It is difficult to control love. It is hard to control one's love when it is deep, especially when you are in love, it is very possible to do anything outrageous.
Especially in this era of fast-food romance prevailing, you may be able to get your certificate together with just one touch. Such hasty entry into the marriage will actually leave great hidden dangers.
The reason why it is called falling in love is to let everyone talk more and communicate more, understand each other's character and personality, understand each other's family and way of doing things, and see if you are suitable for being together.
Although love is very important in a marriage, it is often more important to suit you than love, especially choosing a reliable partner.
Good news or nightmare?
A woman in Chongqing was in love with her boyfriend for a while. As the relationship between the two became stable, the parents of both parties also began to put their marriage on the agenda.
Originally, the relationship between the two was very good when they were in a relationship, and the parents of both sides were optimistic about the two. When discussing the marriage of their two children, the parents of both sides were also very harmonious and basically nothing happened.
After discussing the marriage between the two, the parents of both parties began to prepare for the wedding for the two. Although the process was a bit tiring, everyone was very happy.
Just when the wedding date was approaching, the woman unexpectedly found out that she was pregnant. She originally thought that both of them were going to get married, but she did not take any protective measures.
Getting married and getting pregnant will come together. Normal people will definitely think that it is a double happiness. They may hold a big deal and let the relatives and friends who come to congratulate you share the joy.
If you are pregnant, don’t give a bride gift?
At the beginning, this Chongqing girl thought so, and she happily shared this joy with her fiancé, but at this moment she didn't understand that this was not joy at all, but the beginning of a nightmare.
Learning that the girl was pregnant, the attitude of the man’s family began to change subtly. From the beginning, they advised the two to get married soon, otherwise they would be too big to look good when the belly was big.
later publicly stated that they would not give this bride price. The bride price that had been negotiated before would not cost much money.
This is obviously because the girl is pregnant. If she wants to control the girl and refuses to give the bride gift, the woman's parents are naturally very angry and don't want to get married.
But the girl still can't let go. After all, the two still have feelings and there is a child in their belly. If you can have a good talk, try to talk as much as possible.
Going in a way and making a point?
The woman did not make a big fuss, and the man did not do it too ugly. After all, when people live in this world, they should not do some things too extreme, and they should still give their face.
So after a discussion, the two sides changed the bride price from the original 100,000 to 48,000, mainly for good luck, but the man's attitude was still unclear and he had always disagreed.
things have been dragged down like this. The man also disagreed with the wedding that was originally prepared. Now the two sides have completely collapsed.
After the quarrel, the man wanted to hit someone. The woman's family immediately took her back after learning about it. Now they completely saw the man's family clearly.
Now that the children are born, the man still has no attitude, and the woman understands it. When she learns that she is pregnant, the other party wants to make a fortune.
Many netizens expressed sympathy for the girl’s experience, telling girls not to give in. Don’t marry such men, otherwise there will be some hardships in the future.
And the child should not be given to the other party. Even if the man wants to fight, he will not give it to him. If he can do things so well, what kind of face will he have to ask for the child?
Of course, some netizens also said that this phenomenon is everywhere, so be cautious before getting married, cherish yourself, and try not to have children before marriage.
Be sure to take care of yourself before marriage. Of course, this kind of thing happens. What is more important is that the man’s family is not good. It is best to see these clearly before marriage, otherwise he will suffer even more after getting married.
Those who value you, even if you are pregnant, will find a way to give you all the sense of ritual, instead of using pregnancy to cover you. The man’s family is really unauthentic.
But some netizens think that girls deserve it, don’t love themselves, suffer from it, etc. They should have beaten the child at the beginning, and there will be no trouble now.
But the man's attitude was ambiguous at that time, and the woman still wanted to live a good life. It was not the woman's fault. As a result, the other party dragged her until the child was born. It can only be said that the man was unreliable and the girl was a little naive.
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