talks about marriage, but he can't afford a house.
In relationships, some women are more rational and will look for them according to their own standards from the beginning, finding someone that meets the requirements, so later, if they get along well, they can successfully get into the marriage.
However, many women don’t think so much at the beginning, they just focus on their emotions first and then talk about it when they are in love.
It will not be until one day when we start discussing marriage with each other, and future housing issues will be understood.
At this time, some men will be able to solve this problem just in time and everything will be smoother.
But there are still men who really can't afford it, even if they just pay a down payment, they can't do it at all.
On the one hand, it is about feelings, and on the other hand, there is no anxiety about the house. You will inevitably not know how to make a decision. In fact, you don’t have to think so much about how to do it. You can do it completely according to your own wishes.
cannot be accepted, so you can choose to break up.
Most women often have an obsession with houses.
There is no house, and living in a rented house, you always move in various ways, and you will feel uneasy and have no sense of belonging. Only when you have a house after marriage, the house is each other's names, and even if it is a man's name, will you feel more secure.
The depth of this obsession is different for different people and the degree of anxiety is also different.
If you are very persistent and this condition exceeds all conditions and cannot give in at all, then when the other party cannot give you, you can actually choose to give up this relationship.
cares very much, cares very much, wants it very much, but finds someone who can't give it to you. Even if you are together, your life will not be easy in the future. You will keep talking about this, and the other party will always feel very annoyed.
tugging, your little relationship will soon be exhausted and your life will be difficult.
Indeed, letting go directly because of the house does sound a bit unkind and not very good, but you can make the decision on your marriage and you have the right to choose what you want. At the beginning, you should be relatively satisfied.
Of course, if you make such a decision, you must think clearly, so as not to regret not being the first to think about it in the future. Once you lose that person, it will be difficult for you to find it back.
The other party is very reliable, so you might as well give in first.
If you desire to have it, but you don’t mind that much. The other party is really good-character, motivated, treats you very well, and is very responsible. But your family is not so good and you can’t afford it for the time being, so you can’t actually take it seriously.
. Living a life is very important. If the other party is a good person, it is more important than everything.
Not everyone has a good background. In this era when housing prices in many cities are very high, a young man in his twenties and thirties wants to buy a house with his own strength, even if he gives all his family's strength, it is not realistic for too many people.
So, if you are very sure of the other party, think that the other party is worth it, and the other party has a very attitude, you can also contribute and work with the other party to see if you two and your two families can get together to make each other’s family have a home.
If possible, this is very good, but not for the time being, then wait a moment.
Give the other party some time to be with the other party first, and let’s talk about the house matters later.
In fact, as long as you can think a little bit open and don’t always think that you don’t have a house, work together, and work hard together, and your life can be good.
is very good to enjoy the fruits of
. If you are right, it is also a good way to make your life better and better with the other party.
Can’t afford to buy people, just give up.
A man who can't afford a house is often divided into two types. One will tell you his actual situation and will also face this matter with great enthusiasm, telling you how to solve the current problem first and how to plan for the future.
He can't give you now, but you can feel that it will be possible in the future, and he will not let your situation be like this all the time.
There is also a kind of man who can't afford it, but he will not feel embarrassed at all. He will only give up. He looks like you want a house that is material and power, and he will not look like a good woman. He will blame you and derogate you in all kinds of ways.
Anyway, he can't give you it now, and you can't feel any hope in him.
does not have any ability to handle things, and he does not respect you so much. He understands your mood. He only sees himself. He thinks that you are only worthy of living a hard life with him. He also has a very high self-esteem and cannot tolerate anything you say. Even if you like a man like
, it is best not to start pitying him, thinking that he is wrong.
can accompany a man to endure hardship, but not every man is worth it. It is obvious that a man is not very good. If you understand him, he will not understand you. Your future will be destined to be very difficult.
Taking advantage of this period, no matter what he says, you will be fine. You'd better be more sober and stop the loss in time.
For a boyfriend who can’t afford a house, you need to refer to your own ideas and also look at the other person’s personality.
Not all men with houses are worth marrying, nor is it a man without a house, so it is not worth it.
. The house does account for a relatively important part of living with a person, and more importantly, it depends on your own feelings.
see it clearly and figure it out by yourself. After that, you will make the desired decision based on your actual situation. No matter what the decision is, there is nothing wrong with it.
You can make your own decisions in your marriage and choose a way you think is good.
Originally, whether it is you or your boyfriend, whether it is a woman or a man, everyone is actually the same, they are all choosing this way.
choose by yourself and bear the result yourself, which is enough.
text/Tan Meng
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