People who have experienced it revealed: Will having a lover affect the relationship between husband and wife?
Will having a lover affect the relationship between husband and wife? In my opinion, it depends on whether a man with a "lover" is a "smart" man or a "stupid" man.
Because "lover" is a special relationship between the outside of the marriage and the other party during the marriage. It cannot stand the light and can only love each other silently. Therefore, the key to whether a lover will affect the relationship between husband and wife lies in IQ.
The first type: stupid man. A man like
, low IQ determines that he is easily exposed in front of his wife. Such people lack planning and meticulousness in their work. This kind of man only knows about having sex secretly, but does not know how to reassure his wife.
Stay with your lover all day, but ignore your wife, and never think about it, and never think about it, often not going home at night, it is easy for your wife to be suspicious.
So, this kind of man is: he has a secret relationship with his "lover" outside, and his wife at home doesn't touch him, let alone caring and taking care of him in front of his wife. My wife was suspicious and was finally exposed to the world.
This kind of man not only affects the relationship between husband and wife, but also may also destroy the marriage.
The second type: smart men.
A man like this has a high EQ and a high IQ. Even if this kind of man loves his "lover" passionately outside, he is still a good husband who loves his wife when he returns home.
This kind of man is very smart. He knows what to do outside and what he needs to do with his wife after he gets home. Therefore, this kind of man's strategy is: enjoy "braised pork" outside, and don't forget to feed the "mutton" at home when you come back! You also maintain a certain couple's sex life with your wife.
And you will perform better when you get home, and you will take good care of your wife and children. He never stayed overnight and would not ignore his companionship and care for his wife. In his wife's heart, he is a good husband.
So whether a lover will affect the relationship between husband and wife depends on one's IQ and mentality.
Only men with high IQ can achieve "the colorful flags flutter outside, but the red flags at home will not fall"; men with low IQ will often make things messy, or even beat them up.
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