#Toutiao Creation Challenge# If a person can have lofty ambitions, he will definitely come out of the hard life. And ambition is your positioning of yourself. Some people have ambitions, but they may not necessarily have the chance to succeed. So you must have a goal in your hear

01. If you don’t want to become someone’s stumbling block, you must learn to think independently

There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching that is called “Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are wise.” In this world, there are two kinds of people, one is someone like Zhuge Liang who can win by surprise, and the other is someone like Sima Yi who is unwilling to become a stumbling block to anyone. In society, you are unwilling to obey others' words and cannot do anything well. But if a person has this attitude, he will slowly become a person that everyone hates. You can choose not to listen to others or do things you don’t want to do, but don’t become an insurmountable mountain in the eyes of others! Before doing things, you must be clear about what exactly is the goal you want to achieve. If this purpose cannot be achieved, then no matter how outstanding you are, you will only be a worthless person!

02. Learn to work hard to seize the opportunity that belongs to you, and don’t let it slip away from

. On the road of life, every opportunity is very important. If you seize this opportunity, your future development will definitely be better. A person who fails to seize the opportunity will never have the opportunity to make you successful. Opportunities are fair to everyone. They are like a seed. As long as you work hard to sow or water, you can grow an oasis. No matter how outstanding you are, you must work hard on yourself and don’t lose yourself before the opportunity comes. Success does not necessarily mean that success is exchanged for material wealth. On the contrary, when you gain something money, you can make yourself richer. If you feel that the opportunity has come, hurry up and seize it. If you feel that there is definitely no hope if you don’t seize it, then give up boldly!

03. Don’t waste time waiting for opportunities, but you should grasp your own rhythm

Many people have not made any improvement in their careers and may pass by opportunities, so they have been waiting to be able to grasp their own rhythm. But in fact, they also waste their time thinking and the knowledge they want to learn. In the end, I was buried by my own interests. This kind of unwillingness is also very common. When you encounter difficulties in life but don’t know how to ask others for help, it is a very bad manifestation. But you have to learn to kill it in the cradle. If you want to have better development and more achievements, you must learn to grasp your own rhythm so that you can not be bound by time.