In fact, many people don’t understand why some single or widowed elderly people want to remarry, especially some elderly people with children. If they want to remarry, their children will not understand. They don’t understand why they still want to remarry even if they have child

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In fact, many people don’t understand why some single or widowed elderly people want to remarry, especially some elderly people with children. If they want to remarry, their children will not understand. They don’t understand why they have children and still want to remarry. Do they don’t love their own mothers anymore? And it’s not that no one takes care of him, why do you have to remarry? Are you so unwilling to be lonely?

is not actually the case. Although some elderly people are old, they still want to have a partner around them. They also have the right to pursue happiness when they are old. But will the elderly really be happy to remarry?

This incident has caused many confusion among many children. There is a Mr. Chen around him. He can't understand that his father is seventy years old and wants to bring a strange woman back. He also threatened that the two would remarry. Mr. Chen was particularly angry about this and scolded his father: "Dad, you are 70 years old, why do you still want to remarry? Don't you feel ashamed?" After the father said something to his son, his son was silent. What exactly was it like? Next, let’s take a look at all Mr. Chen’s stories.

self-reporter: Mr. Chen is 50 years old

My surname is Chen, and I am 50 years old this year. To be honest, I am very grateful to my father. If my father hadn't raised me alone since childhood and had never treated me badly, otherwise I would not be like this today. I can't live without my father's cultivation. So I am very grateful to him. When I have the ability, I also tried my best to give my father a good life. I bought him whatever he wants. However, I don't understand. It's not okay to give him a good life. He insisted on trying to mess with himself and found a woman to remarry. I had a big fight with him for this matter.

My father is an honest man. Since I was sensible, we can see that no matter what he does, he is honest and very understanding. When the villagers have something to do, he never refuses and plays well with the people in the village. Because my father often helps the villagers, the villagers take good care of me. I have been a child who has eaten Hundreds of Farmers . After I grew up, when I have time, I often take my father to travel and buy him clothes and shoes. He retired very early. I asked him to retire and I have the ability to support him, so I asked him to retire early, and then I give him living expenses every month.

After I got married, my father also helped me a lot. When we were busy, he helped us take care of our children, and occasionally helped us buy vegetables, cook and do housework, saving us a lot of time and pressure. He never complained, "I've been busy with us, so I'm willing to give everything for him, and it's also what he deserves. I think he is the happiest among the many elderly people. I just want him to be the happiest among the elderly, and make him the happiest one among everyone envy. I support him whatever he wants, but I really can't accept the remarriage and I can't understand what he is thinking.

After my father retired, he asked him to live in my house, and he never went back to his hometown. Suddenly one day, he said he wanted to go back to his hometown to play for a while, but I didn't think much about it. He thought his father was missing home, so he wanted to go home to see him, so I sent his father back and asked him to have a good time at home. I came back to pick him up a month later. During this period, I didn't ask about his situation in his hometown. Every time he called back, he was very happy and relieved.

Later a month later, when I went back to pick him up, I found that there was an unfamiliar woman at home. She could be said to be an aunt. She didn't look older than my father. Before I could ask my father, my father told me that they were going to get married, and they were all showing them. It was recently. After hearing this news, I was completely confused. I thought it was my father who lied to me. Who knew that he was here to be the real one. After I paused for a while, I asked my father very angryly, why did he remarry? Could it be that I was not good to him? Isn’t the old age given to him happy enough? I don’t know how many people envy him for a life like him. He is so good that he is so old that he doesn’t know how to be ashamed of this. I am really angry and scolded my father.

I even think my father doesn’t love my mother anymore, otherwise why would he think about remarrying? When my mother was still alive, my father loved my mother very much. When my mother passed away, my father told me that he would never remarry in this life and would be with me forever. So what does he mean now? Am I not good enough to him? Or did he not give him money to live? Making him so eager to find another woman to remarry?

When I scolded him, my father didn't say a word or get angry. Instead, he told me that they had known each other for many years and had been dating for a long time. The reason why they were together was not a whim. But after the two of them got along, they felt that each other was the most suitable person for them. In addition, this aunt is very good at taking care of people, and she understands her father and has a very good personality. During the month of home, she was helping with anything at home, so her father was so relaxed and at ease.

At that time, my father said to me, "Do you know? Actually, after your mother left, I was very sad and sad. I was actually very fragile inside, and I was eager for someone around me to take care of me, accompany me, and even comfort me during that period. But you were still young at that time, and I had to stop these thoughts that I shouldn't think of, but in fact, I longed for it very much.

Although you have been very good to me for so many years, and you often sacrificed your time to accompany me. Although I was very happy when I was with you, that kind of happiness was limited to that day. You were very busy every day and had no time to accompany me every day. And no one played with me every day except for playing with my grandson every day. This kind of life is The boring thing is not what I want.

Now the reason why I suddenly want to find a partner is because I am old and cannot run out often. I also want to live a peaceful life at home. If you want such a life, you must have a companion around you to take care of my daily life and spend the rest of your life with me, so that I will no longer be lonely and lonely. Is it wrong for me to have such a thought?

Now that I have found my true love, why can't I let it go once? Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and I actually found it, so you shouldn't let go. Hold on to me to live a happy life, what do you think?”

My father's words kept me silent for a long time, and I felt that I was too sorry for my father. Over the years, I thought that my love for my father was to give him the best, live in the best, and eat the best, but I forgot to ask him what he needed. In my father's heart, happiness is to hope that he could have a companion by his side. He actually had such an idea, and I could only support him. From now on, I have never stopped any of his pursuits. As long as it was what he wanted to do, I would support him unconditionally.

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In fact, as children, our parents really don’t ask us for much. Sometimes, they just want someone to accompany us. We should not stop such simple things too much, and everyone has the right to pursue happiness, even parents. Since they can find true love at the age of age, all we can do is to bless them, help them, and make their lives happier in their later years, rather than stopping them again and again, so that there is only hurt but no love.