In reality, most people will choose to discuss and solve problems with their families when encountering problems, especially major things. After all, they can think of a better solution. In fact, it is a good habit to know how to discuss things with your parents, but if you still report to your parents in detail after you become an adult, you will be a little lacking in responsibility, especially for boys. When people mention this, they will think of "mama's boy". It has to be said that for most girls, finding a "mama's boy" husband will be a very terrible thing.
Of course, Uncle Qiang did not deliberately slander the "mama's boy". He just felt that no matter in marriage or in love, the two people had a good impression of each other and got along well, so that they could be happy. When faced with major marriage events, it is correct to ask parents for their opinions, but they must not put the cart before the horse, and they must not blindly adopt their parents' suggestions. Some parents are more arbitrary and directly make decisions for their children. They say that they are thinking about their children's happiness, but in fact they are hindering their children from pursuing happiness.
Jin Sha is a very opinionated girl, especially in her personal relationship. Although her parents repeatedly urge her to get married quickly, she is unwilling to settle for herself, so she has been single until now. Last year, Jin Sha's mother was hospitalized after being sick. Looking at her mother lying on the hospital bed and her father who was taking good care of her, Jin Sha's eyes couldn't help but become wet. At this moment, she realized that her parents were already old and she really shouldn't let her parents worry anymore. After her mother was discharged from the hospital, she promised in front of her parents that she would start a family as soon as possible and would no longer worry the two elders.
Since agreeing to his parents, Jin Sha began to pay attention to friends of the opposite sex around her, but she didn't find a suitable one. Later, Jin Sha had no choice but to embark on the road of blind dates at the suggestion of her friend. During the blind date, Jin Sha naturally encountered many strange things and strange people, which made her shadow. However, Jin Sha was not discouraged and insisted on going on a blind date. Sure enough, Jin Sha met a pretty good blind date partner.
At first, the two kept chatting through the online platform. As the topic gradually deepened, their relationship became more familiar, and the man also took the opportunity to make a request to meet offline. After negotiation, the two decided to meet in an internet celebrity cafe. That day, Jin Sha arrived at the cafe as promised, but she didn't expect that the man was already waiting there. Although the man was not very handsome, he dressed properly, giving people a fresh and clean feeling, which made Jin Sha feel pretty good. After the two of them sat down, the waiter also brought the coffee they had already ordered. But before the two started to communicate, the man actually took out his cell phone and dialed the video number. After Jin Sha realized, a middle-aged woman appeared in the video. The man said with a smile on his face, "This is my mother." Then he also introduced Jin Sha to his mother. Although it was a little embarrassed, Jin Sha still greeted her with a smile.
Due to the existence of the man's mother, Jin Sha seemed very unnatural. What made Jin Sha even more depressed was that every time the two talked about a topic, the man would ask for his mother’s meaning, and the man’s tone when asking for it was actually acting coquettish, which really surprised Jin Sha. She really couldn’t imagine a 32-year-old boy still acting coquettishly towards his parents.
When Jin Sha was depressed, the man took the initiative to talk about the marriage. Jin Sha also told her thoughts truthfully. Unexpectedly, the man's mother changed her face immediately, and the man's tone was naturally a little unhappy. At this moment, Jin Sha had no idea of continuing to talk, but she was afraid that the man would bother her in the future. After thinking briefly, only by slandering can one get rid of it, so Jin Sha said, "My brother needs 300,000 yuan to get married, so when we get engaged, your family has to get a 300,000 yuan gift."
As expected, as soon as this was said, the man's mother angrily turned off the video call. The man also accused Jin Sha of being a "brother-supporting demon". After saying that, he left angrily. At this time, Jin Sha smiled helplessly, and then said to herself: "It's completely pure now. Otherwise, if I have a mama's husband, I will be ruined in the second half of my life."
In fact, many people agree with the saying "will not marry a mama's boy" and Uncle Qiang also agrees.Of course, not every man who is filial to his parents is a "mama boy", and not every man who follows his parents' advice cannot marry. What is important is that every girl hopes that she will find an independent individual, able to take responsibility, be able to face the storm independently, and be able to decide on her own affairs. Otherwise, after getting married, she will consult her parents in everything. Not only will the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law become stale, but the relationship between husband and wife will also be difficult to maintain.
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