1: As long as you marry into our family, you will become my own daughter from now on. I often see some remarks, saying that you treat your mother-in-law as your mother and daughter-in-law as your biological daughter. Some people also provide some very good examples of mother-in-l

1: As long as you marry into our family, you will be my daughter in the future.

often see some remarks, saying that you treat your mother-in-law as your mother and daughter-in-law as your biological daughter. Some people also take some very good examples of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as their biological daughter.

But the fact is that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will never be as close as mother and daughter. Even if there are very good relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sometimes you see that they have a good relationship, but in some things, you still know how to put your position in the right place.

If you really treat your daughter-in-law as your daughter, or treat your mother-in-law as your mother-in-law, then this relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is likely to have various problems.

Of course, you can't believe this sentence at all. You can just believe half of it, and don't be too distant with your mother-in-law, but don't be too close. It's best to keep a certain distance.

2: From now on, the money we old couple earn will be yours

This is a typical big cake. Many elderly people like to use this sentence to comfort their children and daughter-in-law, but in fact this is a check that cannot be cashed.

First of all, ordinary families cannot keep any money. If a serious illness is old, the subsidy will be good. If two elderly people get sick, it will cost a lot of money.

If you are only children, it would be fine, but the elderly’s property has basically been leaked. If there are a few brothers and sisters, all kinds of scenes of fighting for a little property will be very common.

So just listen to this sentence. Don’t take it too seriously, and don’t treat the elderly well for money. Do whatever you should do and keep your original intention.

3: It’s the same for having children, I raise them the same for

Many elderly people often like to say something when encouraging their daughter-in-law to have children, saying that they don’t care whether the son or daughter gave birth to their daughter-in-law, and they will raise them as long as they are born.

But there are many inconveniences for the elderly to help take care of the children. Although everyone knows that is apart from each other, can also bring many problems for the elderly to take care of the children, and many elderly people can’t take care of themselves, so how can they help take care of the children?

Secondly, many elderly people say this because their daughter-in-law is reluctant to have children, or because their daughter-in-law has a first and second child and wants to continue to have a son.

says it’s the same for having children, but in fact it’s the same. Only the other party understands it in his heart, just believe half of this sentence.

4: When I get old, just throw us into the nursing home

Sometimes many elderly people will joke with their children or daughter-in-law like this, such as when they refuse to have children, let the other party give birth with confidence and boldness. The pressure in

is too great afterwards. You can ignore yourself. At worst, you can throw yourself into a nursing home, or take some medicine by yourself and leave.

is completely unreliable. First of all, supporting the elderly is definitely the obligation and responsibility that young people should fulfill. Even if their parents say that they don’t need children to take care of them when they are old, they cannot ignore them.

not only should we care about the elderly, but we should also make the elderly live a good and happy life in their later years. This is a reliable idea, instead of really not paying attention and just throwing them into the nursing home.

5: My son bullies you, so I tell me

Many mothers and sisters like to use this sentence to win over their daughter-in-law when their daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law just got married, and you will be with me in this family in the future.

If my son dares to bully you, tell me immediately, and when I see him come back, I will not break his legs. Many daughters-in-law will be excited when they hear their mother-in-law’s promise.

In fact, people still have different relatives and distant relationships. A daughter-in-law can never be more important than her son, which cannot be changed in the heart of a mother.

Even if the son is wrong, many mothers still have a hint of tolerance in their hearts, after all, it is the flesh that fell from their bodies.

And in many families, the mother-in-law is standing on the side of her son, let alone helping her daughter-in-law to be fair, it would be nice not to bully her daughter-in-law.