We "old" to Xi'an's female classmate Jolina sent a voice chat, saying that she was worried that it would be inconvenient for her to live with her son and daughter-in-law when she was old. If she returned to her hometown in , it would be inconvenient for her son and daughter-in-law to take care of her.
I have nothing to do at home recently. Imagine a good way to join the in the future to support the elderly : a few "old migrants" are in the same community, and each person buys a small room. In the future, when the grandson grows up, there is no need to worry about it. When the grandson and his wife grow old, they live separately from their descendants. Several old couples live in the same community, join together to support each other, take care of each other, interact with each other, play together, and be casual together.
Jolina is 58 years old this year, and workers within the system have retired. After two years of retirement, her daughter-in-law gave birth to a granddaughter for her. She immediately joined the "Old Moving" clan and came to Xi'an to live with her son and daughter-in-law, taking care of her granddaughter.
After several years of hard work, the granddaughter just entered the first grade and the daughter-in-law gave birth to a second child. Because there is still a mother-in-law who is nearly 90 years old in her hometown, Jolina's wife has to take care of her mother-in-law in her hometown. My son and daughter-in-law are busy at work, so she will definitely not be able to bear it if she takes care of her granddaughter and grandson.
So Jolina took her granddaughter alone and rented a house in the city center. She continued to go to school during the day and managed her granddaughter throughout the night.
daughter-in-law lets her parents live in the house she bought to protect her grandson.
Recently, Jolina accompanied her granddaughter to take online classes at home. When she was free, she was thinking about everything and was very worried about her pension problems after the age of 70.
After careful design, I chatted with me and told me a good way to live in a group:
Accounts of several "old migrants" fellow villagers, each buying a small room in the same community. After entering the age of 70 in the future, everyone will join in a group to live in a group, enjoy the joy of family and live a good life in their old age.
01. Buying a house cannot be purchased with money.
Because of the restrictions on the purchase policy, non-local household registration may not necessarily have the qualifications to buy a house; even if you have the qualifications to buy a house by lottery, the possibility of several fellow villagers being able to reach a community is very slim.
02. Not all "old drinkers" have enough money to buy a house.
If you are a retired person, after completing the retirement procedures, you can receive a certain amount of housing provident fund , plus the savings in your hand and the monthly pension, and purchase a small bedroom, pay the down payment, and mortgage, which may not be a big problem. But those "old migrants" who have worked in rural areas for most of their lives have no savings and no income in their daily lives. They are unlikely to buy a house to live in their own homes.
03. Children may not necessarily support the elderly in doing so.
"Old Piao" has a beautiful wish to live alone after entering the age of 70, but now it is necessary to invest more than 100,000,000, or even hundreds of thousands of yuan to buy a house. The chances of their children supporting them must be very small.
The current "old migrants" are mostly parents of only children born in the 1960s. For the above reasons, they should live down-to-earth in the present, and when they are in a strong body, they should help their children to the best of their ability, regard their daughter-in-law (son-in-law) as their own offspring, be close to their own children, and gain their likes, care, and filial piety.
When you enter the old age, you can say that you can't do it. You have your own children to arrange their lives in your later years. Now you think too much about it, but it is actually not necessary.
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