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As we grow older, it seems that people become more lonely as they grow older. The more they experience, the more they understand, so the more they understand.
So it is difficult for us to start a new relationship. We may be envious when we see others talking, but we stop at ourselves.
Why are people now becoming more and more difficult to fall in love?
may be because reality makes people feel that love is not as beautiful as imagined, and no one is irreplaceable.
It is becoming more and more difficult to fall in love. Part of the reason is that people today are more realistic and not as easy to satisfy as those before.
Dear is a very beautiful thing, but now it is mixed with many things, making it difficult for us to entrust our sincerity to one person.
Some people say that the older you are, the less energy you have to fall in love. Now I think it’s all about food, food, oil and salt.
Some people say that it’s not that I don’t want to fall in love, but when I think there is no result, I’ll forget it. Some people say that they just want to wait, but no one knows it.
The sincerity is so rare now. Everyone wants to be sincere, but no one is sincere. Most people just want to enjoy the feeling of love, but don’t want to give anything.
has been consumed by this kind of relationship for a long time, causing more and more people to lose their desire to fall in love.
So, many people enjoy loneliness while longing to be loved. Even if you meet someone you are moved, you are afraid of no result, dare not take it out, and you are too lazy to take the initiative.
I don’t know when we became afraid of our hands and feet and began to be afraid of being injured.
When I was young, I could die for love, but now I can't. If I can't feel the enthusiasm, I will immediately retreat.
The older people grow, the more they start to learn to love themselves. They dare not try things that have no results.
On the road of love, most people who have been injured start to put away their sincerity and dare not express themselves easily.
So, we all wrapped ourselves up like hedgehogs, pushing many people away in order not to be hurt.
But while pushing others away, one's heart is longing to be loved, swinging back and forth in this kind of desire and fearful emotion.
In order to avoid the end, I simply avoid the beginning of everything. I believe many people are like this. The older
, the more things you want to do, the higher the cost of trial and error.
is afraid of rejection, is afraid of not getting rewarded for his efforts, is afraid of being hurt, so he completely seals his heart and no one can get in.
We all yearn for being loved, but not everyone is lucky enough to have love.
But if a person is afraid of failure, he starts with rejection, and he will never be able to have love. Therefore, people should learn to open up and talk about it when they love it.
Regarding the difficulty in falling in love, part of the reason is that people nowadays pay attention to their own growth.
If you become excellent by yourself, you will want to meet equally excellent people, but the reality is that there are too few high-quality circles around you.
Due to circle reasons, there are few people who meet suitable and fit, which leads to fewer common topics between them. If you can’t find someone who can truly resonate with them, you are unwilling to make a living.
Everyone wants that kind of soul mate, and they long for someone to understand you, but there are very few people who truly understand you in real life, and it is a blessing to be able to meet.
They all yearn for sweet love, but love itself is mixed, which leads to some people not willing to experience it.
When you are in love, you want to find someone who truly fits you, so that you can get along with each other and be together with meaning.
If not, it is better to do it alone. It is said that a truly good relationship should make each other better, not letting one person consume you.
Summary:
Those who are difficult to fall in love and are single for a long time actually desire love more than anyone else.
But they still firmly believe that only by becoming a better selves can they meet better people. Love is never the whole of life, you are.
It is an extremely precious thing to have someone to love. But the premise is that you must have the ability to love and the ability to be independent.
So, follow your heart and love bravely.
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