Preface:
45-year-old nanny said she had a monthly salary of 7,000 yuan. The employer treated me as his wife and took care of his family. What happened? Let’s take a look at the incident!
45-year-old Ms. Yang said:
When I was 35 years old, I left the countryside and went to work in the city. Because I don’t like doing farm work, I think it’s too tiring to do farm work. I was blown by the sun and wind all day long. My husband also understood me, and he said that as long as I am happy, it’s fine.
After I arrived in the city, my horizons became wider and I met many people. I felt that my husband was not worthy of me anymore. My husband knew how to farm and couldn't dress up. He looked like an uncle. He walked with him and he looked like my dad. Later, I divorced my husband. At that time, many people also said that I was not conscientious and said that I shouldn't abandon my husband like this, but I no longer cared about that much. After all, I no longer had feelings for my husband. There is no need to be together.
After the divorce, I continued to work outside. Later, our factory went bankrupt. After that, I wanted to find another factory, but because I was old, the factory did not recruit women of my age. During that time, I was a little confused. Just then, a friend of my friends came to see me. My friend said that she went to work as a nanny and the salary was pretty good. After hearing what my friend said, I also wanted to work as a nanny. I think it is good to work as a nanny, with a high salary and not very tired.
I really went to be a nanny afterwards. At that time, I was a nanny for an old man. The old man was already 70 years old and he gave me a salary of 7,000 a month. At that time, the old man lived with his children and I had to take care of their family. Every morning when I woke up, I would prepare breakfast for his two young grandchildren, and then send his two young grandchildren to kindergarten. After coming back, I would prepare breakfast for the old man, and then accompany the old man for a walk. After the walk, I would also go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and I would pick up his two young grandchildren to come back in the evening. After picking him up, I would have to help his two young grandchildren take a bath.
His daughter-in-law came back in the evening, and then he pulled me to accompany him to dance square dance. After a day, I didn’t have time to rest. I felt that I was no longer like his nanny. I was more like his wife. Sometimes the employer was feeling uncomfortable and asked me to help him with a bath. At the beginning, I felt a little embarrassed and slowly accepted it later.
I have been working at my employer's house for a year and some of them want to quit because I feel that my job has exceeded the scope of a nanny's job. I am really too tired. Although the salary of 7,000 yuan is very high, I still feel it is not worth it. If I continue to work like this, my body will collapse. It is very expensive to go to the hospital now. It costs hundreds of yuan to go to the hospital. I am really afraid of my physical problems.
When I told my friend about this, my friend also advised me to resign. My friend said that I am no longer like a nanny, so it would be better to quit earlier.
Author's opinion:
As an employer, you must be more considerate of your nanny, don't think you have paid, and then you keep squeezing the nanny. The nanny is also a human being and needs to be respected. If you are not good to the nanny, the nanny will feel unhappy, and they will even resign. In this era, it is really not easy to find a good nanny. If you meet that kind of bad nanny, you will live a hard life, so you must cherish it just now.
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