Love in a possessive way will limit, bind and control the object of love. Over time, marriage becomes a shackle, making people feel depressed and breathless... I have called many times, but no one answers.

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01

I have called many times, but no one answered it.

I felt strange in my heart, so I grabbed my phone and rushed out of the house.

I went straight to my mom's house.

didn't bother knocking on the door, so he poked it in with the key.

"Mom, mom" shouted, and his feet spread throughout the room.

There was no response, nor was there a single figure.

I almost reached out to dial 110.

At this time, my phone rang...

It turned out that she and the dance team went to perform in another place.

Hearing her concerned words, I asked me over and over again if something happened at home if I called her so many times.

My arrogance was immediately suppressed.

I know that my mother loves the most is me.

Although, she is a little as she wants now, everything is the beginning of happiness.

02

My mother is a miserable woman.

21 years old, in order to leave the regiment, he was no longer harassed by the captain.

My mother chose to marry a man who was 7 years older than her.

This man is my dad.

My dad is a rough man, has no education, and works as a worker in a factory in the city.

1975, he came to Xinjiang from the mainland to join a distant relative who was an official in the city.

After he gained a firm foothold, he abandoned the rural woman in his hometown who was five years older than him.

by chance, a coworker went home to visit relatives and introduced my mother by the way.

My dad is one hundred satisfied.

My mother is very beautiful, with big eyes, tall man, wearing an old-fashioned Yeliang shirt, which can't hide her youthful atmosphere.

At the beginning, my mother disagreed, but the introducer said that my dad’s relatives were capable and could solve the work.

My mother was moved...

The work in that era was not something you wanted, it was really not easy to get.

03

My mother's arrival has become the "little rare" of the factory.

everyone said that a flower was inserted into cow dung, and my dad was so angry that he wanted to fight with him.

But he felt proud.

After that freshness, he no longer obeyed my mother so much.

At that time, my mother saw clearly what he was.

He began to restrict my mother's actions and interfere with my mother's freedom.

even if he has to let him know what clothes he wears and wherever he goes.

My mother had a big fight with him.

He hit my mom for the first time.

Marriage without emotions is destined to have no happy beginning and no good ending.

In my mother's words, she came out of the tiger's den and fell into the wolf's den.

When I first met my dad, my honest and honest appearance covered everything.

She thought that older age would not be inconvenient, she would love others, and live a stable life with honest people.

I never thought about my dad's tyrannical temper and suspicious personality.

my mom is almost crazy.

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Because of my father's domestic violence, my mother thought of escaping.

But before my legs could enter the station, my father caught him back.

My mom can't understand why my dad always takes one step faster, just like there are eyes on the back of his head.

Later, my mother was pregnant with me and she no longer wanted to run away.

She learned to observe her words and look at her expressions and try not to anger my dad.

Just because someone else said, his belly is sharp, he might be a boy.

My dad "pampered" my mom to the sky and didn't even let my mom get some cold water.

This kind of treatment ended immediately with my birth.

My dad has changed his face and never let my mom go during the confinement period.

It was then that my mother had a lot of root causes.

The man in the factory smokes and baskets in the sun, and his mouth is bigger than a woman.

compare whose wife has a bigger butt, and whose wife can give birth to a son.

is not the only one who is capable, who can make money, who can be promoted.

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My dad was naturally compared to the stage. He wanted an official but no official, and he wanted a son but no son.

That Shaanxi people's machismoism and the idea of favoring boys over girls.

is really reflected in my dad.

won’t give up until you have a son.

risked the penalty and made a review, and asked my mother to give birth to a son for him.

My mother refused and was slapped a lot for this.

My dad started to itchy paws as long as he had two cups of cat peeing.

My mother is not outdone, and she can’t beat her even if she can’t.

My family often makes chaos.

Neighbors don’t know how many times they persuaded and how many times they pulled.

can no longer persuade him, he can no longer pull him, and he is used to it. It is dawn and everything is the same.

