Maybe each of us is trying our best to struggle in ordinary days, and even if we go through our whole life, our life may not improve much.
There are some truths that are always understood too late. When you already understand the story, you find that you are no longer young.
Recently I have squeezed out a little time and watched the TV series " Tiandao " adapted from "The Distant Savior". Whenever I see those classic words in the play, it is a kind of tremor and reflection in the heart. Sometimes it is not easy to live clearly, but it is difficult to understand it even if you live.
is just like what Ding Yuanying said to Rui Xiaodan in the play: "If you don't know you, you are you; when you know you, you are not you."
In the past, I always felt that this sentence was strange. At that time, when we gradually had more feelings in life, we finally understood a truth that the most difficult object that a person can understand in his life is often ourselves.
Only by prescribing the right medicine and fully understanding yourself can you find a way to suit yourself in life and live content that suits you.
A writer once said: "There is no place in this world that is not complicated, and it is so easy to have no job."
I think it is because life is full of too many difficult factors, so the best survival strategy is to do things carefully and move forward carefully.
The reason why some people suffer from failure in their lives is often because they do not understand their own shortcomings. The reason why some people cannot do something is more because they do not have a perseverance, but always attribute the factors of failure to the outside world and their families.
Zeng Guofan said: "If a person has no endurance, he will achieve nothing in his life."
No matter what kind of work we do in life or what kind of people we get along with, we must actually understand our own boundaries and dignity, think more from the perspective of others, and exchange more values, and life may gradually have a way out.
Live clearly, there are three sentences: You cannot speak casually, you cannot do things according to your will, and you cannot do things according to your will.
episodes cannot be casual.
There is never the word "easy" in the lives of adults. If you think of this world too simply, your life path will definitely be more heavy.
People often say that disaster comes from the mouth. The reason why there are so many contradictions in the world may often be reflected in our words and deeds.
"Zengguangxianwen" says: "Who doesn't talk about others behind their backs, and who is not told before them?"
comments on the shortcomings of others, is jealous of others' excellence, and is jealous of the rights and wealth obtained by others. This is the shortcomings of human nature. Even in the long river of history, this is a true portrayal of human nature. Therefore, in life, if you want to reduce the constraints and obstacles on your own path forward, speaking less becomes the key to our lifelong practice.
Grandma also often says: "More words will lead to mistakes." As long as a person talks endlessly, he will inevitably leave too many flaws and hidden dangers, and may not easily touch other people's bottom line and self-esteem, but sometimes we are not clear about it. This makes us know that when dealing with people and things, sometimes we would rather say less than say more, and rather not say less than say less.
episodes cannot be casual. They are the life tragedy obtained by many adults stumbled all the way through their lives, and perhaps also the sobering after disasters.
things cannot be as they pleased.
Everyone has a passion, passionate and resentful moment, but they cannot do whatever they want, lose control of their emotions, and act impulsively.
When we were watching "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Zhuge Liang sent Sima Su to guard the dangerous stronghold of Jieting, and also appointed Wang Ping as the deputy general of Ma Su , because Wang Ping was more cautious in his life so that he could remind Ma Su.
But for Ma Su, it was like a fierce horse that had taken off the reins, and there was no longer any restraint. When he decided to station the top of the mountain, he was strongly opposed by Wang Ping. However, at this time, Ma Su was arrogance and thought that he had been tempered by the Prime Minister for many years and was highly valued by the Prime Minister. He felt that his opinion was right, so he insisted on his own and finally failed.
No matter how good a person is, he often has omissions when dealing with something. Any smart person often knows the path of listening to both sides, and listening to the dark side. In this regard, there are good examples of both positive and negative aspects of Cao Cao . Even when he decided whether to kill Liu Bei , he was listening carefully to his subordinates' suggestions. It was this habit and personality that gradually achieved Cao Cao's career.
You cannot be at your disposal. No matter what time, you must consider the consequences when doing things, grasp the degree, and be relaxed in moderation. Only in this way can you live without regrets and regrets.
people cannot be at will.
Mencius has cloud: "A gentleman does something, but does not do anything.
A gentleman knows what can be done and what cannot be done in dealing with the world, and has his own code of conduct.
The so-called awe, and his actions can stop.
Some time ago, a person I knew around me caused a tragedy because of drunk driving. What awaited him was huge compensation and legal sanctions. But for him, such changes and "disasters" were due to his stubbornness. He always felt that taking risks was no big deal, but because he was too casual. He did not know that all safety hazards and risks were often hidden in the randomness in our minds.
People should not live too casually in their lives. They should respect and fear in their work, have principles and bottom lines, and have constraints and taboos in their behavior.
Life in this world, If you don’t have a little fear of your head, such a life is often very terrible. The ancients said that there is a god who raises your head and has awe, in fact, you need to live a good life with the world in awe, so that you can live a smooth life. Otherwise, what awaits you will eventually be endless disasters and hardships.
A person has awe and does not act recklessly, and can only stop doing things. When facing challenges and tests, you should be rational and rational, know what to do, what not to do, and have some constraints in words and deeds.
How to grasp the right measure is the wisdom that a person pursues throughout his life.
Only when you don’t speak casually can you be popular;
Only when you don’t do things at will can you lose regrets;
Only when you are not casual can you make a difference.
People who have to understand life, you must understand these three sentences well.
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