People can tolerate anything in their lives, but marriage cannot. Marriage can trap young people who yearn for soaring in the sky, and also trap girls who long to dance youth. The word marriage tightly binds people from the two worlds together and is inseparable. The paper stamped with a seal is like glue, firmly glued.
We have been looking for our own direction and dreams all our lives, but we can never escape from the bondage of the world. When we get old, we can only helplessly find someone to hurry up and decide on the major events of our life under the urging of our family.
In the end, they all lost themselves in this marriage, Those beautiful dreams have become concerns of food, rice, oil and salt, the free sky has become a roof full of smoke, and those tender hands are covered with thorns.
Most people lose themselves in marriage, and few people have the courage to take that cage and take that step. In the Puyi era, there was such a woman with strong courage and dared to take the first step in that era, saying no to unequal marriages and resolutely rejecting them.
She was the last concubine, and her refusal also made Puyi a joke all over the world at that time. Puyi could only go on stage with shameless face and issued an imperial edict loudly, which caused laughter.
What kind of story did the two of them post? It would lead to the fact that in that feudal era, Wenxiu could no longer bear it and could only file for divorce. You should know that in that era, almost no woman would choose to divorce, she was the first person .
What kind of life makes her desperate and make such a choice in her struggles again and again?
Wenxiu's experience
Wenxiu's birth was not poor. She was born in an aristocratic family. Today, if she is a child from a top rich family, she cannot choose her marriage at will, let alone in traditional Chinese aristocrats.
Although she has gained the good luck of not having to worry about food and clothing from the moment she was born, she also lost the freedom to dominate her life. Her marriage was a family marriage. After Puyi became an adult, the royal family selected excellent women from various major families in order to select concubines for him to raise children.
, and Wenxiu, who has excellent temperament, naturally became a member of the royal family's attention. In terms of appearance, family, and intelligence, Wenxiu is a contestant who can cultivate excellent descendants for the royal family. Therefore, she was included in the palace and became Puyi's back room.
There is such a superstitious saying among the folk elderly "When you are young, you will have a smooth life when you grow up. On the contrary, you will have plenty of food and clothing when you are young, and you may have many difficulties when you grow up." . Maybe Wenxiu responded to this sentence. When he was a child, he was a noble lady and was able to get in touch with upper-level things since he was a child to broaden his horizons.
But because she was too comfortable when she was a child, she suffered constant setbacks when she grew up, especially since her marriage with Puyi.
Wenxiu's Married Life
From ancient times to the present, the feudal system of our country has always been that men can have multiple wives, and it is not surprising that ordinary families have a few concubines. After all, in the eyes of the ancients, men are the greatest and descendants are the most important, so women can only accept this fact.
Wen Xiu, who married the royal family, naturally could not escape this level. As the emperor, Puyi was in great recession, but the idea of inheriting the family line has been deeply engraved in their minds. Therefore, they must ensure the health of their children, and naturally they must not miss their wives.
And Wenxiu is just one of Puyi's women, And because the family power is not as powerful as Wanrong , she just got into the position of a concubine, which is incomparable to the queen of her wife.
But after being exposed to new ideas, she always believes that loving someone means loving each other wholeheartedly. Wanrong may also be selfish, hoping that Puyi can only be wholehearted about herself. Under such factors, the two women's confrontation began, and Wenxiu was overwhelmed by Wanrong every day with the power of the queen.
Wenxiu is sensitive by nature, likes quiet but does not like lively, and will not deliberately please men like other women. She will not express her love. In this way, Puyi feels her indifference. No one will like invisible love. Puyi is the same. He does not like this concubine who is silent every day.
He likes the lively and cute queen Wanrong more. But Wenxiu is also his concubine after all, and he neglected her. Puyi felt bad, so he decided to make more compensation in terms of material things. Hearing that Wenxiu doesn't like to participate in activities, he likes to read, read, write and write in the study. He specially ordered people to build a bookstore for the concubine to study.
But Wenxiu was not moved by this. She did not see Puyi's good intentions from the perspective of God. In her eyes, she only felt that Puyi didn't want to pay attention to her and deliberately set up a bookstore to tell her that she was trapped, so she made excuses not to accompany her.
Which female lady in this world doesn’t want her lover to be with her, and her lover can tell her love day and night. Wenxiu is the same, but Puyi didn't do it once. She was in that gorgeous bookstore and she only felt that Puyi had knocked her into the dark cold palace.
But none of this is the reason why their marriage failed. The last straw that really crushed her was before the arrival of the Japanese army.
After the feudal era was overthrown, all the nobles in the palace were dismissed.
no longer allows them to enjoy the honor of being superior, , as the emperor, Puyi naturally had to leave the palace, and the Japanese seized this opportunity and hurriedly contacted Puyi respectfully.
This made Puyi, who was not popular just now, feel the attention of people again. He chose to stay in the Japanese, but this stay was the beginning of his nightmare and the final reason for the end of his marriage with Wenxiu.
Puyi was completely controlled by the Japanese, but he knew that he was not a puppet, but he was helpless and unable to resist the Japanese's rights. He did not dare to speak to them, but returned to the bedroom to beat and insult Wenxiu. Under repeated injuries, Wenxiu could no longer bear it and finally proposed to divorce.
ridiculous imperial edict
Wenxiu talked about this and put it in the newspaper. Under the pressure of public opinion across the country, even if Puyi was reluctant, he could only compromise.
Two people divorced in front of everyone, and now they are popular to break up. "End as they start, how they end." Their marriage is the same. When Wen Xiu married in gloriously, she is now leaving with great enthusiasm.
When the court held the court in Tianjin, Puyi could only pick up the "iceducation" and read aloud his separation from Wenxiu. The two parties divided the property well, and after settled all their worries, they formally recited the word "divorce".
Although the drawing says Heli, everyone knows that Puyi was abandoned by Wenxiu . This also made him a laughing stock.
Conclusion
Inappropriate marriages, no matter how they are running in, they are still clear and angular. Even if one end is smoothed, more edges will be derived.
In today's era, divorce is no longer a strange thing. The state and society have given women the right to protect themselves, so that we can no longer rely on men to protect ourselves.
In a failed marriage, women should protect their safety , boldly say no, don’t be bound by old ideas, if they are not valued in a relationship, or even get their husband’s fist, please be sure to protect yourself with the law.