Days pass by day by day.

My mom cried, and I cried too.

From I can remember, my mom's tears and my dad's roar.

often sways in front of my eyes and rings in my ears.

0 6

My dad is not only autocratic, but also stingy.

He is in charge of all the money in my family. We have to ask him for whatever we buy.

Even my mother's salary has to be paid as much as possible.

Otherwise my family will not be peaceful.

In order to calm down, my mother followed him.

My dad likes to control everything and likes to control my mom.

For so many years, my mother dare not have friends of her own.

dare not go shopping with colleagues in the workshop.

dare not have a meal together.

even dare not say more to male colleagues and friends.

my mother lives in such a twisted environment.

Even my mom attended a workshop art show, my dad was not happy.

Others praised my mother for being elegant and educated, and said she had given up in the workshop.

a very good sentence can be retorted by him: "It's a big deal."

07

In 1993, my mother was transferred from the workshop to the trade union and became a literary officer.

My dad said, "My mom did not do good things," saying that she must have an affair with anyone else."

my mother was so angry that she didn't eat for three days.

My dad has worked for so many years and is still a maintenance worker in the electromechanical department.

My mother's transfer immediately made the people who were jealous in the factory feel bad.

My dad is also willing to take a trap.

When I got home, I had a big fight with my mother.

My mother was so angry that she filed for divorce again.

My dad beat him even harder.

I came back from school and tried my best to save my mother, but I couldn't pull it.

My dad knocked me to the ground with a slap.

That is when my hatred for my dad was truly imprinted in my bones.

so much that he was gone later, I didn't shed a single tear or a trace of reluctance.

0 8

That year, I just went to junior high school.

Because of that slap, I ran away from home.

My mother called the police crying, and my family was circulating.

My mother couldn't stand the gossip and actually chose to jump into the river.

She lives too frustrated.

Fortunately, she was lucky and was saved by a kind-hearted person.

In the hospital aisle, my dad was still cursing.

The first time I shouted at him, hysterically.

"If my mother has a few things, I will die with you."

My dad was so scared that he shivered.

can start roaring when you come back to your senses.

"You bastard, you have no conscience. You dare to challenge me. I think you have the same virtue as your mother."

09

This time, my dad probably was afraid.

He actually knelt down and begged my mother to ask her not to divorce.

My mother once again chose to endure for me.

At that time, I knew everything.

My mother is a regular woman and never talks too much to other men.

She is very conservative in clothes, and she is afraid of being caught by my dad.

I don’t know when, but I also have the shadow of my mother.

I don’t want to date boys, and I have to avoid normal discussion exercises between classmates.

My mother put all her hopes on me.

She hopes that I can fly out of that city and fly further away.

also flew with her dreams...

I studied hard and finally got into college.

My dad shows off his feelings to everyone.

said that his ancestors had smoke coming out and a college student emerged.

He bought me a mobile phone for the first time.

My mother said that the iron rooster finally plucked her hair, it was not easy.

10

My dad saved over the years, neither I nor my mom knew how much money I saved.

We don’t know how much he sent to his hometown.

The catchphrase he talks about is poverty.

My mother would be anxious as soon as she said she would send some money to her grandparents in the farm.

He kept saying that he loved my mother, but he couldn't feel any love.

In addition to the torture of words, it is a fist to vent emotions.

I don’t know when he is in a good mood or when he is in a bad mood.

Sometimes he hums a little song and calls his wife one by one.

Sometimes he kicked the door open with one kick, and he was scolded.

My mother said she had been used to it.

She said that my father is inferior and sensitive in his bones, and he can't stand the sand in his eyes.

In the past, he was protected by his relative who was an official, and he could show off his power.

But since that relative fell, my dad has been teased by people in the factory.

not only makes a stumbling block, but is also looked down upon.

