He Han After resigning from Chenxing, he turned off his phone and disappeared. Tang Jing I don’t know where He Han went, so I had to come to Jiangzi and ask Lao Zhuo. Lao Zhuo said: He is in Shenzhen.
At this moment, wearing a big red tweed coat and fashionable and beautiful Luo Zijun also came to Lao Zhuo's store. She asked Luo Luo anxiously: Luo Luo, have you seen He Han? I called him, but no one answered.
Luo Luo said that she hadn't seen He Han for a long time, and Luo Zijun hurriedly asked Lao Zhuo about where He Han was going. At this time, Tang Jing was standing behind Lao Zhuo. The two looked at each other, and the atmosphere was instantly awkward.
Once upon a time, Tang Jing and Luo Zijun were good friends for many years and could talk about everything. Now they came to Jiangzi for the same man and met without saying a word.
Luo Zijun did not admit in front of Tang Jing that she loved He Han, but her anxiety and concern had surpassed normal friendship.
At this time, Tang Jing was very sure that Luo Zijun and He Han were in love.
Tang Jing thanked Luo Zijun for giving Chen Xing a cleansing moment. Luo Zijun thought Tang Jing had forgiven her. However, Tang Jing said that one thing goes one thing. Thank you no matter how grateful she is, she does not mean forgiveness or cares about the past. Maybe I will slowly let go in the future, but at least not now.
When Tang Jing left Jiangzi, she asked Luo Zijun a question: Will you still go to Shenzhen?
Luo Zijun said affirmatively: Of course, if Mis Wu is willing to ask me.
After Tang Jing got into the car, tears in his eyes, he called He Han's phone number again, but unfortunately no one answered the phone.
Tang Jing left a message to He Han and said: I know everything, I still have to thank you for what I should thank you. I think, I know why you went to Shenzhen. Since you are leaving, don't come back easily. In the past ten years, I have been learning how to leave you, and I hope that from now on, I will learn it. Forgive me for not being able to express my blessings, you will never know how much you missed someone who loves you. Bye now!
Tang Jing held the phone and hung up reluctantly after a long time. At this moment, no one can understand how desperate she is. Because she completely understood that He Han had never loved her in the past ten years.
He Han disappeared after resigning, and seemed to disappear, not contacting anyone, but in fact he had already left a way out for himself. Because he knew Luo Zijun would go to Shenzhen, he also went to Shenzhen.
In the past, when He Han was with her, they were busy with work every day, and no one was willing to waste time on dates, which resulted in a long time meeting. There were several times when Tang Jing worked abroad, and she and He Han couldn't meet each other for a year.
Now, for Luo Zijun, He Han quit his once proud position and spent a lot of effort to build a hard work, and went to Shenzhen alone just to meet Luo Zijun.
He disappeared, but he disappeared from Tang Jing's world, went to Luo Zijun's world, and started his new journey of life. Tang Jing will spend a lot of time to heal the pain of being betrayed by her lover and best friend. She lost to Luo Zijun, but she was helpless.
Test
Tang Jing never dreamed that He Han would fall in love with Luo Zijun. When they first met, they obviously hated each other so much that they wanted to disappear from their eyes immediately. How could they fall in love?
Tang Jing clearly remembered that although Luo Zijun didn’t meet He Han many times, Luo Zijun saw through He Han’s essence at a glance. He Han was arrogant, conceited, narcissistic, and greasy. People like him are quite attractive to young girls who are not well-versed in the world or girls who dislike the poor and love the rich.
But for Luo Zijun, who is used to being rich and has a good face, but is actually self-righteous, he only feels disgusting.
Luo Zijun’s requirement for partner selection is that the other party loves himself wholeheartedly and loves this family. But He Han has a computer in his mind that always calculates the balance of income and expenditure. He can not take advantage, but he must not suffer any losses.
Luo Zijun hates He Han, who is petty and selfish, so he is too lazy to even talk to him. Tang Jing knew that Luo Zijun's analysis was reasonable, but He Han's handsome, wise and unstoppable attitude towards favors and disgraces was enough to cover up all his shortcomings. So Tang Jing still ignored Luo Zijun's opposition and had a ten-year relationship with He Han.
But she couldn't figure it out. She and He Han had not changed He Han's nature for ten years. Why did Luo Zijun only take a year to make He Han humane, down-to-earth, passionate about love, willing to fly into the flames?
She didn't understand even more that He Han had countless belles around him. As long as he liked, any type of girl would be willing to fall in love with him. Why did He Han fall in love with a woman who was middle-aged and divorced and had children?
Tang Jing found many reasons to explain the reasons why He Han and Luo Zijun fell in love, but no matter how she deceived herself or how she found reasons for them, she could not convince herself.
