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I never feel that material poverty can completely crush a person, but the ideological poverty caused by material poverty will affect a person's life.
Because this will change your thinking, vision and pattern, and will also make your living habits and some behaviors in dealing with people and people's lives become selfish and narrow.
A person is used to being poor, and he will at least have the following three obvious bad habits. You'd better not take any of them.
1: Like to take advantage of small gains in interpersonal communication, thinking that you are very smart, but in fact you are easily looked down upon
There is an idiom called "The villain will succeed", which is the most suitable way to describe such a person.
Some women are used to being poor, always accustomed to taking advantage of others in interpersonal communication, and are complacent about their cleverness, but in fact, their behavior has long been looked down upon by others.
For example, secretly taking the company's tissue home, such as taking some vegetables from other people's vegetables in supermarkets or vegetable markets, such as eating and drinking at other people's wedding or birthday parties, but not paying a share of money...
This behavior of taking advantage of small things makes people feel that it is boring, but they don't realize it and naturally cannot change it, because they are used to being poor and even their thoughts are poor.
2: There is no correct consumption concept, don’t buy what should be bought, and try hard to buy what should not be bought
Women who are used to being poor never look at whether they need it or whether they like it, and only seek to be cheap. Because they feel that if they don’t buy discounted items, they will lose money, and if they don’t buy them, they won’t be able to buy them.
So we often see many people who are desperately stocking up during the event, and they often expire after using it, but they will not change it. If they encounter discounts, they will continue to buy it.
People who have not lacked money may not understand their psychology.
In fact, they are used to being poor and afraid of being poor. Their thinking has been fixed and cannot be changed at all.
For example, most people only need to eat enough to eat well, but they are different. They must finish eating. Even if they eat too much and feel uncomfortable, they will not be willing to waste it. This is the inherent habit formed by long-term poverty.
A woman is used to being poor and often does not have a correct consumption concept. She buys what should not be bought and doesn’t buy what should be bought; she saves what should not be saved, but she doesn’t realize it.
3: Slightly and timid, and do things in a simplistic way, resulting in short-sighted and limited layout
is not generous enough in consumption, and it is difficult for people who often slightly and do things decisively. They can't take it or let it go. They are afraid of wolves in front and tigers in the back, and often live a twisted and struggling life.
Over time, their eyes will become particularly short-sighted and even the pattern will be limited.
For example, in the education of children, they have been trapped in a narrow circle for a long time, and have less and less knowledge, so they feel that studying is useless, so they might as well drop out of school early and go out to work.
So when the children have not graduated from junior high school or high school, they instill this idea in them, telling them that although their children have not gone to college, they earn more than those who go to college.
So reading is useless, making money early is real.
Once you have such ideas, your child’s future will be in danger. They may also be trapped in such a misunderstanding of thinking and will never move up again. If the circle of survival is fixed, it will be difficult to change their fate.
This is the impact of poverty on a person. Material poverty leads to ideological poverty. If the heart is poor and the ambition is short, it will be difficult to think about it in this life, and the next generation will be affected.
People who are used to being poor, regardless of men or women, will limit their thinking, vision and pattern. After all, when a person is struggling on the line of food and clothing, he has no intention of thinking about other things.
He has no spiritual pursuit and enjoyment, he cannot access a higher circle, nor can he have more insights. Over time, his heart will naturally become poor and poor.
This reminds us not to accept our fate so easily. Material poverty cannot defeat a person. We must make money well, save money well, and then continue to learn and see the world.
Only in this way can you not be defeated by poverty, making your life more and more difficult and worse.
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