What men are best at is to marry an excellent professional woman home.
Then he said all kinds of sweet words, coaxing this woman to give up her career for love and children.
Be a housewife with peace of mind, and serve this man specifically.
Will the woman complete the transformation, will the man be satisfied? Not!
He began to feel that this woman seemed to be unable to deserve him anymore.
Then he began to dislike his original wife, not make money, have no career, and can only coax children and do housework.
They seemed to have forgotten why their wives became what they disliked.
blames the wife for all the mistakes, and then turns around and looks for the woman who is "worthy" of them.
Even if they cheat, they are justified, but what about the original wives?
will not realize the fundamental problem, either change yourself and get back the cheating man, or suffer alone.
This is the case with an extramarital affair that Scarlett handled before.
The original wife Ms. Ge and her husband have been married for ten years. Before getting married, she worked as a human resources company in a foreign company.
The two met through blind dates. What the introducer said at that time was that she felt that she and her husband were in the same condition.
both graduated from prestigious universities. She works in a foreign company and earns more than 10,000 yuan a month.
Her husband is also in a good company, working as an programmer, , and his salary is higher than her.
The two people have similar families, equal family, equal conditions, and similar age. After meeting
, the two of them looked at each other, and then fell in love and got married, and everything went smoothly.
The problem occurs after marriage. The cheating man wants to have a child as soon as possible. Ms. Ge is worried that having a child will affect her work.
The cheating man initially compromised. He said that he would have another child in one or two years, and Ms. Ge also thought her husband was very considerate.
And her husband did not face her badly because of this problem, but instead treated her better. She paid all the salary for
, and she actively did housework when she got home.
A year later, Ms. Ge took the initiative to ask for a child, and her husband also agreed happily.
Ms. Ge said that she thinks her husband is so good that she should satisfy what her husband wants. After
, her husband became pregnant successfully. She became more and more kind to her, and then in the name of feeling sorry for her, she advised her to resign and take care of her.
Ms. Ge was also moved. Regardless of leaving a way out for herself, the company handled the suspension of salary and stayed at work.
Her husband obviously knew that he had a child later and kept telling her that the child could not live without her.
If she went to work, the child would be in trouble. In the end, Ms. Ge resigned and became a full-time housewife.
Her husband also began to change slowly, from giving her money at the beginning, and later it was said that men need money freedom to develop their careers well.
From the beginning, I took care of my children and did housework when I got home. Later, I said that I was tired of work and Ms. Ge did nothing at home, so why did she ask her to do these things?
From the beginning, Ms. Ge spent money casually, but the man didn't care at all. Later, the cheating man disliked Ms. Ge and only knew how to spend money.
Ms. Ge is not unaware of these changes in her husband, but she has to bow her head under the roof.
It’s useless to quarrel with her husband, and she can’t put aside the dependence on her and go out for a good job.
So every time you quarrel, there is no result in the end, but it hurts your feelings.
Ms. Ge didn't want to argue anymore. What if the man cheated on her casually, she planned to find a new job when her child went to junior high school.
Before that time, she discovered her husband's extramarital affair first.
The mistress her husband cheated on is a female employee in the same department who had just joined the company for more than a year.
The cheating man and Ms. Ge said that the mistress is very excellent and her appearance of working hard is very attractive to him.
and Ms. Ge, who has no job but is just a housewife, loves mistress more.
Regardless of his lack of intention to divorce and marry a mistress, as long as Ms. Ge does not make trouble, he can give living expenses every month, and Ms. Ge continues to be a rice insect.
Ms. Ge feels infinite humiliation. She gives for the man who cheats on her for her family, and is finally called a mi worm by the man who cheats on her.
In fact, there are quite a few original partners like Ms. Ge, and even half of the original partners who have been cheated may be like this.
Very few original wife were housewives from the beginning, and they all had their own jobs before getting married and having children. Not to mention how much you make, the original wife is more than enough to support herself.
But after getting married, they chose to sacrifice themselves for their family, children, and their partners.
However, the man who once knelt on his knees and begged them to return to their family began to cheat after they became housewives for several years.
even belittled them in front of them to praise the mistresses, making them worthless.
For such an extramarital affair, Scarlett's advice to the original wives is to go out to work.
Find a job first. No matter how much money you make, you must start your career again.
As for the mess at home, don’t worry, throw all of these to the cheating man to solve.
The man who cheated on him couldn't stand it, so he just cleaned up himself, or he spent some money to find a nanny.
If a cheating man threatens with divorce, the original wife should not give in. She will fight for half of her property, and the loss will be the cheating man.
Most men do not want to divorce after cheating, especially those who have enjoyed full-time housewife care.
They know very well that it is better for the original wife to take care of them than if she is married to her mistress.
or they turn mistresses into housewives, and then the marriage becomes as it is.
They are just greedy and want full-time housewife to keep themselves free of worries and only enjoy marriage.
wants a woman who is "worthy" of herself and gives herself psychological satisfaction.
The original partner had to let them choose one of two and had to make a choice.
At the same time, you must also strengthen yourself and turn yourself into a cheating man who is not worthy of so that you can control the dominance of your marriage.
Finally, Scarlett wants to remind all women.
Never give up your own career for others, and give up what you can be proud of.
Your sacrifice will never be exchanged for long-term gratitude, it will only make you worse than before and eventually be disliked.
If you encounter emotional problems and don’t know what to do, you can contact Scarlett and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Yin Sijia, your exclusive emotional analyst, share emotional information and analyze various life.
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