Tang Jing was unwilling to be reluctant to lose the relationship of ten years to Luo Zijun and He Han for a year, so she took the initiative to introduce her partner to Luo Zijun. First, to test whether Luo Zijun and He Han truly love each other, and second, to hope to take this opportunity to get Luo Zijun out of He Han's life.
But what surprised Tang Jing was that He Han cared about Luo Zijun more than she thought. When Luo Zijun and her blind date partner made an appointment to have dinner, He Han couldn't sleep at night and found Tang Jing late at night and decided to show off with her.
The moment Tang Jing opened the door, He Han felt guilty. He did not really break up with Tang Jing. Tang Jing returned to Shanghai from Hong Kong, and the two also talked about their marriage. Now that he is in love with Tang Jing, he is still in love with Luo Zijun. He has no confidence and no reason to let Tang Jing withdraw from this love triangle, so he is silent.
However, Tang Jing does not intend to deal with this matter vaguely. Since the matter has happened, it will be resolved and faced sooner or later. She took the lead in questioning He Han, how did He Han take care of her best friend during her year in Hong Kong?
Tang Jing calculated how He Han helped Luo Zijun at work. From Luo Zijun to Su Manshu's market research company , He Han spared no effort to help her, allowing her to grow step by step and get into Chenxing's work.
In life, Zijun was bullied and drunk at the welcome ceremony prepared by Ling Ling . It was He Han's hero who saved the beauty and guarded Luo Zijun for a night. He also lie with Chen Junsheng and deceived Tang Jing. She wanted to ask He Han what his mentality towards Luo Zijun is that he can leave such no room for anything, which is more concerned than Luo Zijun's ex-husband and best friend?
He Han was silent. In the past, he always did things without any leakage. If someone finds something wrong, he will turn around and put himself in a favorable position. But He Han was confused because of Luo Zijun and had many loopholes in his work. The lies he told, what he did, and the explanations he later could not stand scrutiny.
Just like He Han explained, Luo Zijun was drunk and someone had to take care of her. Chen Junsheng has married Ling Ling, so Chen Junsheng should not stay for too long, so he stayed.
Luo Zijun was drunk, why didn’t He Han notify Tang Jing to pick up Luo Zijun, but instead deceived Tang Jing and guarded Luo Zijun alone for a night? Didn’t he know that Luo Zijun is Tang Jing’s best friend? Isn’t it overstepped the line to take care of my girlfriend’s best friend without hiding it?
They are not getting married yet, and He Han started lying. Could it be that he wants to keep his marriage with Tang Jing alive in lies like Chen Junsheng?
He Han has seen Luo Zijun collapse in the face of this situation. Does He Han also want Tang Jing to experience this feeling of being betrayed?
However, He Han's face was not guilty, and there was no apology. He Han's performance disappointed Tang Jing very much.
Because He Han didn't understand why Tang Jing was so angry, he asked Tang Jing why he tried him and Luo Zijun? Why introduce a boyfriend to Luo Zijun? Why follow Ling Ling’s order?
Seeing this scene, I felt sorry for Tang Jing.She expressed her helplessness and sadness of being betrayed in such a collapse, hoping that He Han would understand how hurt she was and how much she cared about He Han and Luo Zijun. But He Han did not understand the profound meaning behind her sadness, but was just thinking about how to deal with Tang Jing so that she could end this relationship with decently.
Ask
Tang Jing asked He Han and Luo Zijun if they really fell in love? He Han was worried that Tang Jing would be unfavorable to Luo Zijun, so he hurriedly defended Luo Zijun that he wanted to fall in love with Luo Zijun. Luo Zijun never thought of hurting Tang Jing. In order to protect Tang Jing, she kept keeping a distance from him.
Look, love or not is so realistic. He didn't understand Tang Jing's sadness. He saw Tang Jing crying bitterly without any pain. He just felt depressed and wanted to escape. But when Tang Jing mentioned the three words Luo Zijun, she did not say that Luo Zijun was not good, so He Han began to defend Luo Zijun.
Tang Jing helped Luo Zijun so much and solved so many difficulties for her. He did not think that Tang Jing was righteous and great. Luo Zijun fell in love with her best friend and betrayed her best friend's trust, but he felt that it was natural and even felt that Tang Jing was not generous enough to help them.
people, it’s really easy to double standard.
Tang Jing gave up. She said to He Han sadly: It turns out that you have been delaying for so many years, not that you are unwilling to get married, but that you don’t want to get married with me. You said you wouldn't love others, just because I'm not the person you want to love. I can buy the rings myself if they look good, and I will love myself well.
