text丨Tao Xiaojing
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In fact, we all know that friends should not cross the boundary, because once they cross the boundary, they may not even be able to do it in the end.
How can I control the feeling of being moved? From the moment when the heart arises, it is inevitable to cross the line.
In this era of overcrowding of feelings, it is not a common occurrence for friends of the opposite sex to cross the boundaries, but many people still cannot face it calmly.
Everyone always feels that crossing the line is disrespect for friendship, so even if you have already crossed the line, you are unwilling to admit it.
I can’t help but want to ask, can you completely cover up the fact that you cross the line without admitting it? Of course,
cannot do it, because crossing the line is never in words, but in some daily behavioral manifestations.
Friends of the opposite sex who have crossed the line cannot get along with each other like before. Even if they look normal on the surface, there will be many small actions related to love in secret.
So, after friends of the opposite sex cross the boundary, these manifestations cannot be hidden.
Reader Mr. Liao told me that although he never admitted that he liked his friend A Mei of the opposite sex, their relationship surpassed friendship.
The two of them have many common friends, but they often leave other friends alone.
From this we can see that friends of the opposite sex will often get along with each other alone after crossing the line.
Mr. Liao said that he likes the feeling of staying with A Mei very much, which makes him feel very relaxed, even if the two of them just stay together and do their own things, he enjoys it.
They often make appointments to watch newly released movies, taste delicious food together, and go out for a trip together.
At the beginning, some friends wanted to integrate into them, but he and Amei had long been accustomed to getting along alone, so they refused the requests of other friends at the same time.
Friends of the opposite sex who always get along with each other like them are obviously out of line. Although they don’t admit it, this manifestation cannot be hidden.
The relationship between men and women is almost always arises when they are alone. If both of them often leave other friends to date alone, they will sooner or later cross the line.
After the relationship breaks through, the two people need more time to cultivate their relationship, so the frequency of getting along with each other will become higher and higher.
's such a clear out-of-bounds manifestation cannot be hidden at all, so don't ignore it.
Of course, getting along alone is just one of the manifestations of relationships going beyond the boundaries. According to Mr. Liao, they are also used to telling each other their feelings.
Whether it is happy or unhappy, Mr. Liao will tell Amei. In his words, they were more like confidants.
Talking to each other is a very intimate action and requires absolute trust and love. Therefore, friends of the opposite sex will start to express their feelings after crossing the line.
Just like Mr. Liao and A Mei, because they have already developed love in their hearts, they trust more than others.
Based on this trust, they will be more willing to open their hearts and express their feelings.
As they talk to each other, their relationship continues to heat up and their relationship gradually changes.
does not require them to admit the change themselves. Through the act of expressing their feelings to each other, you can see the difference in the relationship at a glance.
Friends with friends of the opposite sex are often accompanied by the fusion of hearts. When the two hearts are completely integrated, it will be difficult for both parties to get along with each other.
If the opening of the heart door is a change hidden deep in the heart, then some intimate physical contact between friends of the opposite sex is a more obvious manifestation of cross-border.
Mr. Liao said that although he and Amei are still friends, they held hands, hugged each other, and even stayed in the same room for one night.
Although they did not make particularly unusual moves, these close contacts are enough to illustrate the problem.
If two people are really just friends, how could they be so close? Most of the people who can do this have crossed the line.
The most intuitive manifestation of friends of the opposite sex after crossing the boundary is actually the intimate touch of the body.
There will be no intimate physical contact between ordinary friends of the opposite sex. In order to avoid suspicion, everyone will even keep a certain distance.
But for friends of the opposite sex who have crossed the line, keeping a distance is just a concealment. In private, the two are very close.
This kind of intimacy has long become a habit. Even if no one has ever said love, they will be tacit.
Friends of the opposite sex who have crossed the line don’t care about the relationship between the two people at all. They will only follow their own hearts, be ambiguous and close.
These ambiguous actions cannot be hidden, and no matter how you disguise, you will reveal flaws.
The relationship between friends of the opposite sex is beyond the boundaries. Although the emotional changes at the beginning, as time goes by, the behavior of the two people will gradually become different.
Friends of the opposite sex after crossing the line are like those children who are secretly in love and are afraid of being caught. They think they can hide it well, but in fact they can't hide it at all.
Although they have not really developed into lovers, their feelings have changed, and their patterns of getting along with them have also changed.
's change in the way of getting along is actually very obvious. Whether the two people admit it or not, the fact that they cross the line cannot be concealed.
Since you have fallen in love with it, why can’t you be brave enough to love it? As long as you don’t hurt others, what’s wrong with being bolder.
However, if the two people's cross-border is based on harm, it's better not to continue. The wisest choice is to retreat back to your original position as soon as possible.
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