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There is a poem that says: "Don't fight for strength and win, a hundred years is a theater. A gong and drum stop in an instant, and I don't know where I am my hometown."
People in this life, no matter how hard they fight for strength and win, they are just passers-by on the stage in the face of a hundred years of time, and there will be a day when the curtain call will come to an end.
As long as you hear the sound of gongs and drums, life may be over. Where is my hometown?
The world of the world will never change. And life has an end in the end. The so-called "Heaven and earth have no limits, life has time to end" is this.
You and I are all experienced people in this Saha world, and we need to taste countless ups and downs. Perhaps, if you have some experiences and experiences in , your life will be more enjoyable.
When we reach the end of our lives, countless people will review what they see and hear in this life and recall the little things. In the end, if has no regrets and can feel at ease, he will have a good ending.
who is accompanying us to the end?
Some people will say that they are our children; some people will say that they are our spouses; some people will say that they are doctors in the hospital... Maybe different people will have different answers.
Life looks shining because of its uniqueness and colorfulness.
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What really accompanies us to the end is not children, nor partners, nor outsiders.
Children may betray their parents, or they may go out to work for a living and cannot be with their parents. is completely dependent on children, which is not very reliable.
My wife may leave before us and may grow old with us, which is indefinitely. There are still some people who divorced halfway through. Without a wife, they will have to die alone.
people came naked and left naked. came to this world alone and left this world alone. All the people and things around you have become passing clouds.
Why do we often say "Life is empty in the end" ? Because we can't bring a single point, nor can we take a single point. At the moment of leaving this world, there was no one with , and only one is alone.
There is a saying that says: When your parents are there, there is still a way out in life; when your parents go, there is only a way out in life.
From the moment our parents die, we are destined to be lonely people. To put it bluntly, the next turn is us.
Life is just 30,000 days, and one day is missing. If you send one person away, you will lose one person. Life has finally gradually become deserted from the previous lively bustle.
The older people are, the more they can feel what "I am lonely, but my love is getting thinner."
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The only one who accompanies us to the end is us "our".
Wang Yangming put forward a point of view, When you open your eyes and see the flowers, this flower exists. And when you close your eyes and don’t look at the flower, the flower disappears and no longer exists.
When you first come into contact with this view, you will feel that Wang Yangming is more idealistic. Later, after savoring it carefully, I realized that this is the truth of life.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said: "The world is our own and has nothing to do with others."
How we are doing depends entirely on our hearts. I feel unhappy in my heart. No matter how beautiful life is, it seems to be a mess in our eyes. And if you feel happy in your heart, then even if life is full of rain, snow, wind and frost, we will feel happy.
Everything outside of it, whether it is a matter or the so-called person, is false. As long as we don’t want to contact it, they have nothing to do with our lives.
What's more, your life is only decided by yourself and should not be influenced by others. Following one's own heart is the most advanced state of being a person.
people will eventually return to their own world, and live from being a person who follows the flow and into a lonely person. is like a "swordsman", and can only walk alone until the day when you grow old.
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people can only "rely on themselves" for a lifetime.
There is a saying in the Diamond Sutra: "All appearances are false."
All names and appearances we see are absurd and unreal. After all, it is all the illusion of this world.
When we come to this world, we only have one task. In addition to living a good life, we must also practice our own homework, do our duty well, and then leave quietly.
When I was young, I worked hard to study and study by myself; when I grew up, I went out to work and made money by myself; when I was middle-aged, I responded to the midlife crisis by myself; when I was old, I would still be with me when I returned.
Perhaps, the closest thing is not the children or the wife, but the most real self in the heart. We live our whole life to "accept ourselves".
The so-called "accepting yourself" is to put it bluntly, which means knowing who you are and what you can do. No matter how ordinary you are, you must follow the trajectory of your destiny and start and end well.
Mr. Jin Yong said that he had a big fuss and left quietly.
In the world, one person goes around alone and try not to leave any regrets. When the fate is over, will leave alone, without taking away any wealth or a cloud.
The so-called "At the end of the song, everyone is a dream, and prosperity falls all over the place." All the beauty around you, all people and things, will disappear. And I will dissipate with the wind and eventually become empty.
The world, the world, the world, that's all.
text/Shushan Youlu
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