I have heard a lot of stories about princesses and princes since I was a child, and I always feel that they have really lived a happy life from now on. So we always yearn for entering the castle of marriage, thinking that only marriage can continue love and feel unprecedented beauty.
But after really entering marriage, many people discovered that marriage was not as expected.
When you are in love, the world is very small. Two people are immersed in the world of love and can enjoy the sweetness brought by love. When you truly enter the marriage life, you realize that marriage is about food, food, food, and salt. It is no longer a trip that two people often go to various restaurants for a long time; it is no longer a trip that goes on at night because of a word.
Marriage is more about responsibility, dedication, and tolerance.
I saw a question on the Internet, "What is the most desperate thing in marriage?" One of the answers was recognized by everyone. He said, "There is no love to speak of emotionally, no love to do physically, and no money to live a good life."
Think about it carefully, isn't that the case?
Happy families and families are all similar, and unfortunate families have their own misfortunes.
Perhaps, most unhappy marriages cannot be separated from these three things.
No love: bed and dream differently, live a life
Since you have chosen to marry one person, it should be the result of love for each other and careful consideration.
If you marry someone you don’t love, how should you face the long life in the future?
Some people may say that it doesn’t matter whether you love or not. Anyway, the essence of marriage is to find someone to live with.
is right, live a life together. However, when you are with someone you don’t love, you face a face without feelings every day. If you don’t care about him, he doesn’t feel sorry for you. When you are sick, can you tolerate the other person’s indifference?
When you are in a low mood and need a partner to comfort you and give you strength, what you get is that the other party doesn’t care or indifferent. Can you bear it?
Every time people are fragile, they really need people close to you to be with them, and face all the confusion, ups and downs they encounter together. They are like a big tree that allows you to rely on.
What a pity it would be when you look at that person all day long but have no love in your heart.
There is a friend who divorced once and then entered marriage. It was just because people around him kept urging him to get older and if he didn't get married quickly, no one would want him.
So, under the introduction of her friend, she married a man who had met for only three days. After the man got married, he went to work in another place. She was alone at home. After giving birth to a child, the man rarely came back.
This marriage is actually like a person. She will do everything big and small at home without the care or help from her husband. Such many marriages will make you taste boring and it will make you feel upset.
A marriage without love is like a pool of stagnant water, without any hope, and makes people feel desperate.
Host Lu Zhirui said: "The cornerstone of marriage and family is love."
Life is so long, and living a life with a person you don't love is simply like a year.
No money: It's difficult to move forward, be petty
In the world famous book "Pride and Prejudice", it is written: "It is wrong to get married for property, money and status, and it is stupid to not consider the above factors when getting married."
So, even if two people fall in love again, they can't stand the blow of lack of money after all. Maybe I will continue to rely on that love for a short period of time, but after all, life needs money to support it.
A life without money will make people become petty and reluctant to buy a lot of things. Even if you go to buy some vegetables, you will be petty, fearing that you don’t have enough money. Not to mention that when encountering something big at home, it will be even more difficult to deal with.
If love is the basis of marriage, then material things are the guarantee of marriage.
In the movie "Wuhai", Yang Hua and Miao Wei fell in love very much at first, but Yang Hua's family is from the countryside, Miao Wei didn't mind, and the two got married.
After marriage, Yang Hua chose to start a business in order to give the person he loves a good life, but was deceived by his partner and all his money was wasted. When he returned home in an upset mood, he found that his wife had an ambiguous photo with someone else, so the quarrel broke out.
Miao Wei roared and said, "When you marry me, isn't it just that you like our family's money?" Yang Hua said, "Your family is snobbish. When will I ask for your family's money, I will know the money!"
Miao Wei pointed to the family and said, "Didn't you live in a house given by my parents?"
The two people who fell in love with each other so much in the end lost their last dignity in the face of money. A marriage without material support is vulnerable. Because material things and love are inseparable, if even the basic material conditions cannot be met in marriage, how can we talk about a happy marriage?
Sexless: Stay away from each other and no longer be close
Big data shows: In China, one-third of people are enduring sexless marriages. It is equivalent to three of ten people in a sexless marriage.
When a singer was young, he fell in love with a male director. The two of them fell in love with each other and talked about getting married. However, he advocated that the two people follow the Plato style of eternal love and need to have sexless marriage.
I didn’t expect that she actually agreed, and it took ten years at once. She was very popular at that time, and went out to make money to support her family and introduced him good resources, which eventually made him a well-known director.
But he filed for divorce at this time because he fell in love with someone else. After the divorce, he immediately married someone else and had a child. However, the description of her marriage was "ten years of love, blank."
She was shocked when she heard this. She loved so much at that time, but was able to say such hurtful words for her, but for her, she gave everything.
The sexually afflicted life only shows that he doesn’t love you enough. So, whether he loves you or not, sex will tell you.
"Sex is the lubricant of marriage life and the most primitive way to communicate feelings."
If marriage does not even have the most basic sex, it is the gradual distance between the hearts.
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