The development of society has promoted the improvement of living standards. Logically speaking, the better the living conditions, the higher the sense of happiness, but this is not the case in real life.
Whether it is parents or children, everyone's pressure has increased instead of reducing compared to decades ago, and the ubiquitous competition is overwhelming.
Of course, it is a good thing to pursue and have goals, but blindly comparing is meaningless. Life is your own life, and it is a bit of a bit of putting the cart before the horse if you care too much about others.
Take the bride gift as an example. High bride gifts in many places are compared. The next door costs 200,000 yuan, but the home cannot be less than 200,000 yuan, or even more than 200,000 yuan. In the final analysis, it is still the face that is at the cost of the blame.
23-year-old girl was forced to marry by her parents
Over time, high bride price became a conventional "rule". Some parents just wanted to earn face, while some parents regarded bride price as real income.
Marry one and then marry another. There is such a custom in many places. It is very normal to use the bride gift for marrying a daughter to give it to the mother-in-law of the son.
However, marriage is a matter of two people. It is important to be in love and one's own will. If the daughter is not willing, there is no way. The parents directly used the trick of to morally kidnap and used both soft and hard work on the 23-year-old daughter.
This girl had a boyfriend when she was working in another place. She was driven away by her parents because she could not afford the bride price and asked her to marry a "rich family" in the next village. This kind of thing could not be forced. The girl had to run away from home without any way out.
Wandering in the wilderness and unwilling to go home
Because she was in a hurry, she didn't even have time to bring her clothes with her, and her phone was locked off by her parents, just to prevent her from escaping. She didn't expect her to leave so resolutely.
When the villagers discovered this girl, she had been wandering outside for nearly half a month. Because she didn't bring her ID or mobile phone, she could only search through the trash can to find food.
"Prepare to work in Guangdong, and I will never come back in the future!" When I said this, the girl's eyes were not firm. She was completely disappointed with her parents. For the same child, she had to sacrifice her happiness to help her younger brother, but no one cared about her happiness.
Buy a house for your younger brother
There has been a legend of " Helping Brother Demon " in society. Although this title is very comedic, you will definitely not be able to laugh when you meet such a girlfriend or wife.
Of course, it is appropriate for brothers and sisters to help each other, but help must be done within their means. You can’t give your brother a big meal when you are hungry.
This is not a matter of concern. This girl has no obligation to buy a house for her younger brother. That is her own business. If her parents want to help, they will help themselves. There is no reason to exchange for her daughter's lifelong happiness.
If you have the ability, buy it, and if you don’t have the ability, stare at it honestly. What about the palms and backs of your hands?
However, then again, you should have your own opinions at the age of 23. The grace of parents should be rewarded, but when it comes to lifelong happiness, you should still deal with it decisively.
The right way to borrow a mobile phone as soon as possible to contact friends. It is not realistic to walk to Guangdong. Let’s settle yourself first.
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