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As the saying goes, the dragon has nine sons, and even if the two sons born with the same father and mother, the personalities and tempers of the two sons are different.
It is often seen in life that after the children of two sons get married, parents only like to live with one son.
The one who often stays with his parents is always told by the other that his parents are biased and given everything. Is this true true in
? It is often seen in rural areas that the family of two sons.
The eldest son got married relatively early. When he was taking care of his grandson, his parents were still young, and he began to help his eldest son take care of his grandson.
A few years later, after the youngest son got married, he became a grandparent and went to help his son take care of the children.
It is very likely that the old man will have a second child and are helping the second family to take care of the child. The child is still young and cannot do without people.
If you are a grandparent, if you want to help the elderly take care of them, (usually, if you are a grandparent, you are not very willing to take care of your children if you don’t take care of them).
If a grandma wants to take care of both sides, it may be because she is willing but not capable, so she has no choice but to stay in her second home first.
After a long time, you may be hated by the eldest brother, and after grandma takes care of the second brother's children to school.
When I want to come back to take care of my boss, maybe everyone has already overcome the difficulties and no longer needs her.
When I was a child, I was in the countryside, and there were many such examples around me. Another one is that I have a son who is more obedient.
may be relatively good to parents. Parents are more comfortable to stay with them and like to stay with them.
There is no unified law in this regard. Some families are filial to the eldest son, while others are filial to the youngest son.
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I remember when I was a child, I was a young man at home, my father, two brothers, and two sisters, I can remember it since I was a child.
I have been there during the day, staying at my grandparents' home, and my dad is a filial son recognized by the whole village.
Our family usually has delicious food and delicious food. After it is finished, my dad asked me to give it to me quickly and grandparents.
In the uncle's family, since he married the aunt, when his family gave birth to his eldest son, his grandmother was only one or two years old.
also doesn’t have time to help them take care of their children. When they gave birth to their second daughter, grandma did help them take care of them.
The aunt dislikes her grandmother’s bad care. My dad is the second child and gets married a few years later than my uncle.
I heard from my mother that when I gave birth to my brother, my grandparents were very happy when they heard that it was my grandson, so they quickly sent a bowl of eggs.
Later when it was my turn to give birth to me, my grandma went over and saw that it was a girl, so she turned around and left after the confinement period without taking care of her.
My mother said that she gave birth to me and went to the field to cook by herself on the third day, and her grandparents never took me with her since she was a child.
It was after I was over two years old, my parents needed to go out to work, and my grandmother also needed to take care of my uncle's daughter, so I forced me to stay with them.
There is nothing good in the countryside in the north. Children usually come out to eat, and when they are hungry, they will break some steamed buns for you to eat.
In fact, grandparents are quite partial. Each of the two sons gave birth to a boy and a girl, and the eldest aunt got married and gave birth to a son.
During the Chinese New Year, four grandchildren, one of them, and one grandson gave 5 yuan of New Year’s money.
Grandma only feels sorry for her daughter to get married. Whether she has money or something at home, every time her eldest aunt returns to her parents' home. When
left, grandma secretly stuffed it to her, and she gave it to her every time.
The little aunt is a more honest person. After she got married, she was instigated by her eldest aunt and grandma.
married to my eldest aunt's village. When I returned to my parents' home, the two sisters often came back together.
Every time I leave, my grandmother stuffs things to my eldest aunt, and my eldest aunt accepts them.
But the little aunt felt that she shouldn't want the old man's things. She refused every time, and she was disliked by her grandmother and aunt. She was stupid.
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At that time, rural children went to school at the age of seven or eight. Before that, my grandparents didn’t like me very much.
After going to elementary school, they always go home to eat after school at noon, and the children have to help their mother cook firewood.
After a long period of time, I learned to cook early. The porridge I usually eat in rural areas, steamed buns and noodles are not a problem.
Every time I steam the steamed buns, I get used to it and give them two for my grandparents to eat.
Then I went home and started eating with my family. This is all the family style of our family and I have been used to it since I was a child.
After the uncle's daughter went to school, she didn't let him go to his grandparents' place, and what delicious food was there when she got home.
Aunts are always closed and eat with their own family. Don’t expect them to give some to their grandparents.
Sometimes there is a conflict. The aunt always says that her grandparents are not, saying that they are partial to my family and are close to my family.
also said that when the family was split, she was given a bowl with a gap, and she gave her a handful of sickle, and played again with the old tune.
In fact, everyone around you knows that the aunt is the kind of selfish and stingy person, the kind of person who can only take advantage of the situation and cannot suffer losses.
Usually she is the only one who eats other people's food, no one else can think about what she eats.
Later, grandparents got old and grandpa became sick and bedridden. They needed their sons to feed each month.
Mom always eats what we have, and it will be the same for grandparents. We always choose the best for them.
And the aunt always keeps it for herself and gives the dark flour to her grandparents.
Because I could do housework later, I usually do the work in the kitchen when my grandma is free.
My grandfather was sick and lying on the hospital bed for several years, but his heart was like Mingjing, knowing who was the best for him.
Uncle has a car repair skill and makes money outside all year round. He is instigated by his aunt and never gets money for his grandparents.
comes back occasionally, and just look at it for a while and then leave. The money left for grandparents was cut by half by the aunt.
For more than a year, my dad took medicine all year round and every time I got sick, he would take him to the hospital.
The medical expenses were also paid by our family. In those years, we had to pay for my grandfather's medical expenses and also to support my brother's schooling. Our family was so miserable.
But my uncle's life was very good. When my uncle's son grew up, he also learned his uncle's skills.
can drive and repair cars. Usually, others build houses, help others pull sand, cement bricks, etc.
Each person has a salary of several thousand yuan per month, not only has a house built in rural homes.
also went to the town to buy land and build a house. When my grandfather's life was at the end, he often told my father that the loss in front of his parents is not a loss.
Of course, my dad never felt that taking care of his parents is a disadvantage, but in fact, the word filial piety is the word.
Some people just talk and never take any practical actions, while others are doing it day after day.
The elderly are not fools. They know which son is kind and which son is unreliable.
Although everyone says that one bowl of water should be treated equally, even if the old man treats his two sons, his attitude is the same.
However, the two sons have different attitudes towards the elderly, so the elderly have no choice but to live with the filial son who is not very caring about it.
Do you have the same phenomenon around you?
Author: Sister Jenny!
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