9 mediation type In intimate relationships, you often like to focus on the other person, merge with the other person, lose your will, and everything revolves around your partner. But their external obedience is often accompanied by inner dissatisfaction, because of their inner lack, their self-will cannot be stretched, and many contradictions will be hidden.
Generally speaking, the mediation type of intimacy relationship of No. 9 has the following characteristics:
★ No. 9 mediation type often regards the partner's interests and hobbies and needs as their own, and everything revolves around the partner, as if they and their partner are the same person.
★9 mediation type may be deeply inspired by the other party's actions and deeply involved in it. On the other hand, it may also be because of disagreeing with the other party, so as to stubbornly stalemate and fight against the other party.
★9 mediation type can easily feel the feelings of a lover, but it is difficult for them to discover their own feelings.
★9 mediation type often hand over control of the relationship between the two parties to the other party and let the other party make a decision. If the other party’s decision does not produce good results, they will complain about it.
★9 mediation type can always strongly feel the wishes of your lover and will continue to work hard to realize the wishes of each other. They even turn their wishes into the motivation for their own lives.
★9 mediation type once it falls into a relationship, it is difficult to let go. Letting go is like cutting a flesh, which means that part of your identity disappears.
★9 mediation type, even if you are with your lover, you will habitually maintain your relationship. They are used to ignore their true wishes.
★9 mediation type If you want to get rid of a relationship, you are often hesitant, neither want to break up, nor want to live a good life, and are in constant suffering. If you don’t find a support for the mediation type
★9, you may be merciless, or participate in some activities to numb yourself and forget your true needs.
9 mediation type of their procrastination. They often lose the opportunity to pursue their ideal lover and can only live with someone they don’t love in their lives. When facing the imperfect love now, they are always hesitating and treating feelings as a habit, accustomed to being with someone to accompany and around them. People who are not used to dating suddenly disappear from their lives and lose the opportunity to meet true love in their lives.
9 mediation type should learn to understand and vent his anger. In this way, he can truly understand himself, think about problems and do things to truly have his own perspective, and participate in the relationship between the two parties as an independent person. Such a person is mature, and in this way, he can form a truly harmonious relationship.
skills to get along with a mediation partner of No. 9:
Appreciate his (her) kindness, gentleness and patience.
Give him or her praise, hug or other methods that represent care and love.
Appreciate what he (she) does without focusing on what he (she) can't do.
When it takes him or her a lot of time to make a decision, stay patient.
Be careful that some mediation types of 9 will treat your request as a rebuke, blaming him (she) for not doing what he should have done.
Be especially careful when criticizing him or asking him or her to do things.
Ask him (her) what he or she needs and what is most important to him or her.
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