My mom said that my dad tortured himself and refused to gain skills by himself.

is not tough outside, so he nodded and bowed, and even vented his anger on his wife and children when he got home.

These are the bitterness my mother poured for me when I went to college.

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It is also because of my mother's guidance.

I just walked out of the "fog" I used to come out.

only began to yearn for beautiful love.

Lucky, I met my husband, a man who truly loves me.

We have been walking from campus and entering the wedding hall.

I didn't follow my mother's old path, I married love.

In order to protect my mother, my husband and I resolutely chose to return to our hometown after graduation.

I can’t live without my mother, I want to protect her.

I feel that my dad can’t tell me, but I just don’t want to pay attention to him.

Occasionally I went home for dinner, and my eyes were filled with anger when he complained to my mother.

Later, I didn't go home much.

I missed my mother, so I asked her out to eat delicious food.

That's it, my dad's phone will ring.

don’t know what he is looking forward to and what he is afraid of.

12

I always like to buy beautiful clothes for my mother, I think she is beautiful.

Retrieve all the beauty that has passed away.

My dad finally couldn't sit still and once again verbally attacked.

He does not allow my mother to dress well, nor does he allow my mother to apply makeup as I do.

"You are too busy with your control. Just take care of yourself. My mother is an individual, not your slave."

My dad and I have been fighting again after many years.

I couldn't help it even if my husband persuaded me.

What's more, I don't want to endure it either.

If it weren't for my mom's fear of being joked by the neighbors.

I have picked my mom away long ago.

My mother said she would have tolerated it all her life, saying that a factory, no one is from fighting or making trouble.

I felt a little sad and sad when I heard it.

A lifetime is not long, but short.

did not cherish and did not have good happiness, but spent it in endurance and suffering, and it became a habit.

It’s very sad to think about it, and it’s so chilling.

I am wronged and always like to cry in my husband's arms.

th of my little thing is no longer a secret to my husband.

He always advised me to say that my parents' marriages are less mixed, and that they have their way of getting along.

Every time he is scolded by me.

is not unreasonable, but my bad things are really not the case.

13

My dad is seven years older than my mom.

The body is aging day by day.

The old problems of headache, back pain, and heart pain often make him lose his temper.

My mother was a little slower and was about to be yelled by him.

The water is a little hotter. He said my mother wanted to burn him to death and the rice is a little salty. He said my mother deliberately punished him.

My mom said that my dad always picks on the bones in his eggs and doesn't know what he wants to do.

In 2010, my mother retired gloriously.

My dad is still sticking to his job.

was just replaced by the original repairman to the "old man" who was guarding the door.

His psychology once again fell into imbalance.

original care, in his eyes, became a donkey.

He cursed all day long and scolded the factory leaders.

My mother danced a square dance openly, and he said that she was inappropriate.

dances ballroom dance . He said that those men had bad intentions and rushed up and sniffed.

scared those men so much that they quickly escaped, and no one wanted to provoke my dad.

made my mother embarrassed and I didn't dare to dance again for many days.

14

In my father's eyes, my mother belongs only to him.

my mother is all due to his contribution to what she is today.

He often tells my mother and I to be grateful.

He said it was not him, and my mother was still farming in the farm.

said that I am a girl. If I were in the countryside, I would have been married long ago and I would have been able to go to college with a good life.

My mom and I just listened and didn’t answer, and my dad spoke even more vigorously.

My dad can speak in front of my husband.

Finally, he retired gloriously.

After retirement, he did not take out his savings and took my mom on a trip, but instead kept my mom looking even tighter.

Wherever my mother goes, he follows him.

Whatever my mother does, he can pick and hang out and chat for a long time.

My mother's clothes were worn, and he insisted that they were not good-looking, so he had to change them to what he liked.

I really admire my mother, and she can actually cooperate with him.

tolerate when you are young, but you can still tolerate when you are old.

I don’t know if it has been a relationship or a habit.

