Women are in a weak position in marriage, especially in family relationships. If women are treated unfairly, they will not only have conflicts with their husbands, but also with their elders. After all, in most families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not very harmonious.
Anhui woman borrows money from her father-in-law to buy a car
Getting married is not just a matter of two people, but more of a fusion of two families. For both men and women, there is not much conflict in their separate lives, but in daily life, they will inevitably be influenced by the elders of both parties, and the conflict arises because of this.
Overall, men have always been timid at their mother-in-law's house, not to mention that the baby daughter who abducted someone else's family was embarrassed to face the female parents, so few men have conflicts with the female parents.
However, women are completely different. After marrying, they are still treasures in the family, especially for young girls, they cannot bear any grievances. Because the mother-in-law comes through this too, naturally there will be a big conflict with her daughter-in-law.
There is a family in Anhui where mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have no conflicts. Instead, the conflict between daughter-in-law and father-in-law is so big that it is unadjustable. The reason is about money, which also makes the atmosphere in the family more and more tense.
One night, my father-in-law Wu Daqiang was already asleep. In another room, Zhao Meiling and her husband Wu Jianguo had an argument. It turned out that Zhao Meiling wanted to buy a car, but the money was not enough, so she wanted her husband to find her father-in-law to support 100,000 yuan.
When they knocked on their parents-in-law’s door, their father-in-law said that the two were ordinary working-class people and had retired and could not afford that much money.
In fact, this is really not a fault for the old couple. As an ordinary family, they configured real estate for the young couple when they got married and wrote their daughter-in-law's name, which has achieved the ultimate righteousness.
But the wife burst out instantly when she heard this. She said that she had slept with Wu Jianguo for so long, and she had no credit and worked hard. She thought it was natural to get such a little money.
The wife is dissatisfied with her father-in-law's attitude, and intensifies conflicts and causes tragedy
As a bystander, she definitely does not agree with the woman's words. It is natural for couples to sleep together or even have sex. How can they be measured by money?
In Zhao Meiling's concept, even if she had sex with a fair woman, she had to pay, let alone that she could not let Wu Jianguo sleep. She said that she had been in love with Wu Jianguo for so long, and not even giving her 100,000 yuan was not in line with her expectations.
So Zhao Meiling had a fierce dispute with her father-in-law. After all, she compared herself to a fair woman, not only a belittlement of herself, but also a belittlement of the Wu family. Wu Daqiang became increasingly disgusted with this wife.
quarreling and in a hurry, Zhao Meiling picked up a knife and smashed Wu Daqiang, which happened to hit Wu Daqiang in the foot. He suddenly lost consciousness and fell to the ground.
The family quickly sent him to the hospital, but fortunately he was hit on the back of the knife, which did not cause any serious damage. After Wu Daqiang returned home the next day, he thought his daughter-in-law would restrain herself because of this incident, but unexpectedly, she was still invisible and invisible. Not only did she mock Wu Jianguo in every way, but she also spoke badly about Wu Daqiang.
This completely ignited Wu Daqiang's anger and attacked Zhao Meiling. How could Zhao Meiling be the opponent of a middle-aged man and was quickly knocked to the ground. Before Wu Daqiang could vent his anger, he kept slamming Zhao Meiling's head, which eventually led to Zhao Meiling losing her breath.
Afterwards, Wu Daqiang also chose to surrender with the police. His behavior was indeed a negligence and the legal punishment was inevitable. However, considering that he had a reason and actively cooperated with the investigation, he was sentenced to life imprisonment. Because of money, I ended up in jail and died, and my good family was destroyed like this.
Editor's opinion
There are inevitably some contradictions in life, especially between young couples and elders. After all, the age difference is so big, and their attitude towards things is different. However, if there are any contradictions in everything, you must calm down and deal with them slowly to avoid intensifying the contradictions to avoid causing more serious consequences. After all, no one wants to end up with a broken family.
For elders, supporting the life of the young couple is love, not duty, and willing to support is naturally a good thing. If you are unwilling to support, you cannot force it, and you cannot fight with the elders. After all, there is a saying in traditional virtues that respects the elderly and loves the young. Forcing the elders to give themselves money is a manifestation of incompetence.
If you want money, you still need to rely on yourself to fight for it. Young couples have their own accounts, and the old couple should also leave some money to support their elderly care and maintain a harmonious family relationship. At the same time, they should work hard to improve their abilities and enrich their lives, so that the quality of life can be effectively improved.