A few days ago, my boyfriend posted a picture of me very abnormally and asked which side of the girl's eyes look good on the picture. Because I don't usually draw eye shadows (lazy + poor technology), I'm pretty sure he is not going to buy me a gift.
I asked him who this girl was. At first, he said "a junior high school classmate" casually and forced him to ask him before telling me that he had a good impression of this girl in middle school, but at that time he only saw learning, so the two became "good buddies". I looked through the chat history between my boyfriend and this girl. I didn’t chat often and didn’t have any particularly explicit conversations. I posted a Taobao link to ask my boyfriend which skirt looks good. My boyfriend also took a screenshot and asked her which jewelry looks good (a gift I bought for me).
I don’t understand or accept it. Which eye shadow skirt looks better? Shouldn’t you find your own partner or a consultant for a same-sex friend? Is she showing her presence in front of my boyfriend? Or are they really just ordinary friends? I think I am stingy? I won't break up because of this, but I'm just a little disgusted. Uncle, how should I judge whether other girls are interested in my boyfriend?
Is there any pure friendship between men and women?
The discussion on this issue on the Internet is no less than "there is a chicken or an egg first".
Personally, I think the relationship between men and women is not limited to love, but also friendship.
Since it is pure friendship, then gender will be blurred to a certain extent, and topics that can be talked about will also have boundaries.
Many boys can’t figure out what gifts to give to their girlfriends, and then ask friends with good-looking vision to give some advice. If it stops here, it’s actually nothing.
got help and expressed gratitude. Even if you have finished helping, isn’t it like this among friends?
Just from the description point of view, there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend's approach, and he has carefully selected gifts.
And it is hard not to think about the way female classmates do it.
After all, whether the skirt looks good or not, it is difficult for ordinary boys to give constructive opinions except saying it looks good or not. The problem of
has gone beyond the scope of help and has risen to the stage of aesthetic appreciation.
In my opinion, either the motivation is not very simple or the sense of decent is lacking.
How to judge whether a girl is interested in her boyfriend?
First of all, see if she has playing tricks on and doing ambiguous things in the name of a friend.
For example, if you intentionally or unintentionally remind the other party: "Will your girlfriend mind my existence?" "You chat with me, your girlfriend won't be angry, right?" "Your girlfriend will be jealous, otherwise we won't contact you in the future."
Then, see if she often asks for help, she always shows weakness and miserable.
If you really treat your boyfriend as an ordinary friend, then her attitude should be polite and alienated; if you have other small thoughts, whether you have anything or not will become an excuse for her to come to her for comfort.
Finally, see if she has crossed the line and test and evaluate your relationship.
No matter how good the relationship between friends is, they should not intervene in their own personal relationships, let alone friends of the opposite sex.
In addition to the above three points, you can also see if the two have made an appointment to meet separately in private, whether there are any financial and material exchanges, etc.
Love is exclusive and possessive.
It is understandable that you care about your boyfriend and worry about the temptation outside.
He told me with a sentence "classmate". It may be because he has a ghost in his heart, or it may be because he knows that he is worth it. It is better to have less than more things.
If you feel uncomfortable, communicate. If you don’t say it, you will feel tired after thinking about it. He doesn’t feel that it is inappropriate.
If you say it, he will pay attention to the boundaries and avoid making actions that make you feel uncomfortable.
Couples should be honest with each other, so communication can solve problems; non-couples should have a sense of proportion to each other.
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