Preface:
50-year-old Brother Lin said that he was isolated and used as a male nanny for his 68-year-old sister. I didn’t do it every month’s salary of 10,000 yuan. What’s going on? Let’s take a look at the incident!
50-year-old Brother Lin said:
I went out to work as a nanny when I was 45 years old. At that time, my friend said that the salary of nanny was very high, especially male nanny. Many employers like to hire male nanny . They think men are more steady in doing things and don’t have too many little thoughts, so they will be easier to get along with.
When I first started working as a nanny, I was really a little uncomfortable. When others asked me what job I did? I was embarrassed to answer that I was a nanny because I was afraid that others would laugh at me. After all, in the eyes of many people, nanny is a job of serving people, and they think nanny is inferior.
After working for two years, I began to fall in love with the job of a nanny. Although the job of a nanny is to serve people, the salary of a nanny is very high, with six or seven thousand yuan a month, which is higher than those urban white-collar workers. When I get older, I am not afraid of others laughing at me. I think as long as I can make money, it is enough. Money can give people a sense of security. As long as I have money in my pocket, I am not afraid of anything.
I am also 50 years old this year. Some time ago, I changed my employer. The new employer is an aunt. She is already 68 years old. I am her nanny. Because she is not in good health, she is always worried that something will happen to her at night, and there is not even a person around her. Her requirements for me are very simple, just hope that I will be with her at all times. She said that the reason why she hired a male nanny was because she felt that men were stronger. If she fainted, I could carry her to the hospital.
At the beginning, I thought she was a good person to get along with. When I talk to her, she always smiled. If I did something wrong, she would not scold me. She said that as long as I learned my lesson, I would not make mistakes next time.
Usually the employer would ask me to accompany her on a trip. She said that before hiring a nanny, she would go out alone. She felt that it was boring to go out alone and hoped that someone could accompany her. Now I can accompany her. She felt very happy. At that time, I felt very lucky. It was really a good thing to be a nanny and travel for free.
Once I went to Hainan with my employer. At night, the employer asked me to accompany her for a walk on the beach. Later, the employer confessed to me, saying that I looked very much like her first love boyfriend, and she could not forget her first love boyfriend, so she wanted to be with me to make up for the regrets of that year. When I heard her say this, I immediately refused because the age difference between us was too big. If we were together, we would definitely be laughed at by others. I am a person with good face and I am particularly afraid of being laughed at by others. The employer behind
told me that if I was willing to be with her, she would give me a salary of 10,000 yuan. If I didn’t want to, she would fire me. Later, I told her that I still don’t want it. She also felt helpless when she saw my attitude. She didn’t expect that I was such a stubborn person.
After that incident happened, I voluntarily resigned and left. I felt that it was not appropriate for me to continue working there. Even if the employer raised me to 10,000, I didn’t want to do that job anymore, I felt scared.
Author's opinion:
Although a salary of 10,000 is very tempting, you cannot do things that hurt your self-esteem for money. Money is very important, and self-esteem is also very important. To make choices between money and self-esteem, you would rather choose self-esteem, because if a person loses self-esteem, he will not be respected, and his life will be very difficult in the future.
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