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text: Shili
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"I have been particularly painful and secret recently, because my boyfriend asked me to give up my career and move to his city to develop. He said that I can do it if I don't go to work, and he earned enough money by himself, saying that he can support me for the rest of my life. In response to this, my parents firmly opposed it and asked my boyfriend to give up his job and come here, but my boyfriend refused and said that I would break up if I didn't go there. I really don't know what to do now?" Two days ago, a reader friend sent such a private message.
Seeing this thought, the author was mixed with thoughts.
For this reader friend, she actually doesn’t have to be so entangled or painful, because even if that man loves her, he doesn’t love much, and he will not be responsible for you for the rest of his life.
If a man truly loves a woman deeply, he will never force the woman to make a choice, nor will he let the woman sacrifice herself to fulfill her, because they are reluctant to leave.
Only selfish men can do this.
is like this reader's boyfriend. He can sacrifice women but does not intend to sacrifice himself.
Perhaps some women will think that their efforts can be exchanged for the other party’s cherishment.
But I don’t know that all the love of a man is an ideal consideration.
When you give up your job and stay on the spot, but he is moving forward all the way, your relationship will sooner or later have problems.
Because when both parties are unbalanced, love will slowly disappear.
The man who once loved you as much as his life will sooner or later despise you, because he has more choices and will naturally not be satisfied with you.
Really good relationship must be evenly matched by both sides. Although you are excellent, I am not bad either.
Only scumbags can use love to deceive and kidnap a woman.
When scumbags cheat women, they always like to say three words
You resign and come to me, and I will support you in the future.
" King of Comedy " has such a scene that has always been praised.
This scene is a conversation between the little dragon supporting role Yin Tianchou and the dancer Liu Piaopiao .
that day Liu Piaopiao was about to go to work, but Yin Tianchou stopped him, and the following conversation made the classic.
"Hey"!
"What's the matter?"
"Is it okay not to work?"
"If you don't work, do you support me?"
"I support you!"
"I support you!"
This scene has touched countless people.
At that time, women thought that I would raise you as a man, and I was the greatest responsibility to women.
But I didn’t know that everyone later knew that I raised you and was the biggest scam for scumbags.
Because men's "I raise you" and women's "I raise you" are all different things.
Men's I raise you, but this time, and that time, just give women a stutter.
And I support you this, there is a price.
The price is that women must be responsible for housework, eat three meals a day, take care of their families in an orderly manner, and give themselves enough respect.
If a woman cannot do this, then the man will consider whether it is worth it or not before raising this woman.
But in the eyes of women, I raise you, but men will be unconditionally responsible for themselves for the rest of their lives and will not lower their ideal living standards.
Therefore, the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment.
I thought you would support me for the rest of my life, but I didn’t know you were just talking.
Those men who make women resign and say I raise you are actually selfish behaviors of scumbags.
When a woman resigns for love and moves to live with him, she is inseparable at first. When the days go by and after a long time, the gap between men becomes stronger and bigger, and the past is often self-evident.
Most men will start to dislike it and then ruthlessly abandon this woman who gives all her own efforts.
They will forget their original promises and will only push everything to the woman themselves.
said irresponsible words, "You came here by yourself, and I didn't force you to make a choice."
Just like Chen Junsheng, who said he wanted to raise Luo Zijun for the rest of his life in " My First Half of Life ".
After ten years of hard work, I still fell under another woman who could help me understand myself.
When people have a choice, they will only yearn for something better.
If you don’t have the confidence, you will only become the abandoned party.
Don’t be afraid, I will be responsible for you.
The lie that women hear the most during the interaction between men and women may be this sentence.
The reason why they say this is not that they really want to be responsible for women for the rest of their lives.
instead use this sentence to deceive women into being soft-hearted in order to achieve their potential goals.
Especially before a man and a woman have sex, scumbags always like to guarantee women all kinds of guarantees.
always said confidently: "I will be responsible."
So the woman chose to trust this man.
result a few weeks later, the woman checked and showed "two bars".
And the man who once swore to be responsible for his whole life seemed to have evaporated from the world and disappeared completely.
So, when a woman hears a man say this, she must be responsible for herself and must not be paralyzed by sweet words.
If you are not responsible for yourself, then no one will be responsible for you.
A woman's pregnancy before marriage must be irresponsible to herself and will only push herself into an endless abyss.
What's more, a man who truly loves you will never let you take such a huge risk.
They will only think about you everywhere and will not force you to make choices.
I only like you.
In reality, the scumbag always says that I only like you, but there is a fish in the pond on my phone.
He said that he will only hang himself on your tree.
But he had a lot of ravines in his heart, planting thousands of acres of peach forests.
is just like Shen Congwen once loved Zhang Zhao and .
That year, Shen Congwen wrote thousands of love letters to Zhang Zhaohe, which made others envious.
The most well-known sentence is : "I have traveled to many bridges, seen clouds many times, and drank many kinds of wine, but I have only loved ones of the right age."
At that time, everyone thought that Shen Congwen would only love Zhang Zhaohe in his life, because she was the only person he loved the best age.
But what level of thinking is that Shen Congwen, the love in everyone's eyes, finally went against his love and cheated on Gao Qingzi.
Look, no matter how nice a man says it, it doesn’t make any sense if he is not sincere.
Is a man good or not? Do you love you? Don’t look at what he says to you, but what he does to you.
Because a man's mouth is a lie, it is hard to be believed.
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Today's topic: "Do you think it's right?"
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