After Tang Jing took off the ring, He Han left. No regrets, no guilt, no regrets, and no nostalgia.
Tang Jing didn't give up. She cried and chased him out and asked He Han: Why is it Luo Zijun? There are so many women who love you, why is Luo Zijun?
He Han explained that he had asked himself this question, maybe she made him feel real and relaxed.
After He Han and Tang Jing showdown, they went to Lao Zhuo’s shop to drink to drown their sorrows, as if he was the one who was injured. He Han asked Lao Zhuo: If you were me, what would you do?
He Han thought Lao Zhuo would understand his approach, and even thought he did it right, but Lao Zhuo answered without hesitation. It would be more important to say, of course, it was to draw a knife to cut off the water, cherish Tang Jing, and stay away from Luo Zijun.
He Han believes that doing so hurts the relationship between three people. Lao Zhuo asked him: Do you think you are honest about doing this? You are honest with yourself, but what about your rationality? Are you honest with yourself, are you honest with others? What should you do if Tang Jing is waiting for you for ten years? If you don’t love her, what have you done long ago? You said it earlier.
He Han defended himself again. He knew he was wrong. He would take the initiative to explain and apologize. As long as Tang Jing can calm him down, he can do anything. But Lao Zhuo was right. What’s the use of He Han doing these for Tang Jing?
What Tang Jing wants is He Han’s sincerity. He Han can’t give her what she wants, and everything she does is futile.
If one person is kind to another, it is not sincere, but to make one's heart feel better, it will only be more perfunctory as it does. It seems to make up for the other party, but in fact it will cause greater harm to the other party.
Ambiguous and entangled
He Han said that he and Tang Jing have always been playing a pair of golden boys and jade girls, but in fact they have never really trusted each other. He believed that he could feel it, and Tang Jing could feel it, but they were not willing to admit it.
In fact, it is better to say that He Han doesn’t trust Tang Jing, but He Han can’t make Tang Jing fully trust.
Not long after He Han and Tang Jing fell in love, a Vivian appeared. Vivian is young and beautiful. He Han does everything he wants to pursue. He Han enjoys it very much. Although there was no substantive behavior between them, He Han did not explicitly reject Vivian.
and even Tang Jing was jealous of Vivian. Not only did He Han not let Vivian explain to Tang Jing in person, but instead met with Vivian without telling him, he also allowed Vivian to provoke Tang Jing many times, watching Tang Jing lose control of his emotions.
He Han doesn’t think there is something wrong with doing this. He is very outstanding. What’s wrong with someone loving him? Tang Jing is not as charming as Vivian, and she can act spoiled without Vivian. Why can't he enjoy others' admiration and love for him?
In fact, He Han's attitude towards feelings is shameless. He delayed Tang Jing’s ten years of youth, but did he delay Vivian’s youth for many years?
If Vivian hadn't appeared in the hotel where He Han was staying, Tang Jing happened to appear. In order to hide his guilt in liking Luo Zijun, He Han deliberately defended Tang Jing in front of Vivian. Perhaps Vivian would have always been looking forward to He Han.
Fortunately, she loves less than Tang Jing and knows how to stop losses in time, so she withdraws from this relationship where she is the only one who gives her sincere feelings.
Vivian is very wise, I think this is also the reason why Vivian persuades Tang Jing to give up. If He Han really loves her, how could she delay her ten years of youth and never marry her?
After all, he was just riding a donkey and looking for a horse, waiting for someone who is more suitable for him to appear, then turned around freely and said innocently: I am not the me ten years ago, and you are not the you ten years ago. If you hadn't agreed to my proposal before, we might have been married.
In fact, Tang Jing knew in his heart that He Han did not plan to get married. He proposed, but he was not sincere every time he proposed. Even if Tang Jing agreed to his proposal, he would still find excuses to delay the marriage and tell Tang Jing with confidence: Our love does not need a piece of wedding book to prove that since I proposed to you, you have a status.
He will not bind himself with marriage, because what he needs is not a close partner, but a wife who can satisfy his vanity and self-esteem and make him feel valuable.
He Han is close to Vivian because Vivian has advantages that he appreciates.
The best way to act coquettishly women is. Vivian knows how to grasp a man's heart. Although she is not with He Han, she knows that He Han appreciates her, so she keeps chasing He Han.
Of course, He Han’s ambiguousness is not only with Vivian, but also with Luo Zijun.
Luo Zijun is going to apply for a job in the company, and He Han gave her a few pages of detailed information and asked her to memorize it. Those few pages are enough to show your attention. At that time, He Han was still in love with Tang Jing. I think as my girlfriend's boyfriend, I shouldn't be too concerned about her girlfriend's best friend.