I don't believe the former, the latter makes me doubt it.

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The women in the new era are so different from my mother.

They can treat things that we don’t understand normally.

Maybe there is too much to consider, maybe you live a detached life.

can't explain it clearly, but in short, it's unreasonable.

Even such an important thing as meeting parents-in-law when getting married has become a mystery.

My mother married my dad for so many years and has never returned to Shaanxi.

My dad's family has never been to Xinjiang.

In my dad's words, it's not embarrassing to give birth to a money-lossing guy and have the nerve to go home.

When I was young, my mother had arguing, but later, I never mentioned it again.

As for what my father is afraid of and what he is hiding, it has become a mystery with his death.

In 2015, my dad died of a heart attack.

walked peacefully, without any signs, and walked while asleep.

16

My mother and I didn’t even have a single tear.

I was so shocked that I didn’t believe it was myself.

Perhaps that hatred has long been imprinted into the bone marrow, and has quietly permeated the whole life.

After my father died, my mother and I found my father’s passbook and notepad at home.

that densely records his "dark life".

My mother sold the old house and bought a new house near my house.

My mother's life has opened a new chapter.

She had nothing to do and asked her former old sisters and old colleagues to dance square dance.

She dressed younger.

doesn't look like a grandma at all.

My dad’s death did not make my mom feel a little sad.

instead is a kind of liberation and a kind of rebirth.

17

I don’t know when my mother fell in love with travel.

The journey that can walk around allows her to live a new horizon.

looked at the smiling faces and beautiful scenery in her circle of friends.

I burst into tears.

My mother, finally lived for herself.

has been frustrated all his life and finally made it through.

I am not as capable as her.

If it were me, I might have been out of the sea of suffering long ago.

But she has been waiting for me to give me a complete home.

so the story begins, and I am worried about her scene...

1 8

Time flies, and it takes several years in the blink of an eye.

In the past few years, my mother has not been idle.

She participated in the sunset red train, went to Hainan for winter, and took a nap in Beihai .

Follow her dance team to perform everywhere.

My mother’s happiness is beyond words, and I can feel her happiness.

Even in the past three years of the epidemic, she has not stopped her pace.

She often says that she has delayed too much happiness.

She said she would get them all back in her lifetime.

I understand her, so I didn't stop her.

Just at the beginning of this year, when the epidemic in Shanghai was so severe, she was still traveling in the mainland.

Their old sisters really put aside everything.

19

This time, my mother failed to escape and obediently locked up at home.

This letter will last for three months.

I thought she would be crazy.

I didn’t expect that she actually fell in love with painting.

Follow Douyin to learn painting.

This is my mother, a woman who has been bound and tortured for many years by an unfortunate marriage.

finally waited for his own spring.

I don’t envy my mother, I don’t want to be a woman like her.

The reason why I told my family's story is that I don't think of too many women and trap themselves to death for the so-called "no force".

There are thousands of kinds of happiness, and there are joys and sorrows in marriage.

If you can’t meet a good person, then give yourself freedom and courage.

Only when you break free from the cage can you have the possibility of flying and a vast sky...

This is an emotional online story

reads very depressing.

To be honest, I don’t envy this kind of late happiness.

life is like a speeding train.

Each stop will encounter different passengers.

There are intimate people, and there are those who trouble them.

who is his confidant in his life and who is his lifelong stumbling block.

Only after experiencing it will you meet it.

Everyone’s life is a collection of stories.

There are joys and sorrows, and there are joys and tears.

There is love, hate, love, and fine water flows all the time.

don’t know when it will be,

don’t know if you can grasp happiness.

Different people and different situations will have different judgment criteria. The same is true for marriage. Whether happiness or not depends on the eyes of outsiders.

is the feeling of the people in the city.

Love or not love is no longer so important.

has reached the end and ended his life, and he may not be able to see through everything...

Author: Xiaofeng

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