To be honest, most parents have a weakness. They always habitually protect the youngest child. They believe that the child needs protection the most. Even if the child has grown up, he will still be unconditionally good to the youngest child. This protection from parents often causes family conflicts.
If there are two brothers in the family, after each of them gets married, and their parents blindly protect their younger brother, it is likely to cause disagreement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After all, sons and daughter-in-law are the same. If parents are unfair, many family conflicts will often arise.
When Chen Li married Xiao Ming, she basically did not ask for a bride price because Chen Li knew that Xiao Ming had a younger brother in her family and her in-laws had a heavy task. She was willing to marry into this family and also liked Xiao Ming, and she hoped that the burden on her in-laws could be reduced.
In-laws have loved their younger brother since childhood, and they will give them to their younger brother no matter what good things. Now they see that Chen Li is a soft persimmon and will agree to whatever she does, so they become more unscrupulous and bought a house for their younger brother and gave all the savings at home to their younger brother. They think that their younger brother must help with his younger brother at a young age.
Mother-in-law was also worried that Chen Li would have any objections, so she comforted Chen Li and said, "When you have a child in the future, we will help you, but later Chen Li really had a child, and her younger brother also gave birth to a child. The mother only cared about her younger brother's child and ignored herself at all."
Chen Li hopes that her mother-in-law can show her children, but her mother-in-law said that I still have many accounts that have not been paid off and I can't show you the children. She directly rejected Chen Li, and Chen Li had to watch the children alone. My sister-in-law is a very unreasonable person and has a bad relationship with her mother-in-law. Although her mother-in-law gave almost all her property to her brother, her sister-in-law was still not satisfied. He still thought that her mother-in-law was not giving enough, so she kept a big fuss with her mother-in-law because of this.
Due to disagreement, the two often quarreled on the street. Later, when my younger brother was on a business trip, my sister-in-law drove her mother-in-law out directly. The mother-in-law had no place to go, so she called Chen Li's husband, hoping to live here.
When Chen Li heard about her mother-in-law's experience, she was so angry that she thought about all her property. I gave it to my younger brother, and the child didn't help us. Now you have been kicked out and remembered us, so I didn't agree. I never thought about my husband asking, "Why can't my mother come?" Chen Li said angrily, "Give everything to your brother, I'm kicked out and remembered us, dreaming!"
Chen Li sympathized with her mother-in-law's experience, but this was also the consequence of her mother-in-law blindly indulging her. Seeing that her mother-in-law really had no place to go, Chen Li's husband rented a small house for her mother-in-law outside, and her mother-in-law had a place to settle down. Despite this, the younger brother and sister-in-law still do not think they have the obligation to take care of their mother-in-law. My mother-in-law was also very upset about her past behavior, but the matter was over, so what could the annoyance solve?
Every elderly person is the stabilizing needle in the family. If the elderly are unfair, it may lead to endless conflicts. Only when the elderly learn to deal with children and learn to comfort the children can they truly make this family full of peace. After the children get married, they all have their own homes. Everyone must be responsible for their lives. Parents must not interfere blindly. The property must be fair. Only in this way can the children be convinced and live in peace with each other.
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