two cannot live a life, they must get together and communicate well. After the divorce, they will seek the most happiness and better life. Instead of enjoying the love of your husband, you have to go outside with your husband on your back to steal fish.
There are even some women who excuse women. She just made a small mistake that many women would make. There is no need to hold on. This man is too stingy. The discussions of netizens like
means that a woman betrays her husband is just a small matter, and her husband should forgive her. Little do they know that women are adults. Since they have decided to enter the palace of marriage, they should be prepared to resist external temptations and be willing to be bound by their family. If the woman is not prepared and enters the marriage hall, she is completely for the meal ticket, then it is obvious that this woman is selfish. If you don’t love, please don’t hurt.
Some male netizens even have even more ridiculous remarks: Forgive me, brother, it is not easy to marry a wife in this era. Nothing can be improved by knowing mistakes. Give your child a complete home and give your wife a chance to correct mistakes.
These netizens are really standing and talking without any pain. You know, the man is already tolerant of his wife. Even if his wife was cheated of 600,000 yuan in a confused manner, he can tolerate her and help her bear the debt of 600,000 yuan. It is precisely because the man puts the bottom line too low that his wife does not take it seriously and easily cuts his husband's bottom line again, so the man can't bear it anymore.Refusing to forgive his wife!
Author's opinion
Love is beautiful, marriage is realistic. Once a woman chooses marriage, she has to face reality instead of always immersing in the beauty of love.
Because choosing marriage means you have to endure the collision of pots and pans every day, and the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt. A happy family requires both parties to manage it with care. In marriage life, only when both parties work hard can the firewood, rice, oil and salt penetrate the stars and seas, and pots and pans fill the poems and the distance.
Since a woman and her husband have started a family, they should accept the trivialities of life, put away their turbulent hearts, be loyal to their husbands, and live with them with them with peace of mind.
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