When many people's inherent impression of third parties is still stuck, the mistress is a woman who is younger, beautiful and frivolous than the original wife.
There have been a large number of people in reality, and the third type is exactly the opposite of these inherent impressions.
They are older than their original wife, and they are not as young and beautiful as their original wife, and they also look mature and steady.
But it can make the cheating men abandon their beautiful little wives for them. What is the charm of these older mistresses?
Some time ago, the Blue Party just handled an extramarital affair case in this situation.
The original wife Ms. Zhu and her husband have been married for seven years, and they have two children, one son and one daughter.
Live with your in-laws. Both of them have stable jobs and their income is not low.
My father-in-law also has a job, and many of the children's consumption are spent by my father-in-law, and the two of them are under little pressure.
usually lives a good life. Later, because of her father-in-law's physical problems,
could only retire early, spending a lot of money, and the two began to feel the pressure.
The sudden economic pressure already made Ms. Zhu feel uncomfortable.
I didn’t expect that there would be something even more uncomfortable. Her husband actually cheated on him during this period.
At first, Ms. Zhu felt that her husband was acting abnormally and always used the excuse of working overtime late to go home.
She suspected that her husband cheated on him. When she secretly flipped through her phone, she targeted the young and beautiful opposite sex.
got nothing, and she thought that she had thought too much and wronged her husband.
Until some time ago, her father-in-law said that when she was hospitalized, a female leader of her husband also came to the company.
took a lot of things, shouting at her uncle, and saying that she could find her if she had any difficulties.
His father-in-law felt that this was a favor debt and wanted Ms. Zhu and her husband to invite the leader to dinner to pay it back.
But her husband's reaction is very intriguing. Her husband is unwilling to do so and said it is not necessary.
Her father-in-law is very persistent, and her husband said that the female leader would not care about these things.
is just persistent and unwilling to do so. Ms. Zhu thinks that if it were her, she would definitely invite her. It is also important to establish a good relationship with her leader.
So she suddenly thought that her husband cheated on him and this female leader. She did not make any statement after
, but she was deliberately paying attention. Her husband was indeed chatting with this female leader when he came home every day.
But there is nothing in the chat history, it is obviously deleted.
If two people only talk about work, or there is nothing abnormal, there is no need to delete the chat history.
So she mentioned that she wanted to treat her to dinner again, and even sent a message to the female leader regardless of the objection of the cheating man.
Results The female leader replied, "Do your wife know?" Will your wife? There is obviously something wrong with
. The cheating man probably knows that Ms. Zhu is suspicious and is not stubborn.
says being with a female leader is just for resources and for the benefits that the female leader can bring.
Ms. Zhu couldn't accept it and asked them to break up. The man who cheated on her was unwilling to do so.
Ms. Zhu came to Lan for help and asked me what to do?
Now older mistresses are considered a popular trend, and in many cases, the object of men cheating is this kind of cushion. .
Older third parties have the main charm of attracting cheating men.
The first type is high value and profitable.
Not all extramarital affair models are: mistresses are money, cheating men are enjoying.
The two hit it off immediately, the cheating man gave money, the mistress pleased the cheating man, and the two had an extramarital affair.
Many cheating men are very realistic. They look at the conditions when looking for wives, and they look at the conditions when looking for a third party.
So older third parties have a market, because they are high in value and their conditions may be better than the original partners.
is like the third party in this case, which is higher than the cheating man and richer than the cheating man.
The original wife had no other advantages in front of such a mistress except for being young and beautiful.
So it is easy for a cheating man to surrender because of his interests and divorce for such an older mistress.
The second type is completely opposite to the original wife. A cheating man can find a sense of dependence.
Many mistresses may have average conditions, but they can still force the cheating man to divorce his original wife.
is because the mistress is relatively mature, and the cheating man is not mature enough.
They are the ones they are dependent on in their family and feel that they can't bear it.
When looking for extramarital lovers, they will want to find someone they can rely on.
The lovers a man like this are looking for are much older than himself and can be used to rely on.
The mistress may be less in the same condition as the original wife, but she is more mature and stable than the original wife.
can make men with cheating psychological comfort and can also give men with cheating some life help.
The third type can give the cheating man a true maternal love.
This is also one of the main reasons why many men cheat, because there are problems with their original family.
Therefore, lack of maternal love, it is easy to have a good impression of older women. It is not love, but the demand for maternal love.
This is also common in extramarital affairs cases. Some men whose parents are divorced and do not live with their mothers since childhood.
When they look for their girlfriends, they may tend to look for older than themselves.
After getting married, you may still not be able to meet your inner needs, so you will find an older age to meet your inner needs.
As for how to solve it, specific problems need to be analyzed .
Like Ms. Zhu, what she has to do is to directly contact the mistress.
directly tell the mistress, if you continue this extramarital affair, I will report you to the company with evidence.
Most private companies may not have much constraints on their original wife's private morals, but they will never allow it.
leaders use their positions to develop extramarital affair and also give their lovers some career help.
These are not issues of private morality, but issues that harm the interests of the company.
If the mistress is allowed to choose among careers and cheating men, the mistress will definitely choose a career.
If the mistress is in love, she will definitely not be able to sit in the position of the leader. The mistress is unwilling to continue, and cheating on the man will continue to be entangled.
is a threat to the mistress's interests and career, and the mistress will deal with the cheating man.
The best way to solve extramarital affair is to let the cheating man and mistress tear each other and collapse internally.
Finally, Lan Fang wanted to say that older mistresses can indeed confuse some cheating men.
However, such mistresses also have many fatal injuries on them, which can be used by the original wives. After
was cheated, the original wives were self-doubted compared to whether they were inferior to the mistress.
might as well think about where the charm of the mistress is and how to solve the extramarital affair.
If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
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