No matter who you marry, you will find that you are not married to, but another one. This is what Qian Zhongshu wrote in the besieged city.
Today, let’s tell you a true story. The third party in love ended my relationship with my wife. Only after divorce did I realize my wife’s efforts and hard work.
I am 40 years old this year. I was originally a stable career, had a car and a house. I have been married for 20 years and have a 17-year-old daughter. I usually like to travel and like to make new friends and meet my ex-wife. It was also a coincidence. After meeting him, I soon expressed my love to her, and he accepted me, so we got married.
A few years before my marriage, my wife and I lived a very comfortable world of two. I drove to some places with good scenery, which was very romantic and comfortable.
As we grow older, our family has also begun to urge us to have children, because the problem of infertility and is particularly serious now. Many women are not prone to pregnancy when they are older, so we followed the advice of our elders and prepared to raise our bodies and have a child.
In less than half a year, my wife became pregnant. The pregnant wife seemed to have changed her figure and appearance, and even her personality changed a lot.
The wife gave birth to the child for ten months. Since the child was also settled, I feel that the child has taken away all his thoughts and the communication between us has become less and less.
It was only after almost a week after the birth of the child that I gradually adapted to the days of having a baby. As the little cutie grew up day by day, I gradually got used to this kind of life. At first, I really never thought that one day my sweetheart would become another kind of person.
Last year was my 39th birthday. My wish was for a family of three to travel to Korea. I planned to travel for a long time and planned to go with my wife while my child was during the summer vacation. As a result, my wife changed her mind halfway. Because my daughter's final grades were not ideal, she slipped from the top ten of the whole grade. She signed up for her daughter to study for many cram schools and planned to improve her grades during this summer vacation.
So our trip was left unresolved, which made me feel very unhappy. My wife disrespectful to me. It only took a few days to travel, and it would be the same if I came back to make up for it. However, my wife felt that the child's grades were not ideal, so she should strike while the iron was hot and get it up quickly.
If I take my child to travel with me, the child will definitely be wild after he comes back, and he will not be able to enter the state of learning. I was depressed and asked a friend to drink and said that by chance, I met the woman who had a crush on me when I was in school. With the help of alcohol, we left each other with contact information.
As we got home and chatted with him, we remembered the memories of our youth in school. We slowly talked about our relationship and started dating and checking in a room, which was out of control.
This woman is still single. He said that he has not met a man who takes care of him enough and wants to have a home, but he has not met a suitable one. Since he met me again, he has hope again.
Since something that shouldn't have happened to me and him, he kept urging my wife and I to divorce her and give her a home.
At that time, I didn't want to divorce because my wife was not at all at fault and could not find a reason to divorce him. Before I could confess, my wife had already discovered my extramarital affair. She cried and said that I was not a human being and was determined to divorce. She also left her daughter to me in anger. Since we found out that I cheated, we took two months to divide the property and give me the custody of her daughter.
Now, I finally didn’t have to date that woman secretly. After divorced my wife, I soon lived with that woman. We lived a life outside the male protagonist and the female protagonist. However, after we lived together for less than half a year, the conflict began to breed little by little.
That woman only cares about herself and doesn’t care about my family at all, especially my daughter. She doesn’t care about it at all. Her daughter’s grades plummeted, and teachers came to me to tell me about her daughter’s situation, and the children became more and more disgusted with studying.
Only then did I understand why my wife was so worried about her children's study. At that time, I not only didn't care about her children's study, but even thought that her wife was a devil, just caring about the child, regardless of him.
But this woman said that the child was not his, why should he care about her? Her daughter, who had not yet come out of the shadow of our divorce, heard that I was quarreling for her, so she ran away from home to find his mother and almost got into a car accident on the way.
I was anxious to find the child, and the woman said, "The child is so old, can you still lose it."
I really hate my original choice. For such a woman, I divorced my wife. How could she say such cold-blooded words in her mouth at 36 degrees? We had a fierce argument that day, and then he took away the property from the family and broke up with me.
Because of my cheating, the people around me have also questioned my character. Many of my partners who used to work with me have terminated the agreement. I am now 40 years old, my career has been blocked, and my family has been broken. Now I am, now I really regret it. I think that love still exists in middle age, but I didn’t expect it to be a fire pit.
After all the passion, what is left? But I can only struggle in this stagnant water.
If I can start over, I hope I can live a simple life and cherish my wife.
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