The love of young people is a surging river, and they will not care about gains and losses, but a passionate love, and they will not consider whether it is suitable. At that time, love was mutual, and they were only for the precious love. Middle-aged love is a multi-faceted consideration and will never be as desperate as young as you are.
Middle-aged love is a marriage cooperation. Marriage is a process of mutual support between two people and two families. The trivial matters in life cannot be resolved by love alone, and the pressure of society cannot be overcome by a simple love. Marriage is a strong alliance between two people and a strong alliance between two families.
In modern times, it still considers the family situation of both parties, not to mention the importance of being a good match in ancient times. In the history of the Han Dynasty, there was such a general who was extraordinary and praised by the emperor for many years. His own sister was also a person by the emperor's side, but he chose a widow who was more than ten years older than him and twice widowed to accompany him for the rest of his life.
In ancient times, he paid attention to etiquette and was a good match, why did he do this? Is it really that simple?
growth history of famous generals
This famous general from Han Dynasty is familiar to everyone. He is very famous in history. He has made Leilei military achievements many times, and is respected by Han Chinese . He has given a inferior identity and gained a halo step by step through his own efforts.
His father and mother were both at the bottom of society and served some royal nobles. His birth was even more humble than that of children from ordinary families because he was an illegitimate child. His mother and her first husband had two sons and one daughter. Unfortunately, the first husband died in an accident. The mother was working in the princess's house at that time and was born with an affair with a county official.
So Wei Qing has never been seen by anyone from beginning to end. Benchu's mother brought him by her side. However, it was difficult for a woman to raise four children. She still had to work. She really couldn't give up her extra energy to take care of this young child. As a last resort, she had no choice but to give the child to his biological father.
But even in the Zheng family, his biological father, he was not welcomed because he was born as an illegitimate child. He only treated him as an inconspicuous servant. Several children born in the Zheng family did not really like him, and they often bullyed and beat him together. The poor and weak man lived until he became an adult in such an environment.
After adulthood, he resolutely left the Zheng family and defected to his mother's arms. His mother dragged his relationship and arranged for him to give the princess's orders at the princess's mansion. From then on, I completely got rid of his unbearable childhood.
Encounter with the princess
Under the introduction of his mother, he successfully became a servant in the princess's mansion. The princess has always been harmonious in nature and is caring for her servants. The whole princess's mansion respects the princess very much. The princess's husband at that time was Cao Shou . At first, the two had a very loving relationship, but later the conflicts escalated and they often quarreled over trivial matters in life. After
, his husband also unfortunately passed away. She went from being accompanied by a woman to being ignored by no one. It was Wei Qing's appearance. Wei Qing's strong character made her feel protected again, and the gentle character of the princess was also the first time Wei Qing felt kindness.
Later, because of his sister Wei Zifu , under the recommendation of the princess, he entered the palace to become a concubine. Because of the relationship that Wei Zifu blessed the two, the contact between the two gradually became frequent. However, Wei Qing has lived in a plot of inferiority since childhood. He has always been inferior to his identity and dared not approach the princess.
The princess in front of him was a royal family. How could he be worthy of such an unknown young man? So he never dared to express his feelings to the princess.
Just like this, two people who have good intentions to each other silently accompany each other.
"Light" of the famous generals
Because Wei Qing was born, he only did the most humble position and raised a groom. By chance, as a groom, he went hunting with the emperor of the dynasty. The emperor showed his skills on the hunting ground and gestured his martial arts, where he showed his heroic posture.
, who accompanied him quickly stepped forward to flatter the emperor and kept praising the emperor for his extraordinary martial arts. After hearing the praise from everyone, the emperor smiled happily and invited them to go to the next place. seemed to have forgotten the horse who accompanied him to win these honors, and everyone surrounded the high emperor.
Only one person did not enjoy everyone, but instead knelt under the horse sadly and wiped the wound for it. His crying attracted the attention of the emperor. The emperor was puzzled and asked quickly, "Why are you crying? Didn't my skills make you surrender?" The young man raised his head and replied to the emperor, "No, Your Majesty, I am sad for this horse."
As soon as he said this, he aroused the emperor's interest and asked again, "Why?"
Youth returned to "my country has a vast territory and a prosperous population. All men are good men who stand tall and stand tall, but they are often defeated on the battlefield. It is because the Huns cherish their horses, so the horses are willing to be used by them, but our soldiers do not cherish their horses, and the horses are naturally not as obedient as the enemy."
"Even in order to avoid war, this goal can only be achieved through princesses and relatives." The emperor was ashamed after hearing this, and also appreciated the young man's experience and promoted him to the General of the Cavalry.
This young man is Wei Qing. After becoming the General of the Cheqi Cavalry, he did not feel complacent about it. Instead, he worked harder to serve the emperor and fight for this country. In the first battle after his appointment, he won the emperor. This was the first victory in the Han Dynasty in several years. Not only that, he also captured several prisoners and returned to the Han Dynasty.
For a moment, he became famous. Everyone called him a genius from heaven and the "light" of the Han Dynasty. His battle brought about the morale of the Han people and inspiring people. We are no longer the object of bullying. We finally ushered in a day when we could speak with our backs.
Because of these glory, he was immediately posthumously named General. This time he finally had the identity to stand by the princess. It just so happened that the emperor was willing to facilitate the two of them to help them complete this beautiful thing.
Wei Zifu successfully took office as the queen. Wei was called the general when he was young. The princess is gentle and royal. The two of them united to bring endless honors to the family.
Conclusion
So there is no unfair way. I think Wei Qing must have married a widow who is not worthy of him. Instead, in his heart, he always believed that only such himself is worthy of the princess.
There is never any good or unworthy in love. If you really love someone, you will try your best to succeed and become famous and stand by her side, instead of complaining about the unfairness of the world, why can't you be born noble?
Everything you want is made by your sweat and hard work.
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