at the beginning:
Life is like the weather.
You don’t know when there will be lightning and thunder, nor when there will be good weather. The same is true for marriage.
You don’t know whether the people around you can support you when you encounter a blow, and whether you can become a perfect community when there are variables in life.
Shu Ting once chanted in "To Oak Tree":
"If I love you, I will never be like a climbing trumpet flower. I will show off with your high branches. I must be a kapok near you, standing with you as the image of a tree. The roots are tightly held on the ground; the leaves are touching each other in the clouds"...
It can be seen that in the world of emotions, two people stand side by side, entangle each other, and face the wind and rain together.
Everyone yearns to meet the most suitable person at the most beautiful age, but this is just the beginning of love. When men and women are truly together, only after living together can they see the truth about their good or badness.
After middle age, those men and women who know love can live a better life in their long lives, mostly because they know very well in their hearts: what life should pursue should be "happiness" rather than "perfection".
So, they pursue happiness, just do this right: be able to be together.
Only when "husband and wife are united" can they break the gold and let love and happiness be together.
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Only when a couple is united can they walk through ordinary days together
What is a couple?
The old saying goes well: quarrel for a lifetime, make trouble for a lifetime, and endure for a lifetime, this is a couple.
What is home?
family is bitter, spicy, sweet and sour, two people bear it together and operate it together.
The beauty of love is often when you first meet, you will see many beautiful scenery. After that, the weather is full and the waning is over, and the two people need to work hard together so that they can feel the warmth of the sun, the fragrance of the weeds, and the flowers bloom brilliantly.
After all, home needs to be together with true feelings and concern for each other.
Perhaps, when we first got together, we would argue because we put salt and soy sauce when cooking, and we would chatter because of snoring at night and putting our shoes randomly... But, in the end, everything turned into yellow images, warm and peaceful.
Two people are together, just to make up for their days, and they are busy inside and out.
Although love has become a firewood, rice, oil and salt, who can say that "fire, rice, oil and salt" is not a part of love? In this life, a person is often the most affectionate, and the most unforgettable every day.
Only when a husband and wife work together can life be dull.
Otherwise, a home may be full of indifference and coldness anytime and anywhere, and there may even be a crisis of bed and dreaming of different dreams, treating home as a battlefield.
Real love is actually to go through the ordinary together, give each other, understand each other, love deeply and be calm.
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Only when a couple is united can they taste the bitter, spicy, sour and sweetness together. After tasting the emotions between middle-aged men and women, they are to settle their hearts.
The person who tastes bitterness, sweetness and sourness together is the most precious wealth around you.
is like, some people say that Mei Lanfang and Meng Xiaodong have mutual appreciation and souls, but they can only say that they have loved each other.
The woman who truly nourishes Mei Lanfang's spiritual and gives him spiritual support is his wife Fu Zhifang. This woman who has been proficient in folk art since childhood is the one who has been through the bitterness, sourness and sourness with Mei Lanfang.
Back then, Fu Zhifang married Mei Lanfang, and Mei Lanfang also had a wife, Wang Minghua. Because she was sick all year round, Fu Zhifang respected this sister very much. Wang Minghua could not have children, so she brought her first child to Wang Minghua. When Wang Minghua was dying, she visited the cemetery for her. A hundred years later, she arranged her future generations properly.
Fu Zhifang has also given everything in his life to take good care of Mei Lanfang's family. She did her best to help her husband manage her career, accompanied him to read books, paint, and revise scripts; she adhered to her duties, and was in line with her husband to spread the branches and leaves for the Mei family; she had a stable mentality, could share wealth with her husband, and was never left in poverty.
When Mei Lanfang was besieged and cut off contact with the outside world, Fu Zhifang withstood the pressure and took care of the livelihood of dozens of people in the family; when Mei Lanfang set her beard and clear-minded, she left the stage without any source of income, Fu Zhifang sold jewelry for household use without hesitation.
The two of them, one is the highly anticipated star on the stage, and the other is willing to be behind him, taking care of this husband who has always been at the forefront.
They survived the ice of life together, endured the eruption of the volcano in danger, walked through the quiet and ordinary years, and resolved all the difficulties together.
Love is actually created in this way, and happiness is obtained in this way.
Mei Lanfang once said with mixed feelings: Without Fu Zhifang, how could Mei Lanfang be there?
Yes, it is said that "you can cross the same boat after a hundred years of cultivation, and you can sleep together after a thousand years of cultivation."
can be seen that a home is not only a firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but also a lingering and warm harbor. It is a comfort in the vicissitudes of time and a companionship when you are confused and confused.
The happiest emotion between middle-aged men and women is the bitter, spicy, sweet and sour, tasted it together, love it real and openly.
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Only when a husband and wife are together can we survive the poor and wealthy
See a sentence, marriage is like making tea.
The first is love, the fragrance is scent; the second is the newlywed, the lingering and fresh; the third is the marriage for many years, as plain as boiled water.
can be seen that only when couples work together can they use a normal heart to fully understand love.
Couples are like two legs, poor and rich, and need to bear together, so that they can walk steadily and quickly. If we always complain and blame each other, then the life of the two will never be happy.
is not a place to reason. The way for husband and wife is to know how to "decorate each other" and suppress the complaints and emotions in their hearts, understand more and be more tolerant.
The so-called "scoop the moon in your hands, and make the fragrance of flowers fill your clothes." This is the beauty of life.
Whether poor or rich, two people can spend more time, love in the details, live a romantic atmosphere with trivial daily life, let the flowers in spring bloom all over the garden and the snow in winter fall all over the yard.
Wife is a valuable asset in the family. Most smart women know how to "gold" on men's face; men are the pillars of the family. Most men who love their wives have mature and steady personalities, good fortune and a strong sense of happiness.
Between husband and wife, they are friends and friends. The tighter the two of them hold their hands, the more they can overcome the difficulties of life and withstand the various blows of life.
Nine out of ten things that are unsatisfactory in life.
Love is the breeze and moon in the time of good fortune, and the wind and flowers in the time of difficulties.
Conclusion:
years drive people to grow old.
Once a man and a woman pass a romantic age, she will be greeted with an anxious middle age and a gentle twilight age.
people are awkward age after middle age. There are old people above and young people below. There is no emotional impulse when I was young, but I have not been with the person next to me until the depth of old age.
Therefore, middle-aged men and women can "husband and wife be together" better than saying ten thousand words to each other, "I love you".
Perhaps, what you care about every day is also about economic gains and losses, and you will also discuss your children's schooling issues, and you will also consider all kinds of troubles. However, love will have a bond of family affection because of the word "unity".
Although the two people have no sweet words, they have more care for each other; there is no "red wine and roses", but they have more spiritual dependence.
What I long for in my heart is not the white moonlight or the fireflies that I catch at night, but the ability to be able to be in harmony with my heart and have the determination to spend the rest of my life together.
This is the love between middle-aged men and women.
The more "husband and wife are united", the more they can go through the ordinary years, survive the bitterness, sorrow and sourness of life, and withstand the ups and downs of life.
Don’t talk about love or love, but the heart and heart are closest, and the hands are held tightest.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
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