Tang Jing didn't even send so much information to Luo Zijun. How idle is He Han? He actually took the initiative to do this? What's even more annoying is that when Luo Zijun and Chen Junsheng were in a lawsuit for custody, Luo Zijun was in a weak position.
In order to help Luo Zijun save the situation, He Han asked his subordinates to retrieve Chen Junsheng's annual business trip records and drove it to the court to hand it over to Luo Zijun.
At that time, Luo Zijun's eyes were filled with infinite gratitude and joy, because she found that He Han was really excellent and caring about her affairs.
In fact, Tang Jing also felt that He Han was a little too concerned about Luo Zijun's affairs, but at that time, Tang Jing didn't think too much. She thought He Han liked her, so she took the initiative to help Luo Zijun. But he didn't know that He Han was doing this to send a signal to Luo Zijun: Look at how good I am, and care about you more.
He Han has been smart for half his life and naturally knows what to do and what not to do. If he really has Tang Jing in his heart, or cares about Tang Jing's feelings, he should avoid suspicion and ask his colleagues or employees to send this information, or hand it over to Tang Jing, instead of delivering it in person.
He came forward in person, and seemed too deliberate, not to seek credit or attract Luo Zijun's attention to him. What is it for?
He Han is always emitting charm. He is a strong man at work and does not allow himself to fail, so he needs others to appreciate, admire and admire him. Only in this way can he feel outstanding. Tang Jing's ability is evenly matched by him, and he can't find his presence, so he can only find it from others.
He Han and Tang Jing had never done anything wrong during their relationship, and had never been impulsive. Even though he saw Tang Jing crying and his emotions collapsed many times, he had never lost control.
But facing Luo Zijun, he got out of control. Luo Zijun's mother passed away, but Luo Zijun did not inform Tang Jing, but Tang Jing came for justice, asking Luo Zijun's mother to let go of her knot and leave with peace of mind. Tang Jing is clearly the most aggrieved and sensible woman, but He Han felt sorry for Luo Zijun who wanted to cry but did not endure it, and did not care about Tang Jing's feelings at all.
He Han did this mainly because he felt that Tang Jing could live a good life without him, while Luo Zijun could not do without him. Because Luo Zijun is fragile than Tang Jing and emotional than Tang Jing.
Sure enough, children who can cry have candy to eat.
Change
Tang Jing’s greatest excellence is that she is independent, confident, strong, has strong self-repair ability, and is a workaholic, but these advantages of her in her marriage life are precisely her shortcomings, because she is too rational, lacks a little sentiment, and lacks a little fireworks.
Work is our source of income for life, but life is not just about work. There is also a hot dinner after get off work; there is also a gathering with relatives and friends on weekends; there is also a leisurely time alone; there is also poetry and the distance and unknown love.
A person is too independent, stubborn and strong, and is not good at speaking in life. He will not bow his head and act spoiled, and will be destined to lose a lot of things.
Just like a sentence in "Public Enemy of Women": When facing a gentle and charming woman who knows how to know and be interested, everyone may know that she is fake, but she will bring a different world to men. They know how to act spoiled in front of men, know how to show weakness, give them warmth, give them honey, give them different feelings and different beauty. Do you think men will refuse such a woman? Therefore, if you want to keep a man’s heart, you must give them spiritual obsession and benefits in life.
Smart women must learn to act spoiled and show weakness. Because psychological research shows that men have heroism in their bones, they long to be admired and to have a sense of value.
If a woman is too independent, a man will feel frustrated. Appropriately showing weakness and acting spoiled is not to prove that he is a weak person, but to stimulate a man's desire to protect and overcome hardness with softness.
Marriage requires wisdom, I believe Tang Jing will understand it slowly.
In the finale, after He Han completely left Tang Jing's life, Lao Zhuo said: Tang Jing, I always think that it is a good thing for He Han to leave you.
Yes, after Tang Jing left He Han, he slowly found himself. She can cry whenever she wants, laugh whenever she wants, and don’t have to show her excellence to anyone, nor do she have to be a strong woman, and she dare not relax at all times.
She began to enjoy life, enjoy the warmth brought by interacting with people, so that work can return to work and life can return to life.
When Tang Jing went to the Jiangzi, she said to Luo Luo: He wants to leave, but he can't keep it.
The sun shines on her face, her smile is like a flower, warm as spring, and the relaxation and happiness after relief that has not appeared for a long time.
If you understand regrets, you will understand life. If you let go, you will feel relieved. Being a woman with fireworks requires more wisdom than being a strong woman who only has work in her eyes.
I hope Tang Jing can not welcome the future, and she will not be mixed at that time. She will not love her life, live in the present, work hard, love life, live up to expectations, and live up to her years!
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