Is there any extramarital affair that is unscathing to both parties’ marriage and family? I don't think so! This is just a fantasy in the hearts of people with extramarital affairs! Because extramarital affairs and marriage are opposites and incompatible! It is impossible to exist at the same time on the surface; if it exists at the same time, it means that marriage is in the light and extramarital affairs are in the dark!
The illegality of extramarital affair determines that it must be secret and sneaky. During this period, they each felt guilty and uneasy towards their partner. They knew they were sorry for their lovers, but they were lucky, fell again and again, and were trapped in the quagmire and could not extricate themselves! They probably forgot a saying, "If you don't know others, don't do it yourself," and "There is no airtight wall in the world." This kind of despicable behavior will eventually be exposed to the world, leading to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife and the disintegration of the family. Even if the lover chooses to forgive, the relationship between husband and wife will fall apart and be scarred and difficult to recover.
Two people in extramarital affairs have their own families. In terms of their own family relationships, they should be loyal to their marriage and their lover. This is the minimum code of conduct that both husband and wife abide by in a family. In real life, there are always some people who eat what is in the bowl and look at the pot, and they want to pick wild flowers when they see them. They are confused and lost in the flowers. In the end, they destroy their reputations and break up the two families; even worse, they will also kill each other and lose their lives! Think about it, it would be such a tragic thing that would be destroyed by their families for a bad fate, and if they took their own lives!
Therefore, extramarital affair is nuclear bomb . No matter how indestructible a family is, it will easily destroy it! I warn those infatuated and fickle men and women that the flowers outside are bright, after all, they are wild flowers with thorns! It belongs to others, not to you; the flower that belongs to you grows in their respective homes! Only when you give it sunshine and rain every day can he bloom the flower of happiness for you! Don't put the cart before the horse and backfire!